Dear MIMsters: My Husband’s Attitude Towards S*x is Driving Me Nuts
Hubby and I have been married for four years and is attitude towards our sex life is driving me nuts. I have tried on my part but he is not doing anything to improve the situation.
Throughout these four years, I can actually say the number of times hubby has initiated sex with me is not more than 10 times.
It has always been me doing the initiation. There are times I would deliberately stop initiating in other to push him to approach me for sex. I found out that we could go for about 6 weeks and he still won’t initiate sex.
I have done everything from dressing seductively to changing our bedroom looks but still nothing from him.
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When I don’t initiate sex for a while, he will start keeping malice with me and acting very angry. It’s depressing because I wonder whether he is the woman or I am.
I gathered courage to ask him why and he got so angry that up till now, he’s still keeping malice with me.
I am tired, really tired. This man’s behaviour is just draining me. I’m not even a sit at home mum. We are both working .I know it’s OK that the woman initiates sex but doing it all the time makes me feel less desired. I’m going nuts.
Go and report him to his parents, let them summon him. I wonder why some men cannot take charge of their homes, these days women are practically doing everything and the still shamelessly want to be the head.
Hmmmmm a man that desires you will want sex with you all the time. You guys need to see a sex therapist together.
hmmmmmn.i alwayys taught a man who finds u attractive,loves u, would always desire u.
madam, ur case is the same as mine…. I advice u just hv to live with it, bcox nothing u can do to change him.
that is the result of ‘ NO SEX TILL WE OFFICIALLY GET MARRIED’ u don’t hv any other choice than to accept him the way he is, is ur cross.
Dont report him to family u will only kill his male ego. Take it to God in prayers and continue doing what you are doing. Or talk to him about it if u can.