Dear MIMsters: Hubby is threatening to divorce me for this……
I spent 11 years of my marriage believing God for a baby. Last year, God answered us and blessed us with a baby but today, hubby is threatening to divorce me.
Two people have suggested that MIL, spiritually has been the brains behind my inability to conceive. Recently, one of my hubby’s cousin called and was asked to know if my MIL has come to visit us. He said that she is a wicked woman, and that after all she has said and done against me, God prevailed and today, I am now a mother. I laughed and said, “God is great and we thank him.”
When I was at the hospital, one of my in-laws married into my husband’s family suggested the same thing about my MIL. She rejoiced that God has put my MIL to shame and that didn’t I notice she was not always interested praying with us when we all travel to the village. I was just laughing.
Later that day, I told hubby what I heard from his cousin and my in-law but I didn’t tell him who said what. I said all that is passed now as God has anyway blessed me now. Hubby jumped and asked who told me. I gently told him that it does not matter anymore. He insisted but I stood my ground, saying it is in the past.
Two days later, hubby said I must tell him who told me those things about his mum or he will divorce me. I called my mum to ask her if I should tell him as she is a witness to one of the times I was told, but she said I must not mention anybody’s name.
Hubby has refused to speak to me or eat my food for over a week now but I have been enduring it. Should I tell him who said it or not or ignore him and face the consequences even if it leads to a divorce? I need your advice on how to go about this.
Ignore him please. He will come back to his senses. I personally won’t tell my husband something like that said about his mother.
my dear u shouldn’t have told him such a thing befr .biko swallow it up o.cos u weren’t told to tell him his mum is a witch…
You better tell him who told you but you shouldn’t have told him that somebody said his mother is a witch. It’s not everything you hear that you tell your husband, telling him is like indirectly calling his mother a witch. Now, after calling his mom a witch do you think he will still want to be married to you.?You better tell him who told you or destroy your marriage.
You better tell him who told you but you shouldn’t have told him that somebody said his mother is a witch. It’s not everything you hear that you tell your husband, telling him is like indirectly calling his mother a witch. Now, after calling his mom a witch do you think he will still want to be married to you.? In marriage, the day you call your mother in law a witch is the day you want to end your marriage.
You better tell him who told you or destroy your marriage.
My dear pray along this period and endure all he is doing… No matter what don’t try to let him know about what you were been told, by your strength and help of God he will turn back to you