Should I Send My Older Brother Out Of My House for Doing This?
Even though I am married, I accommodated my older brother who hasn’t been able to establish himself.
I sponsored him through school and helped him study a few more courses after school. When he finished, he refused getting a job and asked for three million Naira to start a business. Mind you, I have never seen this my brother work for one day, not even at home, he does nothing while my husband is a workaholic. Besides, I don’t personally have that kind of money. He wants me to ask my husband for it but I told him that he I don’t have enough confidence in him to manage that kind of money for business but he doesn’t want to start small.
Before long, my maids started complaining that he has been asking them to have sex with him. This is what I have been afraid of. I don’t want him to get another person’s child under my care pregnant. I’ve warned him but I don’t think this will deter him as he’s idle all the time. Should I send him out of my house? Please advice.
Yes send him out to go fend for himself that way he would know what it’s like to be a man. He is just using you and your hubby. He should move out and get a job and a place of his own before he impregnates any of your maids.
you can’t continue to help him forever, make you decision once and for all
It’s becos u ve been babysitting him 4 so long,dats y he hasn’t been able 2 make something out of his life,he needs 2 leave.u ve tried 4 him.if any member of ur family tells u 2 continue accommodating him cos he s ur brother,simply tell dem 2 accommodate him 4 u.
Hmmm that your elder brother no get pride at all. Why stay with a kid sister for heaven’s sake? Your husband try oooo. Tell your brother to go get a job and raise some cash before asking for kobo. Its time for him to go do something useful with his life. God have mercy.
You and your husband have done for him.He is lazy because of the comfort he is enjoying.Before he puts you people in trouble,give him a time frame to get an apartment.When he starts feeding himself,he will start thinking like a man not
Pls rent an apartment for him and let him move out of your house and get a job as far as he is eating free food free accommodation and now want free sex Pls let him leave it’s a sign that he is very lazy living under his younger sister and feels comfortable about is is a sign he will never be responsible for himself
Do the right thing now b4 its too late that’s what I can say now
Yes b4 he bring shame to your family…. Let him go n hustle
Nawa oo, some people are just too shameless, my dear tell your brother to look for greener pastures somewhere else instead of him depending on you and your hubby’s wealth. Brother look for job abeg
hmmm.pls send jim out quick he is a grown ass man
He has finished school na, let him go get a job abeg.
U should establish him first before u send him out,give him a try
Give him some money and ask him to move out.
Pls send him out ASAP, he’s lazy and never appreciate your effort toward him, give him some money to establish himself cos if u dn’t he will be a pang on your neck
Please do,it’s unhealthy to babysit a full grown man. You will be helping him by doing so.
Your brother is a lazy man, he’s feeding fat on you and your hubby that’s why he will be asking girls for sex under your roof. Let him move out and go hustle.
all wisely said,just make a choice
YES no more advice needed.
u hv heard it all poster,u r not helping him by letting him stay a fool @ 40 is a fool forever
Elder bro should be ashamed of himself. My advice: Tell him to move out (and help him with finances) because only when he stays on his own will he know that life is not easy ooh.
If it was ur BIL am sure u wudnt be asking us for advice, u and ur husband have tried ur best for ur brother. Pls my candid advice get ur brother an apartment and pay for 1 year rent and tell him to go fend for himself, the earlier u do this the better or ur brother will depend on u all his life.
My dear, u’ve tried for him. It’s time for him to go; he needs to responsible, and he can’t achieve dat under ur roof
he is old enough to take care of himslf,