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Dear MIMsters: I Hate Him But it Has Been Revealed He is My Husband

Dear MIMsters: I Hate Him But it Has Been Revealed He is My Husband

I met this guy, Bunmi 11 years ago. We couldn’t get married earlier due to insufficient funds but he is ready now. About 3 years into the relationship, I started hating him for no reason but he still treats me like a queen.

He is now ready for marriage but I don’t want to marry him because all I feel for him is hatred instead of love and this is for no reason.

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I use to encourage him to break up with me and go date someone else as I feel no love for him. I never checked if he went ahead to date someone else as I never had a reason to check.

I was bent on quitting with him when I met Tunde, who was ready to marry me. Tunde prayed about our relationship and it was revealed to him with evidences that Bunmi and I are destined to become husband and wife.

I have always known this but I never thought they were real and necessary. Now I’m ready to teach myself how to accept him and love him as marriage with another can’t work for either of us.

My problem now is that it was also revealed that Bunmi now has a girl in his church whom he is seeing. Since he and I are destined to be together, I know nothing good will come out of their relationship.

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Now, I don’t know how to make Bunmi leave this girl I caused him to go and date to now focus on me alone since it has been revealed that he is the man I must marry.

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  • Go after your husband Bunmi and stop waiting for him to drop the other girl. You have someone that treats you like a queen and you can’t appreciate him. You need to see a psychologist for help. Go to any teaching hospital they will refer you to a specialist. You also need to pray to God. Ask him to help you to appreciate Bunmi , love him and remove any power that wants you to lose him and render your life useless.

  • maybe tlk to him abt it.n try wrk thngs out since he treats u like a queen

  • If u don’t love Bunmi don’t marry him. Leave all these prophecies. Since its not in ur mind to marry him pls don’t marry him. If u do u ll regret it. Give it time, see wat comes out. if u ll do anything due to prophecy don’t marry because of prophecy pls m begging u in the name of God. If u marry someone u dont love cos of prophecy u ll regret ur whole life. I am talking from experience u ll hate urself for it. I am begging u.

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