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Dear MIM Readers: How Do You Handle A Husband Who Farts In His In-Laws’ Presence?

Dear MIM Readers: How Do You Handle A Husband Who Farts In His In-Laws’ Presence?

I’ve been married for close to six months and still trying to conceive.

Lately, my husband has been exhibiting some nasty habits I didn’t know he had. He doesn’t always flush the toilet after use, he belches loudly when full, picks his nose and farts, not minding who is there. I probably won’t mind so much if these nasty habits were displayed only in my presence but that is not the case.

He casually farted the other day three times in my mum’s presence without blinking. I mean who does that? He didn’t even have the courtesy to offer an apology. When guests are in the house and they are having a conversation, he would dip his finger into his nose continuously until he’s satisfied that it is clean. After eating he would dip a finger into his mouth and take a swipe. I find all these very irritating and embarrassing  I was raised up in a different way.

I have tried to caution him and make him see reason but he will just laugh it off like it doesn’t matter. I get really anxious when we have guests, praying silently that he won’t unleash his bad habits or hope our visitors don’t notice.

How do I get him to stop or deal with this?

 

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  • Hahahaha oMG couldn’t help laughing @such a man. But to be candid its only a pig that will use the toilet without flushing n such pple no de shame at all and sorry to say this u can’t change such a man unless he wanna change by himself. Try as much as u can to keep de environment clean esp the toilet to avoid embarrasment oh cus like I stated earlier such a man wey get nerve to release air in de MIL presence no de send any1 lolz I pray he change oh

  • Hahhahahahahhaha sorry poster for laughing oh but this is funny and also not funny because how can a grown ass man be displaying such dirty nasty behaviors? Am sure he hid all this when u guys were courting. Sorry love but there’s nothing you can do about it than to keep talking to him and hoping he changes one day.

  • I’m very sure he didn’t develop these habits after marriage.I’m also wondering how they went unnoticed by u during courtship.Just keep talking to him with love.Tell him how those things make u feel especially in public.Don’t expect an automatic change

  • Omg…..this kind of man na wa o. Keep praying for him or tell people about it. Someone u can trust to advise him properly

  • Hmmm, well that’s really bad but make sure you correct him in love. Moreover, he equally need to show interest in helping himself.

  • You can’t change him just be positive love him and accept his life style soon he would change with time on his own

  • Na wah oooooo. How can you date someone and yet not notice any of this? Or is it an arranged marriage? Please just try and deal with it oooooo cos it will be hard for such person to change. But farting in the presence of your mum is disgusting and disrespectful. There should be limit to foolishness.

  • omg! I can’t help but to laugh, but serious with time he will change, just continue 2 talk 2 him calmly

  • Lol..the man get all the bad habits..nawa o.You just have to keep talking to him.He might change one day

  • Such attitude are signs of disrespectful, n so to say, he would av been behaving live dt during ur courtship bt u ll think dt he ll change n likewise he would av been saying negative tinz about ur family by giving him audacity to disrespect ur mum. Its well sha continue praying fr him.

  • Pls help us out,anytime i had sex with my wife she releases watery sperm which make me feel unsatified. she does not have infections,pls is there any drugs for that? just to make it thick.confidential pls.

  • Courtship is for the intended couple to know each other better, no matter how short d courtship was, ur guy must have shown some traits of these habits u are complaining about now. Nevertheless, if u want to stay in this marriage, don’t nag at him but pls show him love. u will overcome.

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