Better go and look for your own man and marry. Why are you even thinking marriage? Shouldn’t you be caring for your child at the moment? Your son is not even 4 months old yet and you are talking marriage. Madam abeg face your child for now and forget marriage and that man but make sure he takes up his responsibilities pertaining his son. Reply
My dear if he said he will not marry u just go on with ur life ad believe me God will give d best husband ok he really deceived u. Reply
Let him care for his son but don’t think of sticking to him. Move on with ur life but let him keep caring for his son Reply
You are a single mum and there is no crime in that. Not that you deliberately dated him knowing his status. There are other single mums who still found love and have a successful marriage. Please don’t think of marrying that man but discontinue whatever affairs you have with him(to avoid another pregnancy) but let him take all responsibilities of his son. Your own man will locate you Reply
He didn’t fool you but you fooled yourself. You disobeyed God by opening your legs to a man who is not your husband. That is the biggest mistake you made. Face it and forgive yourself and move on. Don’t play the victim. He won’t marry you and if he should ask for it run away otherwise you would commit another sin. “THOU SHALL NOT COVET YOUR NEIGHBOUR’S HUSBAND” Reply
Oh please shot that mouth of yours up. His Holiness, never done any wrong in your life. Trust me with this smelly attitude you have, you won’t smell heaven’s gate… Nonsense. Reply
Let him continue to care for his son, but move ahead, he is someone husband, Pls God will connect you with your bone -of-bone okay Reply
Every body plays the fool, but playing the fool a second time to the same person becomes a shame. 1st u hv a child with a married man now u r dreaming of marrying the man n becoming his second wife or better still u r wishing he divorces his wife for u. My sweetheart stop deceiving urself by claiming ‘I don’t know what to tell my son when he grows up?’ move on, love urself n ur son, someone who wld love u n ur son will come along. Amen. Reply
there is no option here but to carry on with your life. he is a married man to a young woman like u. he told u his dad was ill, that’s why he travelled, is he a doctor for d elderly? u said when he came back,u didn’t tell him of d pregnancy cos u wanted him to notice it himself. I don’t blv that part cos its only someone who has already been engaged to d father of d unborn child that will be so comfortable with a situation like that, even at that, every woman will make attempt to rush marriage plans. a woman that hasn’t even been proposed to will find a way to knw d future of the relationship to knw if she is optimistic for nothing. u tried to use the pregnancy to pin him so u waited till d second trimester so abortion will be ruled out. does that make u a bad person? not at all,u were just being hopeful. as it is now, u have to move on and pls stop sleeping with him cos u sound like u wouldn’t mind that either. God strengthen u, amen. cheers. Reply