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‘Husband does not mean the male partner in a marriage, husband means master’ – Pastor Chris Oyakhilome

‘Husband does not mean the male partner in a marriage, husband means master’ – Pastor Chris Oyakhilome

The founding president of Believers’ Loveworld Incorporated, also known as Christ Embassy, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome, has said wives need to be obedient and submissive to their husbands, because both sexes are not equal.

According to an article shared on the church’s Facebook page – Christ Embassy.Org Online Missions, the pastor and dad of two whose wife, Anita, divorced 2 years ago, advised women to be submissive to their husbands, as husband means master. He added that most women have never been taught by their parents, their fathers particularly, and that’s where their biggest problem comes from because they don’t know who a man is and think he is just like another woman.

Here is an excerpt of the post, titled: “Who is a HUSBAND and what is His Role?”

”Husband does not mean the male partner in a marriage, husband means master.
The reason for most problems in Christian marriages is the fact that women refute God’s definition of marriage and form theirs. They believe they are equal partners.

If most women had their fathers bold enough to talk to them, they will be very successful in their marriage and they will be very happy people. Most women have never been taught by their parents, their fathers particularly and that’s their biggest problem because they don’t know who a man is, they think he is another woman.

In marriage, you have the man who is the head of that union and because he’s the head of that union, its important to understand him. You think he’s the one that needs to understand his wife and that is where you are wrong. He will eventually but you have to know the type of man you are married to and his needs.

When you say you are marrying a man, you are coming under his authority. The Bible says, the man is the head of the woman (1 Corinthians 11:3) so when you marry him you come under his authority, you are not authority sharers even though you are both heirs to the kingdom of God.

When you decide not to subject yourself to that authority, you are a rebel and God is not going to accept what you are doing because you are not functioning correctly. Why did God make the woman?
Making woman was not God’s original plan because after God created Adam and before He made Eve, He said in Genesis 1:31 ”Then God looked over all he had made, and he saw that it was very good.”

God made woman because of man so woman was not His original idea. This is reality.
Genesis 2:18a “And the Lord God said “for it is not good for a man to be alone..” The Bible didn’t say “lonely” but “alone”.

There is a big difference. Man wasn’t lonely but alone. Genesis 2:18b “…I will make him an help meet”. He didn’t say a partner or a supervisor or a special advisor or someone to tell him what to do.

I will make him someone to help him. God gave man a responsibility so woman was made to help man achieve that responsibility. If this is understood in every home then you won’t have problems.

I tell people that you don’t need a marriage seminar, you need the Word Seminar. Let me tell you, no husband wants another mother, he has had one all his life. He doesn’t want an older sister, he probably had one.

Your secret is in obedience, your secret is in listening to your husband, your secret is in doing the things that please him. When you don’t do the things that please him, you take the role of a mother or of an older sister.
A man loves the one he serves (God) and the one that serves him (a good wife). He fights the one that wants to be at the same level with him (a rebellious wife).

To be happy in your family and home is the easiest thing in the world, just take your role. Take your place. That place that God gave you is a beautiful place. Its a place of peace. Its a place of love. It’s a place of excellence.

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Every wise person listens to wise voices (advice) but he listens to a wise voice that is presented wisely.
Everyone rebels against the voice that is trying to make a fool out of him. When you want to correct your husband, don’t lord it over him,present it as a wise suggestion. Humble yourself and be smart.

A wise woman will always be an influence to her husband, the foolish one will always annoy the husband, make him mad, make him angry and when you make him angry, you will be the victim. Learn to listen to your husband, practice it, tell yourself that you are going to do it because that is where your beauty is.

Once you stop listening, your beauty evaporates. You wonder why you are dressing and he can’t see it, he doesn’t remember your last hair style.

Beauty is in obedience.

That’s where the Glory is.”

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View Comments (11)
  • Is something wrong with all these men of God? Abi which way? Which one be husband is master again? Mtschew. Abeg I no gree.

  • This is crazy, how the heck do you say men and women are not equal? We are all equal in the sight of God and i wonder which bible all these people are reading from.

  • I hear. Admin please I would be interested in reading this chauvinist’s advice to his male folks(if any)

  • I think some people only read the headlines and rush to comment. If they have taken time to read the post, I don’t think I’d be seeing some of these coomments…

    • I totally agree with IkoAbasi…. People didn’t read the content b4 commenting. The bible is VERY CLEAR on the roles of both husband and wife. Sarah called Abraham Master.
      If women of nowadays like they should continue to rub shoulders with their husbands, they will continue to receive the outcome which will definitely not be pleasant.

  • I hope those men who are masters won’t sit and expect the women to contribute to d upkeep of d family. God’s original plan was dt d man should take care of all d provisions and family’s needs. If that has changed,master-slave relationship should also change.

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