8 Things To Expect When Baby Number 2 Comes Home

The overall experience of motherhood is priceless but there is something even more magical about having your first child. Before you know it however, another tot has joined the family! Since every child is different in their own way, there are some dynamics parents need to prepare for when baby number 2 arrives.

See 8 truths below that will confront you when your second baby comes home;

1. No Super-Mum or Super-Dad

Trying to be the best mum or dad is much easier when you have one child, and putting your best parenting foot forward is pretty ‘simple’ at this stage. When you bring home a second child, chances are you will spend a good part of your time grasping at straws because your young toddler still wants some attention.

Kids are territorial too, and will likely act up once they see the family’s new addition, but don’t worry, they will come around and embrace their big brother or sister role soon enough.

2. It May Not Seem As Magical

There is always something special about first-born children, every laugh, every of your little baby’s sound, including every single milestone leaves you in awe. You may be surprised that with your second, things do not feel quite as magical.

There is no question that you will love them equally, just you are now better adjusted to reading the signs, and know what to expect at every milestone, so it is not such a surprise anymore.

3. It Gets Easier

An additional dependent being, additional screaming or messy hands to clean; this heightened pressure will take its toll on daddy and mummy for a while, but you can be reassured that it gets easier over time.

Children grow up a lot faster than you think and you might actually miss these crazy times.

4. Time Out For Yourself And Partner Is Key

Intermittent baby diaper changes, messy feeding times and baby cries can blindside you and your spouse, causing the spark in your marriage to whittle down, so you must take some steps to keep the flame alive.

Have a trusted relative watch the kids while you and your spouse enjoy a late night dinner, movie date or other experience that helps you both reconnect.

5. No Two Children Are The Same

You will get to understand first hand that all children are different. Your first child might turn out to be the most needy one, while your second child is naturally independent, still it could be the the other way around.

This realisation of their individual personalities can strike you as funny at times, but the differences in their temperament should guide you in how to yield to their individual needs as a parent.

6. Nap Schedules Are Essential

The goal is to get the two kids to sleep roughly around the same time everyday. This will greatly minimise stress. You certainly would not want to have your baby sleeping while another toddler is keeping you busy, throwing things around or getting in the way of all the things you need to get done.

7. Toddlers Don’t Know How Fragile Newborns Are

You must always keep an eye on your toddler when they are playing with their newborn sibling. They might just think it’s a live doll and pull an arm or leg. Never leave your newborn unsupervised.

8. You Can’t Do It All

With time, you will realise that you aren’t as indefatigable as you thought, you will need help- ask for it, and accept it.