Wow! This is delicate but you made it so. Let me be candid with you, you want to eat your cake and have it back. You are just playing with two original and fake innocent heart, The person you started building your relationship with is the original heart and the one you met at IT is the fake. I will open your mind to something about true trust and fake trust. I will use an analogy to paint this picture of fake and true trust. I believe, your true boyfriend didn’t know about this other guy but the other that is trying to play true knows about him. This is cheating by style… It will start by pet names(story for another day) If you leave your true boyfriend for him, he will trust you to be truthful but that trust won’t last. As soon as, he started seeing you with male friends, abuse(verbally if not physically), serious jealousy and monitoring will set him. You know why, because how he snatched you from your true boyfriend will forever be ringing bell in his conscience and he will always want to guide against it, even if that doesn’t cross your mind to do. Meanwhile, your main boyfriend who innocently doesn’t know anything still trust you completely to be faithful to him(see life) You said, you only have love with your boyfriend(main one), why not build friendship, intimacy, playing gesture(etc) with him. There’s a boy in man every man that want to come out and play…(mine play like little children *smile) but you don’t want to build the friendship because you are getting it from Mr. B. Mr B will bring out the beast in him when he finally have you. “Be on the side of the angel not the beast”… Everyday, everyone of us usually boils down to a simple choice between being on the side of the angels or the beasts. Commitment heed result, lack of commitment heed result but the result of both is classified by their fruit or reward(By SholaAyodele) You can install everything you see in Mr B life in Mr. A for enjoyment and long lasting relationship. Build your relationship on true trust and complete faith. Don’t build on assumptions but fact. There are series of questions you can asked Mr Mudi that throw him off balance… Phone ba3 low Shalom Reply