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Who Agrees? 6 Signs Your Nigerian Man Is A Big Con As Written By A Kenyan City Girl

Who Agrees? 6 Signs Your Nigerian Man Is A Big Con As Written By A Kenyan City Girl

A disgruntled Kenyan blogger, City girl, calls out Nigerian men by asking, “What is it with Kenyan women and Nigerian men? What is it with those short, stocky bearded West African mohines that make Kenyan women move planets for them?

We have heard enough stories about how Kenyan women borrowed loans for their Nigerian boyfriends to pay for ‘containers with goods worth millions’ stuck at the port only for the Nigerian man to disappear.

I know Kenyan women whose careers and lives have come to a standstill after a Nigerian man swept them clean, and I mean clean; car, house, land, money
 everything.

So today, ladies, I chose to address this topic, once and for all. After this, I don’t expect any of you to be conned by a so-called ‘romantic’ Nigerian man. I will only say this once.

Stay away from Nigerian men! All Nigerian men are conmen. Repeat after me; “All Nigerian men are conmen”. There are no exceptions here. When you see a Nigerian man, run the other way. Don’t stop to invoke the name of Jesus or pray. Just take cover.

While you are at it, here are a few pointers you need to look out for in a Nigerian man. If he exhibits any of these traits, then you are dealing with a riffraff.”

City Girl continues….

1. He is too romantic: You have never met a man like him. He treats you like a glass statue and worships the ground you walk on. He is not like the unromantic men who don’t text you back or return your calls. He calls you ‘baby’ all the time except when he calls you ‘my queen’.

You have never been immersed in so much love and affection. You are literally intoxicated in his love. He will even paint your toenails and shampoo your hair. Red flag.

He is fattening you up for slaughter. He is warming your heart. Softening you up by leading you to believe that you have found the one. It is not humanly possible for a man to be 100 per cent romantic, 24 hours a day, seven days a week. That romantic man is up to something.

2. He throws money at you: No man in his right mind will throw money at a woman. But this man is the most generous man you have ever met in your life. He even gives you money before you ask for it because ‘you are special and you deserve it’.

He debunks every myth you have ever heard about men swindling women of their money. You relax and put your guard down. You think that the Lord has finally smiled upon you and given you a wonderful man who is not only loving, but also rich. All those prayers you prayed for a husband have finally been answered. Shock on you.

He is making an investment and he knows what he is doing. He will shower you with gifts and money amounting to 1 million, knowing very well that he will con you 3 million and make a profit 2 million. Tax free.

One day, when you least expect, he will strike. He will be in dire need of some 2 million for a deal and because he has created an illusion of wealth, you will readily give in. You will run to borrow money and that will be the beginning of your heartbreak.

3. He moves in with you: So he gives you a cock and bull story about how he is putting up with a friend but has been unsuccessfully looking for a house. You pity him and allow him to put up with you in your house for a short while before he finds a bigger house for the two of you.

Every week, he has a new excuse. “Oh, I found one but it is too big.” “Oh, I found another one in Lavington but I don’t like it.”

A week turns into a month and before you know it, you are co-habiting with him. But because he treats you so nice (and sometimes even washes the dishes), you are blind to his antics. Be very worried.

4. He drives your car: My friends told me this, and I couldn’t believe it. How does a woman give her man her car to go drinking out with the ‘boys’ as she takes a matatu to work?

So he uses cabs all the time and you think it is just unfair for him to spend so much money on cabs, yet you have a car. You lend him yours and before you know it, he is dropping you at work in your car, goes out drinking with his friends in your car and suddenly that car is no longer yours. Be warned.

A real man does not drive woman’s car and a smart woman does not allow a man to use her car to run his errands. If he doesn’t have a car, let him use a cab or buy one.

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5. He has mysterious ‘trips’: He purports to be a businessman but you are not exactly sure what he does for a living. He travels often to Dubai, China, Thailand and Singapore for ‘business trips’.

You don’t care what he does for a living mainly because of all the goodies he brings you. Lingerie. Expensive shoes. Perfumes. Dresses. Bags.

He says he does business but has never really taken you to his office, nor have you met any of his business partners. Be especially wary of men who purport to sell gold or cars.

He hasn’t given you a business card, but you are still okay with it because he seems flashy and talks big. Silly girl.

One day you are going about your business and the next day you are a suspect for a car-theft syndicate and police will insist that you are harbouring a criminal on Interpol’s watch list. And you thought he loved you for your great personality!

6. You run errands for him: He takes you on a ‘holiday’ to China and throws money at your feet. He allows you to buy whatever you like because ‘you are special and you deserve it’.

On your way back, he tells you to carry a package for him to deliver to his friend because he has no space in his bag. You readily agree. I mean, after all the bags he has bought you, you must have some space. Foolish girl.

That man is using you as a conduit for drugs and you only realise it when you are frantically calling your aging relatives from the airport cells and the man is long gone.

Source: nairobinews

View Comments (24)
  • Nigerian men never cease to amaze me. That’s said, I think the Kenya women too are pretty stupid falling for all those lies.

  • This is just another cheap victim to another Nigeria sugar coated mouth. I don’t know why women make them selves vulnerable to lies.

  • All Nigerian men are not con artist o. At least my male siblings and my hubby or even my dad are not like that

  • Mind u not all Nigeria men are conmen, kenya women shine ur eye very well, and pls leave Nigeria men alone.

  • She should shut her big mouth up. There are conmen everywhere. Even some of your country are not left out.

  • days a serious fallacy.how can all nija men b like dat.besides sum of dose points she listed are possessed by some real good men too.they run after d Nigerian men because they want and see sumtn diff from their usual chauvinistic kenyan men

  • This cheap city whor* or sorry girl must b a very lousy girl to attract stupid conmen from Nigeria that now makes her to say ALL Nigerian men r conmen. As far as am concerned, u attract ur kinds. U &ur friends who by the way are birds of same feathers must b lousy ladies who are into guys who spend big so dont complain when you are taken for a ride after all when the going was good& he was pampering & showering u wt gifts we did not get a complaint. Abeg go take several seats joor

  • It applies to d whole world not jst Nigerian men alone all con men r d same irrespective of colour tongue or nation

  • Message.. Stupid girl seeking for attention if all nigerian men re same then all kenyan women re harlot…. End of story

  • She is silly for that generalization. By the way mugu fall, guy man chop am.

  • It means all Kenyan men are animals if not why would Kenyan women Troup after them? That’s all I could deduce from this allegations….

  • You people should stop tarnishing the image of that country, you have issue with your so called boyfriend go and settle it with him. Its not about the country these is individual differences, he pushed drugs just as you say, if you are not the fool, you don’t know what your man does for a living and you are still going out with him, Stop saying Nigeria men are bad, there are always bad eggs among in all country not only Nigeria even Kenya guys also, just as they all say all men are the same not all are like that so stop fooling your self and find that mother fucker, get him arrested instead of condemning my country. I LOVE MY COUNTRY

  • Na God go punish your mouth for saying all Nigerians, next time specify your words by using my Nigeria boyfriend or moreover mention his name

  • Foolish city girl, this one is just pure beef for Nigeria, there are con men everywhere and not only in Nigerian, why not write on how 2 avoid con men generally….mtcheeeew

  • Silly girl if all nigerian men r conmen what r u silly girls stil doing wit them leave them alone naaw is it by force

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