Dear MIMsters: Is my husband hiding something I need to know from me?

My husband and I have been married for a year now without a child and I think my husband is hiding something from me.

I became worried before our marriage turned one year and started suggesting to my husband a visit to the doctor but he refused. He said that it was too early and suggested we wait until after one year and I agreed.

Now, we are over one year. He started giving me flimsy and unreasonable reasons not to go to the doctor.  Finally, my parents got wind of what was going and they mounted pressure on him before he agreed to go with me for a test.

The result of the test was not what I was prepared to see. From the results, I discovered that my hubby has no sperm count and the colour of his sperm was odd, not the usual sperm colour. Mind you, I did not say my husband has a low sperm count. I said his sperm count was NIL, ZERO, NON-Existent.

I made my research and I found out that prior to our wedding, he was preparing to hold a traditional marriage with another girl but it didn’t hold because she ran away. I asked him why she left but he told me that it was because of a church issue they had.

From my story, what do you think is going on and what do you think I should do?