Dear MIMsters: Which of these men should I keep?
Dear MIMSTERS, I am having a hard time in choosing one of these men. I have 3 men in my life and I need help to keep one.
Mr A and I were in a relationship before but separated cause he lied to me. He apologized later but I have found it hard to trust him again. We were separated for a while and he did everything to amend the situation.
We live in different towns but I’m always free to visit him when I want. When I do visit him, he always proposes outings which I’m not a fan of. When I refuse, he ends up going out with his friends but will return by 1 a.m .sometimes. He is 33 years old, jovial, fun loving and out-going. He wants us to get married but I’m afraid his outing lifestyles would mean I’m most times home alone or have to go out with him.
Mr B whom I’m currently dating isn’t transparent. I don’t even know his house and he has a 10-yea- old son. We mostly meet at my place and just when he can make it. He is 37 years old. We live in the same town. He has never proposed marriage but always says it may be slow but will surely happen someday.
Mr C on the other hand, is 35 years old who has a 15-year-old daughter. I know little about him. We have never been intimate but he wants us to get married. I hardly give him any attention but he is always there and we live in the same town. He says he believes in God and that if we are meant to be, I will have a change of heart about him someday.
I am 25y ears old and really want to get into a serious relationship that will end in a marriage. I love A and B but hardly knows Mr C. Please advice….
Go with A. And then imbibe the habit of going out with him when you can. B on the other hand has a lot to hide. I don’t trust him.
Pray and ask God for direction, but make sure you are using your head.
From the human view A is right for you. B is a joker, and You can’t afford to live with someone you don’t love which is C. But in all seek God’s direction
Mr A is better my dear d outing thing go slow down when responsibilities starts coming in oo
Your heart Knows the truth. Listen and follow your heart. Nobody can chose for you especially not us on social media. Your feminine instincts plus prayers is all you need.