Posts by MIS Editor

Dear MIMsters: I Am Being Haunted By My Past | How Do I Reconcile With It

I am being hunted by something I did a long time ago and I need help on how to reconcile with it. When I was a kid of about 5 years old, something happened. My parents were the hustling type

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Dear MIMsters: How My Husband Finally Stood Up For Me Against MIL’s Excesses

Proud of my husband who finally stood up for me against MIL’s excesses.   My MIL has always been a pain in the neck and no, this is not your typical MIL-DIL tussle. I’ve always regarded my MIL but she

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Dear MIMSters: Why Uncle Louise Has Been Disowned By His Sons Is A Lesson For All Men

My uncle Louise, a young and struggling engineer got married to this young, beautiful equally struggling nurse in 1980. Aunty Hannah supported Uncle Louis and with time, fate smiled on them. They had three boys together and all was well

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Dear MIMsters: Help! My Daughter Is Frustrating All My Efforts And I Fear I May Lose It

My husband left me with three children and eloped with my ‘best’ friend. And though I was angry, I decided I was going to pick myself up, make efforts to make something great out of my life and that of

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Dear MIMsters: My Syrian Boyfriend Is Really Angry With Me

I’m the woman who wrote about dating a Syrian guy sometimes ago. A lot of people blamed me for leading him on and some even said that I was lying about not knowing what his intentions were. How could I

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Handle This Situation With My In-Laws Without Starting A War?

How do I handle this situation with my in-laws without starting a war? Been married for 3 years with a daughter. My husband lives abroad while I work and own a store with a sales girl working for me. Before

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Dear MIMsters: Are Nurse Dorcas’ Pregnant Patients Genuine?

Has anyone heard about nurse Dorcas at Owerri, IMO State? Are her pregnant patients genuine? I was told about how this woman is helping TTC women conceive by inserting some drugs into them, and tells them when to have sex

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Revoke My Husband’s Incantations Against Me?

How do I revoke my husband’s incantations against me? I was forced into marriage when l was 20 and since then, my husband has made life unbearable for me. I am not perfect, but l am one of the kindest

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Save Another Child By Telling On My Ex?

Should I save another child by telling on my ex? My now ex-husband sexually assaulted my 13 year old niece who was living with us. Her father, my BIL beat my Ex to a pulp. To cut a long story

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Dear MIMsters: I Thought My ‘Known Secret’ Would Destroy Me But God Had Other Plans

I thought this known secret of mine would be my undoing but God had other plans for me. I grew up in a strict and very religious home. So when I was going into the university, I made up my

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Dear MIMsters: I Am In A Very Awkward Love Triangle

I am in a very awkward love triangle that has generated strong negative feelings. My marriage is 2 years old. My husband has only one sibling, his brother who is also married. My husband loves me very much and respects

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Dear MIMsters: I Need My Freedom From My Father’s Prison?

What must I do to get my freedom from my father’s prison? I’m soon to be 24 and so frustrated right now because my dad sees my sisters and I as his properties. I’ve never been in a relationship because,

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Dear MIMsters: Every Opportunity Is Not Necessarily A Blessing

There’s a saying that goes, “every opportunity is a blessing.” Based on my personal story which I’m about to share, I would say, not necessarily. Was living in hardship and struggling to get an admission into the University to study

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Just Take My Children, Leave And Go Start A New Life?

Should I just take my children to go start a new life? I am 30 years old, a professional teacher and a mother of two beautiful kids,a boy and a girl whom I  both had through CS. I was born

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Dear MIMsters: He Tells Me Something But His Actions Says Otherwise | Should I Move On?

My ex husband says one thing but his actions tell me otherwise. Should I move on? Been married to my husband for almost 6 years and I had 2 boys before I met him. I swore not to date any

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Dear MIMsters: Just When I Thought I Was Healed From My Past Of Years Of Abuse, This Happened!

When I thought of writing this, my heart started beating very fast and my hands became shaky. I have shared this just once but not the full details and the person doesn’t even understand. He had no help or solution

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Dear MIMsters: I’m Living My Worst Nightmare In Credit To My Husband

About a week ago, I was dealt with a mighty blow a woman should never experience, a woman’s worst nightmare, and the dealer was my husband. I met my husband 11 years ago. We dated for 7 years and got

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Dear MIMsters: Breaking The Silence! How I Was Raped By A Medical Doctor In A National Hospital

It’s amazing some people don’t believe rape stories. Mothers, please be watchful. Protect and believe your children. I was raped by a medical doctor in Nigeria. Yes, you heard that right. A medical doctor in a national hospital. I had

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Give My Husband A Second Chance Because Of This?

Should I give my husband a second chance? I have been married for 4 years. Early this year, I moved out of my house, left the husband with 3 kids. Because I moved town, I couldn’t take the kids out

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Dear MIMsters: I’ve Decided To Break My Silence To Be Free But Do Not Judge Me

Mimsters, I think it’s time for me to break my silence to share my story on rape. Please don’t judge me because it’s one of the reasons I have kept quiet since. It all started when I was working at

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Dear MIMsters: My SIL Invaded My Home By Tricks And There’s Something Else She’s Not Telling

My SIL has invaded my home, yet, there’s something I believe she’s hiding. Been married for 10 years and we have 3 children. My husband and I worked in the same establishment but in different branches before he decided to

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Dear MIMsters: My Pastor Did This To Me And I’m Male. Does This Count As Sexual Harassment?

Does this count as sexual harassment by my Pastor? During my sister’s wedding introduction, I met one of the women who counseled her and played the role of a mother to her. However, due to my busy schedule, I couldn’t

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Dear MIMsters: I Am Thinking Of Instituting A Divorce Against My Wife For These Reasons

I have been married for nine months and my wife is pregnant but I am thinking of instituting a divorce against her. For 6 months, we lived in harmony until 2 months ago when my wife developed a disrespectful behaviour

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Dear MIMsters: I Am Guilty Of Being In Love With Two Men, But I’m Confused About What To Do

I am 23 years old in my undergraduate and will be graduating next year. Right now, I am guilty of being in love with two men. I met Mudi in my first year in 2016. He had just completed his

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Dear Mimsters: How Do I Handle Pastor’s Wife Who Wants Me?

How do I handle my Pastor’s wife who wants me? I’m a 36 year old man living alone. I have a girlfriend who I love so much and we’re planning to get married at the shortest possible time.   l

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