Dear MIMsters: I Really Have to Move On From My Toxic Marriage. But How?
I dated my hubby for five years before we got married last year. We now have a beautiful daughter. Little did I know I was getting myself into a toxic marriage.
My problem is that it is obvious that my husband has been hiding the fact that he has a daughter or that fact that he is now married from the public. Fine, I know he has girlfriends but what I ask of him is to be proud of my daughter.
At least, I see married men display picture of their kids everywhere, even his friends, but my own husband does not and this makes me feel very sad. Even when I try to tag him on our pictures, he untags himself and goes away from Facebook for months. He does even have any of our wedding pictures on Facebook
One last thing is that his level of infidelity is so high that my elder sister caught him red handed last year. Meanwhile, I’m the only one bearing the financial burden of our home, house rents, everything because he is having problems at work. All I want in return is just respect for my six month-old daughter whom I love so much. There are so many sore things going on that I can’t keep writing about. Right now, I feel he is having a serious affair with someone, I’m seriously considering moving on. It will surprise you to know that he is a deacon in church, yet he has refused to officially dedicate our daughter in church.
I take full responsibility in all ramifications for our daughter. I solely provide her with everything. Based on all these, I really want to move on. How should I handle this?
Please move out of the house and be separated from him for some time. If he doesn’t change, then seek for a divorce after all you are the one bearing all the financial burdens. He is not ready to be a man or a married one at that so please let him be.
then move on already
if u guys had some basic principles u both believed and used go back together with him respectfully and am sure u can start some repairs.
sending pic on social media is not a sign that shows love as u think, take ur man as unique man and deal with him and stop unhealthy comparison.
Madam you should be more worried about this fool that is about to give you an incurable STD, you’re here bugging your head with posting pictures on FB.
Please move on,the man is not ready to be a man.You should be more concern about STD both curable and incurable