Like they say once bitten twice shy, you even made a very big mistake for allowing her to come close to your husband…Forget the fact that you trust your husband, he might not be the cheating type, but temptation is a respecter of nobody, your cousin could seduce him and he will fall for it, then you will start blaming the man, whereas you were the one that brought the temptation to your household…Whether she’s your cousin or twin sister, give her a stern warning to stop coming close to your household, you guys can only talk on phone or meet in a family gathering where your husband is not present. #enoughsaid Reply
pls keep her at arms length, u can trust her from a distance and got ur hubby, u don’t even want to put him in such a situation, best wishes!!! Reply
A leopard’s spots never erase no matter how old they get, I’m not saying people don’t change, but your case is too sensitive to take such risk. Avoid that cousin of yours as much as you can. Reply
You did the right thing not to allow her come close to your household. The Lord will continually strengthen you from resisting the temptation. Reply
Be as wise as a snake and as gentle as a dove! You could be wrong for trusting anyone in the first place, please learn to believe people but NEVER trust anyone! Reply
My dear, I wish you would take those advice you’ve read above.. All I can say is if she did it once, she can do it again. The difference is you have a lot to lose now. Reply
I do not subscribe to adult siblings, cousins, relatives living with married couples ..before you tell me about we Africans being communal, I already know. Too many of these adult siblings get sexually involved with spouses of their benefactors. Only very few get busted! So my take is always support your relatives from afar ..do not encourage them living with you especially on permanent basis. Better to err on the right side of safety. Reply
U have just done the right thing, if possible, don’t allow her come a day visiting, because, people like her can dangerous, n might want 2 deal with u in n household in a diabolic way, So be watchful n prayerfull as well, gud luck Reply
Please oooo my dear be careful. Eeeiiiiiiiiii coming for 1month visit? Is she unemployed? If you cherish your marriage and your husband then clear that cousin of yours from your life. You should never give her that chance. I’d marriage was easy she could have been married and be occupied with her own family. She wasted her early years giving sex to the wrong people. Mmccttweeeeeeh Reply
If only u’ll accept what most pple have said that shouldn’t bring her close, then i believe u’re save. Reply
U re nt dear.pls protect ur home n dnt let her near u or ur family.she cnt be trusted.she could be jealous ure married n she s nt n may wnt to destroy ur marriage. Reply
Stop her totally from coming to your house let her know that you and your husband are very busy. Be wise, God will continue to protect your marriage and home. Reply
You see pure envy glaring at you ,you want to ignore all the warning signs, she is really up to know good.Please keep her at bay ,if possible let your hubby know certain things so that she doesn’t use him to bait you. Reply
Pls tell her to stop coming to stay in your house. Is she a baby? She is so jealous that she actually wants anything you have. My neighbour’s childhood friend did the same thing to her. She destroyed my neighbour’s first marriage because the husband just came home one day and asked my friend for a divorce and UP till to date he refused to disclose the reason. It wasn’t until she snatched her second husband that she was able to link the first divorce to her. This was how she used to spend time in her husband’s house. PLS drive her away immediately, she is very dangerous. She has what Yorubas call “ojukokoro ‘ or longer throat. She wants only what you have. Don’t have anything to do with her again. Reply
Pls tell her to stop coming to stay in your house. Is she a baby? She is envious that she actually wants anything you have. My neighbour’s childhood friend did the same thing to her. She destroyed my neighbour’s first marriage because the husband just came home one day and asked my friend for a divorce and UP till to date he refused to disclose the reason. It wasn’t until she snatched her second husband that she was able to link the first divorce to her. This was how she used to spend time in her husband’s house. PLS drive her away immediately, she is very dangerous. She has what Yorubas call “ojukokoro ‘ or longer throat. She wants only what you have. Don’t have anything to do with her again. Reply
