Activist, Aisha Yesufu Tells Mature Single Women What They Need To Do To Find Love/Marriage
BBOG Activist, Aisha Yesufu has shared her opinion about older women who continue to wait for the right man to show up and marry them.
The mum-of-two said in a tweet that she ”shakes her head” for such women who fail to take the bulls by the horn, identify an eligible bachelor for themselves and make their intentions known to him. marriage while reacting to a loved up photos of an older woman who recently got married to a much younger man.
Aisha who was reacting to photos of a mature woman and her groom shared by a blogger on Twitter felt impressed by the images and asked other women to follow suit and be proactive in fulfilling their dreams of getting married.
She asked single women to make the first move on a desirable mate, buy his ”groom things” if necessary.
She tweeted;
When I see women my age who say they are waiting for men to come ask for their hands in marriage I shake my head. Go & find yourself some young man and ask for his hands in marriage. Buy his groom things and even throw in a cute car! Ask him to memorise a surah as your dowry!
I see many concerned about the young man cheating. What about all the men with younger wives who are cheating on their wives? Cheating has nothing to do with age.
When a follower commented that an older woman’s intention may be pure but the younger man may be using her only for her money, the activist replied
It is allowed to marry for money. The man marries money and the woman marries a younger man to take care of her needs. Win/Win for everyone.
See screenshots below:
School of thought still affecting some women in today world asking why should I ask him to marry me he should ask first the believe is there parent and friends will laff at her so this make alot of them still holding up till a man ask her for marriage