Parents, “Stop Being Lazy And Start Having Sex” Or Else….., Says Tracy Cox

Most parents will agree that their sex lives have taken a dive since they started having babies. Apart from mothers whose biological and psychological complexities are generally responsible for their turn off from sex, new studies have shown that caring fathers also witness a drop in their sex drive as their testosterone levels drop. It might be okay for a while if a couple’s relationship does exist without sex but will be detrimental to the health of the relationship in the long run, if Tracy Cox thoughts on this subject is anything to go by.

Referring to a study Sex expert, Tracy Cox said “if sex is non-existent, relationship dissatisfaction soars to 50 to 70 percent.” And, there’s more;

You’ll feel disconnected to your partner.

You can remain physically connected by hugging, kissing and sleeping naked but for most people, sex is the most intimate act. For men, particularly, sex is a way of expressing love if they’re not great at articulating their emotions.

Take sex off the table and you remove the most intense, effective, important way of showing affection.

Love without sex is friendship.

If you’ve had great sex the night before, you’re far less likely to flip when you see the rubbish still sitting in the hall.

You’ll feel insecure.

Knowing you’re desired and wanted by your partner, endorses your sense of self-worth. It makes you feel attractive, loved, special.

Even if have both joked about the fact that you’re not having sex anymore, the closest couple are left with a nervous residue of uncertainty.

Did they agree to abstinence because they really couldn’t care less about sex? Or because they want to please me?

You’ll increase the chances of an affair.

Here’s the thing about sex: when you stop having it, you stop wanting it (which is how couples end up agreeing – openly or implied – to do without).

But sex doesn’t go away. Sexual images are everywhere and sexy people are all around us. All it takes is a certain set of circumstances (all too often in the form of another person who’s attractive and does want to have sex with either us or our partner) and suddenly a desire for sex can come flooding back.

What then? They know you aren’t interested or vice versa. What do you do with that resurgence of desire? No surprise that there’s a significant link between sexual dissatisfaction and infidelity.

You’ll lose your mind – literally.

Sex is good for you, both physically and mentally. Sex makes us smarter: scientists found indulging regularly leads to better performance on learning and memory tests. It comes as no surprise that there’s a significant link between sexual dissatisfaction and infidelity

You’ll get more headaches and migraines.

Orgasms release oxytocin and endorphins which can help relieve migraines, period pains and back pain.

You’ll die sooner.

If you’re not already grabbing your partner and disappearing into the bedroom fast, this might do the job. Studies show the risk of death for middle-age men drops by 50 per cent for men who have orgasms at least twice a month.

Sex twice a week also prevents heart disease in both sexes, reduces the risk of both breast and prostate cancer and boosts our immune system.

Isn’t it time you turned off the telly?

Don’t want to end up in a sexless marriage? Tracey’s book Supersex for Life is a great sex guide for long-term partners.

 

Source: Dailymail UK