Dear MIMsters: Been Married for Ten Years But Looks Like My Husband is Done
I have been married for over ten years and even though God has blessed me with three kids it looks like my husband is done with our marriage. He has not told me that yet but his actions speak louder than words.
My husband is a chronic womaniser who jumps from single ladies to married women. He is also an entrepreneur who owns the business that we both run together.
It has become normally for my husband to date the women working for us. He dates them without discretion as long as he likes them. He doesn’t respect me at all and sometimes beats me up anytime I confront him about his illicit affairs.
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His family does not help matters because they always back him up. The problem now is that he has stopped eating my food and comes home anytime he likes. We sleep in separate rooms due to his lifestyle. Any time he is going out, he doesn’t tell me. He goes in and out anytime he likes and has told me to stop telling him about my movement.
I’m confused because he doesn’t even see me as his wife again. I have prayed and have been to several churches for solutions but to no avail. He embarrasses me in the presence of our employees as he wishes.
I’m no longer finding it funny as he always tells people that I wanted to kill him and that I am having an affair which is not true. He doesn’t have one iota of respect for my parents and family members.
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He wants me frustrated so that I can move out on my own, then he can tell his family and mine that I moved out on my own. I don’t know what to do and how to handle this, so I need your advice. I do not want to make a decision that I will end up regretting later.
1. Think about what you want… need for yourself and your kids. It is not about your husband or his family anymore. Click ignore button on them. 2.Get a job or start a business for yourself. Stop workimg with him and depending on him. By so doing, u earn urself some respect n stop all the abuse in front of employees 3.maintain your separate rooms for ur health sake and as he has demanded u do not tell him anything obey. Anyday he decides to ask n knw, dont quarrel or rant, just obey n tell depending on how much you want to reveal. 4.do not ever leave dt house but live in it like he doesnt exist… Well, except u r ready to move on without looking back or ur life is threatened . 5. Let ur new job /business be chanelled to creating a better future for u & ur kids 6. Dont stop praying but dont just sit n wait. Do something (as outlined above) while praying. 7. It wont be easy but nothing worthwhile come easy. May God see u through.
Thanks for this if she can do all these her husband will come back beging
Whatever threatens your sanity then leave it. Why are you bothered about what he will tell your family and his? He will still talk no matter what you do.
trust me snow has said it all
Please let him be, when a man doesn’t regard you, what are you wasting your time with him for?