Why would you even marry someone who was in prison and tried to scam you? Were you that desperate? I am surprised oh. I don’t even know what to tell you seriously. Reply
After knowing how messed up things are with him then you still chose to marry him because you felt he will change but it doesn’t seem to be working. From what I can deduce your hubby has trust issues with maybe that’s why he isn’t ready to continue with other marriage rites. So I will ask you to go back to the drawing board and look out for those things you are not doing right to make him start behaving like this. If he was really scamming you maybe he won’t have come back that 1st time and for him to have come home shows he was serious but probably having a 2nd thought. Also pray about everything that God should change him and make him a better man. There is no heart too hard for God to change. Am not in position to judge or condemn you or your husband but I believe everything that happens in life is for a reason. Work on your marriage. All the best. Reply
Biko go on with ur life dis man is not ready to settle down with you ad I can c ur love is greater than his ad is u dt want this marriage nt him. Reply
I think at this point you know what is really going on.Tell him you want out.His reaction will let you in on what your next step should be.But don’t be scammed twice Reply
I don’t know how long you guys dated after he come out of prison because i have a feeling that you are not that sure of the person you married. Personally, i wouldn’t go into such a marriage with a guy who tried to scam me once in the first place but the deed has been done. And my question is, do you know what he’s doing at the moment(as in job wise) From your writing, everything about this your guy is not clear. I think there’s something amis and if you are not comfortable with it, just quit. Everything seems so fuzzy. What do you mean by ” when i ask him to quit?” Quit what? Marriage? Job????I really don’t get your post and i’ve read it for like 5times. Reply
Desperado, dts what you are. Some women could be so unreasonably foolish. A man tried to dupe you and you still went ahead to marry him. Get a life jare mitcheww Reply
after knowing all these things about him u still went ahead to marry him. u get mind o.u not even scared fr urself..my draw move on wt ur life.na one chance u enter so.hmmn Reply
If you are my sister, I would advise you to quit the relationship and start all over. Obviously he doesn’t trust you and dats why he feels you’ll take his property after divorce. If you guys came together bcos of love then why is he finding it hard to make your marriage legal and take you along with him. Hes still in d business of scamming people so I wouldn’t advise my sister to marry such a person. Thank God ur marriage isn’t legal yet so just move ahead Reply
This as far as am concerned isn’t a marriage, what led you to marrying a man who’s an ex-con and tried to dupe you? Reply
Yes he is a scam, some men can do anything just to get what they want, some will tell you their wife is death or married to someone else, some will married to you just to have all what dey desires, if you are not happy in a marriage while don’t you remain single before it is too late, he is enjoying his life and you are waiting. Reply
