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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Protect my 8 year-old Daughter from her Father?

Dear MIMsters: How Do I Protect my 8 year-old Daughter from her Father?

I am a mum of 3. My first is an 8 years old daughter who I need to protect from her father and my last child is about 4 months old.

My daughter came to this morning and said, “daddy was just disturbing me in the night.” I asked her how was he disturbed her and she said she doesn’t know how to explain but she told him, “stop, I am tired”. I have no doubt about that because he has tried also to sleep with his two nieces who once lived with us. I was the one who caught him in the act, but I didn’t know that he could try the same thing with his own daughter. I am so scared as I don’t want this to ever happen to my baby girl.

Of course he denied it when I confronted him but I know it’s true because the next morning, he told me that our girl sleeps anyhow. And because I wake up so early at about 4:30am, sometimes to do the house chores and prepare what the kids need for school, I didn’t notice it.

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View Comments (10)
  • This is serious oooo, am just speechless, talk with your husband and be watchful & vigilant, he need to see a psycho, its is abnormal

  • I think you should act fast before he destroys your daughter. You can call for a family meeting to address the matter or quit till he gets therapy. If he tried it with his nieces he might have his way someday with your kid. You should have raised an alarm when you caught him trying to take advantage of his nieces. Don’t wait till it happens. Don’t think of the shame of exposing him now. The shame after it happens to your daughter will be times 100 and you will never forgive yourself for keeping quiet. Also give sex education to your daughter. Ignorance destroys.

  • You are still asking questions? Report him to both families and have your daughter repeat herself in front of them, then run. End that marriage before your husband destroys your daughter’s life because he won’t stop until he gets what he wants. Your daughter deserves your protection.

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