Dear MIMsters: My Husband Wants Me to Live With Him Under These Conditions. Would You Accept Them If You Were In My Shoes

My husband has given me his conditions for living with him. If you were in my shoes, would you accept them?

My husband told me that my family and friends are not allowed to come visit with me in my home and if they do, he would embarrass them. Knowing the type of person he is, I stopped my mom, sisters and friends from coming to visit whenever he’s around.

Last month, I gave birth via a Cesarean Section, would you believe my husband refused to come see me at the hospital because my mom was there. He doesn’t want to see my mom nor any of my relatives.
On getting home, my mom couldn’t sleep over after I told her what my husband said. I was in pain and there was no one to help me. I decided to go to my mom’s place since she was not allowed to stay over at my place.
I went back home when I was stronger and the first thing my husband did was to communicate a list of conditions I must adhere to for living with him. I list a couple below…
1) He still insists that my family and friends are not allowed to visit with me and if he sees anyone of them outside, he won’t greet them.
2) We are no longer be talking in the house. The only time I am allowed to communicate with him is when I want money and the only time he will come to me is when he wants to have sex.
I told him there was no way I am accepting any of his conditions. I told him to go and look for a woman who will accept all these from him and marry her. Having said that, I had to move back to my mom’s place. While I was there, he sent me money to take care of the children’s needs.
Now, he’s threatening to stop sending me money for the children, if I don’t move back home. He has even stopped. I say that because when I called him to pay our first daughter’s school fees he refused. I am not even strong enough to start working. My mom isn’t financially capable to take care of my kids and I. I used to be a school teacher who earned only 20k.
I am depressed. He wasn’t like this before we got married. He was close friends with my family then. Right now, I feel nothing but hatred for him.
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