Ali Baba Gives An Interesting Insight To The Term ‘Irreconcilable Differences’ As Used In Relationships
Nigerian stand-up comedian, Atunyota Alleluya Akpobome, 53, popularly known as ‘Ali Baba‘ has given a deep insight into the word, ‘Irreconcilable differences’ as used in relationships by people.
According to the dad-of-5, who took to his Instagram page to enlighten people about the power of words, even though many couples want to salvage their relationships, they don’t get to succeed at it mostly because of the effect of the abusive words hurled at each other in their moments of anger and misunderstanding.
He said the words which were said just to hurt the other person at that moment lingers on well after. And every time they are remembered, the pain would resurface.
Read his post below:
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“You see these words “irreconcilable differences”, they are the reasons many relationships don’t make it. Not that couples don’t try to salvage their relationships. The core issue is usually the things said and done during the quarrels and misunderstandings. How? Because after those things are said to hurt the “insignificant other” and to show how bitter you have been, THE SCARS HEAL NICELY TO BRAILLE. So every now and then, the heart and mind read them blindly. And use the bitter words, (hurtful statements and damaging insults) to question the strength of the relationship; weight the forgiveness sought; the justification for such bitterness… the instant replay of those words spoken in anger, become an albatross because RECONCILIATION WAS NOT CONTEMPLATED when those words were uttered. Why do I say these? I and many Nigerians, are listening and watching past utterances of Politicians different parties. When they were in the opposition party, They never thought there would be a reason to cross carpet. Now that they have ported and joined the other party, the things they said in the past are now being played back like throwback movies in 3D. Those things now become the back bone of the “IRRECONCILABLE DIFFERENCES”. That’s why some relationship don’t have the ummmmph that existed pre-quarrel. Watch your tongue… especially when you are angry.”
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This is absolutely true. Once words are spoken, they can not be unheard. More so, even a fool when his lips are closed, is counted as wise.