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‘Your purpose in this life is bigger than marriage’ – Adaeze Yobo Cries Out to Women in Abusive Marriages

‘Your purpose in this life is bigger than marriage’ – Adaeze Yobo Cries Out to Women in Abusive Marriages

Following the quite unfortunate news of Ronke Shonde, a mum said to be in her mid thirties, whose lifeless body was found on the floor by neighbours with blood gushing from her head after her beloved husband’s gruesome assault, Adaeze Yobo has cried out to women in abusive marriages that marriage is not by force.

The man had allegedly fled their apartment with her phone, leaving their poor kids aged 6 and 4 locked up in their apartment with their mother’s dead body.

Read Adaeze’s post below.

So sad!!! Marriage is not by force. Heck! Everybody must not marry. The society you’re worried about don’t even care about you. They are the same ones saying RIP on LIB. Pls think about it. Your life matters too. If you are in a similar situation pls pls pls walk out, whatever shame you are trying to hide will still be out there. Its not worth it. You haven’t fullfilled Gods plan&purpose in your life, I beg you not to be selfish. Your purpose in this life is bigger than you, bigger than your husband, bigger than marriage. Never apologise to anyone for leaving a (physically) abusive relationship. ”Ephesians 5:25 says men shld love their own wives as christ loved the church” ~ he gave up his life for us. Then Ephesians 5:28 says husbands shld love their wives as their own bodies”. The same Bible that is against divorce says in 1 corinthians 7:15 that if an unbeliever departs, (from marriage) let him depart” then goes further to say that “a believing man or woman is not bound in such circumstances, God has called us to live in peace” if your partner physically abuse you, he has departed from the marriage vows, pls walk away, he doesn’t fear God and if he doesn’t fear God, he is capable of doing the worse to you. I repeat “Your purpose is bigger”, we need you in the world, dont let the devil cut your life short. pray pray pray ???????????? RIP Ronke shonde???? #notodomesticviolence ???? ❤❤❤

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View Comments (17)
  • Women never learn. They tend to listen more to pastors, imams, friends, family and the society at large. Marriage is not do or die. Leave while you can and live for your kids please. May her soul RIP.

  • Women is high time we fight for our right some men are crossing boundary

  • All these so call husband very soon u pple will begin to learn ur lessons

  • So so sad, how some loving husband will turn out later to be monster

  • You are right dear, men do not worth dying for, the rate men abuse women these days is too much.

  • Pastors are already advising Ties Savage to go back to her husband. Na WA O! These malicious beasts why do they hate to see women happy?

  • Devil is really roaring like a wounded lion,using humans against themselves.very sad.

  • African mentality is that marriage should be endured, you even hear some mothers advising that shit to their young daughters. Mtshewwww

  • I was a victim of such marriage. Men are so mean and wicked. Am happy am alive today to watch my baby girl grow. Seriously no man is worth the stress. Marriage is not a do or die affair. My fellow women,pls be wise.

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