Dear Mimster: How do I deal with my husband’s recent change?
I met this guy about 2 years ago after a very bad break up with my ex. He seemed like the guy of my dreams as he possessed all the good qualities I wanted in my husband but recently the turn of events have left me shocked at my husband’s recent change.
After dating for a year, he proposed to me and we decided to settle down. While we were dating he was very caring, helpful, understanding, and we had no secrets. A year later, he proposed marriage and we’ve been married for about 5 months now.
Now, the problem is my husband has become so secretive especially with his phone. I am the kind who likes to play games on his phone. I picked up his phone lately, and saw plenty of flirty messages between him and a number of women, both young and old.
He was never like this when I met him and people even confirmed how a good person he was with no time for women. When I asked him about the messages, he then decided to password all his social media apps. Sometimes, I sneak up on him when he’s whatsapping and I see how he now chats with many women.
For days now, he has stopped talking to me because I broached the subject and told him this issue is making me unhappy in this marriage. I’m also pregnant at the moment and I lack the basic peace of mind required to enjoy my pregnancy.
How should I handle this? Please advice me.
Why are men like this? Why did he marry when he knows he is not ready to commit that way? I think you should tell him you are leaving for your parent’s if he doesn’t stop this attitude of his and see his reaction.
hmmmmmnnnnn….
You need sanity right now with your present state, please go to your parents house for now and have some rest.
Those saying she should go to her parents will still be the ones to ask her y she did when she comes back to tell us of a divorce. Ma’am go to your war room n pray about it, try to stay away from his phone n be the loving girlfriend you were before u became a wife. For ur unborn baby’s sake make itself happy