Dear MIMsters: How Do I Make Him Miss Me More?
I have been dating my guy for more than a year now. I live with my uncle and his family and my boyfriend has only visited me there once.
Even though I can afford to rent a house, my uncle has refused to let me do so. They take me as a member of their family and make my guests feel at home.
My aunt has complained and is beginning to discourage me from the relationship because my boyfriend hardly visits.
My boyfriend says he doesn’t have a car and so not convenient for him to come see me.
The first and only time he came, he came with his cousin. I don’t know maybe he’s shy to visit. He lives with his parents too and I often visit him there.
There are cars packed in their compound but he says he doesn’t want to touch his father’s cars as they have had issues over cars before.
Though he says he loves and wants to settle down with me, I still feel he needs to visit often. If I don’t visit him, he won’t make efforts to see me. We chat every day and he says he misses me. I have spoken to him about this severally.
How can I make him miss me more and visit me often?
for me if a person loves u he would stake evn his life for u.my opinion he doesn’t love u.
I don’t think he loves you. Love does not make excuses.
He’s full of excuses, no car ……since when is that a criteria for visitation?