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Dear MIMsters: My Husband Now Hates My Family and I Must Pick a Side

Dear MIMsters: My Husband Now Hates My Family and I Must Pick a Side

I got married last year April after a serious disagreement between my family and hubby’s family as we are not from the same tribe. Our parents wanted us to marry from our tribe. This went on for 10 years until God intervened. Now, we are married. Unfortunately, the turn of events warrants I pick a side.

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This year, I put to bed and mum came to nurse me. I was so surprised that my husband became so furious and changed from who we used to know him to be to this bitter person. He will frown his face and would get angry at anything. So mum decided to ask him, “My son did I offend you? I noticed you have not been happy since I came. You sent for me and here I am.”

Hubby flared up oh. He told my mother, “Mama you have to go. I don’t tolerate visitors longer than two weeks in my house! In Delta state, Omugo is for w week, highest two weeks. You people are IBO. I am not IBO. Stop looking at my face!”

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Mum said, “my dear, our omugo is three months.” After then, I asked hubby, “Why all this?”

He say that if we must succeed in this marriage, I must do away with my people and put a stop to their visits including mum. He said that I’m too close to my mum. In fact, he now sees anything I do as an advice from mum and this is a man that I am managing oh.

Since he married me, I have nothing to show for it. Mum came and has been managing with us, yet he is angry. He was not like this to my mum, not knowing he has been pretending. Now, he is accusing my mum of scattering his home.

I cannot forget my mum, neither can I forget my siblings. He now hates my people and is punishing me because my mum is still here. Should I divorce him?

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View Comments (8)
  • So he wants you to turn your back on your mom and family? If you do that, then you are done for because the abuse will start and then you won’t have a support system.

  • Hmmm! He’s planning on isolating yu from yur people before showing yu how evil he is. What a world! Please be careful with him and never let him pressurised yur mom or family. He’s a bigger loser as yur already talking bout divorce. I won’t even wait for a second to pick my family at anytime

  • my sis Family is everything….dont let him mess up your life by staying away from them especially your mun. Just pray with a sincere heart and let God take control.

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