Posts by MIS Editor

Dear MIMsters: Just When I Thought I Had Met An Intelligent Guy, He Did This

It is going to be a long read but I beg for your patience. So, I met this guy at a mutual friend’s house two years back. We had a brief INTELLIGENT conversation and when he asked for my Instagram

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Move On With My Abroad Guy Or Stay With The Home Based One?

In 2015, I met this guy who just came back from abroad, and we’ve been dating before his arrival. Our goal was marriage. He has two kids who also live abroad but he is no longer with their mom. I

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Dear MIMsters: My Marriage/Husband Has Become A Thorn In My Flesh

I have been married to my husband for five years now. I am a nurse while he is a Doctor. My marriage has become a thorn in my flesh. In December 2016, my husband met a lady who presented herself

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Dear MIMsters: 35 Weeks Pregnant And Abandoned By My Beloved Husband

I am 35 weeks pregnant but I have been abandoned. I don’t know how best to tell it. But here it is; I am 27 married to a man 10 years older than I am. He is 37. He had

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Dear MIMsters: Even Though I Have Made A Huge Marital Mistake, I Will Not Give Up On True Love

Marriage is a beautiful thing when you are with the right person. I love reading a beautiful love story because it is a consolation to people like me who fell into the wrong hands. I will not give up on

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Dear MIMsters: Four Years Of Waiting Even Though I Was Certified OK, Little Did I Know

I got married at the age of 22 in 2014. We did various tests most of which were focused on me but I was certified OK but I didn’t know that my husband had a low sperm count. About a

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Dear MIMsters: Am I In A Healthy Relationship Or In An Abusive One?

Am I in a healthy relationship or am in an abusive one? I don’t know if this is how all relationships are. I’m 31 years old and I have been dating my guy since 18. I keep hustling to a

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Dear MIMsters: Am I Just Overreacting Or Am I Making The Right Decision With My Marriage?

Am I overreacting or am I making the right decision with my marriage? My husband cheats. He wants me to accept and live with it. I work and contribute my income to run the house. Sometimes, we share the bills

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Dear MIMsters: Must I Always Show-Off These Things To My In-Laws?

I am married to one of the very few good men (he has his flaws though) and to the glory of God, we’re doing good. However, I need your candid opinion on an issue. Must I always show-off these things

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Dear MIMsters: How Being Financially Needy Would Have Scarred Me For Life

I was very financially needy when I was in University because I had no source of income. My father had passed on when I was a teenager and my mum could barely cope with the needs of 4 children, so

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Dear MIMsters: My Husband Was Sterile And This Is How It All Ended

In response to the Mimster who discovered that her fiance is sterile and doesn’t know what to do, I hope my story helps. I have always wanted to share this but I am not sure I am good at putting

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Dear MIMsters: Why My Mother’s Husband Never Accepted Any Of Us As His Children

With respect to the Mimster who wrote in to say that her husband is sterile and they’ve been married for eleven years, I am writing to share my story on why my mother’s husband never accepted on of the children

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Dear MIMsters: How My Parents Were Able To Manage Our Peer Pressure As Teenagers

Hello MIM, after I read the Mimster’s story whose 15-year-old teenager failed his exams, I would like to share my personal experience on how my parents were able to manage our peer pressure. My father might not have been the

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Dear MIMsters: I Was Naive To Think He Was All I Needed And It Messed Up My Life

I’m 25 years old. During my university days, I had this boyfriend. I was so naive and I believed he was all I needed. One day, I became pregnant, and knowing the family I come from, I almost killed myself

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Dear MIMsters: How I Pursued And Achieved My Dreams Against All Odds

I want to use my story to inspire us as women never to give up on our dreams against all odds. I pursued mine and I am glad I did. Sometimes ago, I posted on this platform about how depressed

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Dear MIMsters: How My Husband Has Made Me A Mentally Deranged Woman

I have been married for a few years now. Since the beginning of our marriage, it’s always been quarrels and arguments. Is there a possibility that a man like my husband can change for the better? He has made me

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Dear MIMsters: Pay Attention To Those Red Flags So You Won’t End Up Like Me

If you seed those red flags and you overlook them, you might be heading for danger. The best decision is to let go when you see those red flags. I hope you guys will learn from my experience. l saw the

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Dear MIMsters: My Husband Is Now A Completely Different Man

I am shattered and weeping because my husband is now a completely different man. Right from the start of our marriage, I discovered that he flirts a lot with women. It started when our marriage was just 2 months old.

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Dear MIMsters: He Has A Good Heart And Is Supportive But I’m Worried

I’m 33 years old and my man is 40. It’s been 2 years since we started dating and it’s been a non-sexual relationship. He has a good heart and is supportive but I’m worried. He has proposed and I know

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Dear MIMsters: I Told My Husband-to-be My Biggest Secret And His Reaction Shocked Me

Let me start my story from the beginning because I believe Mimsters can learn from it. I told my then fiance the biggest secret about my life and his reaction shocked me. I was the only child between my mom

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Dear MIMsters: I Ended This Relationship In Tears, Little Did I Know That God Was Just Saving Me

Sometimes God doesn’t grant the desires of our hearts for our own good. I ended a relationship in tears, little did I know that God was just saving me from a bad marriage. Sometime in 2013, I met this guy

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Dear MIMsters: Is My Behaviour Towards My In-Laws Abnormal For Anyone?

I am in a happy relationship with my partner and planning to get married next year in our home country. I just want to seek your opinion to find out if my behaviour towards my in-laws is abnormal for anyone.

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Dear MIMsters: I Never Knew A Bad Marriage Could Drain Me This Much

I never knew a bad marriage could drain me this much. My story is quite lengthy. I’ve been married for five years, not legally though, with a 5-year-old child and another baby on the way. He only paid my dowry

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Dear MIMsters: I Thought My Husband Was The Most Wonderful And Caring Until This Happened

I have been married for 5 years now to the most wonderful and caring husband and we are blessed with 2 kids. My husband has been home for a week before the lockdown. He doesn’t work where we live, he

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Dear MIMsters: Everyone Is Blaming Me For The Rift Between My Husband And His Family

It’s been a year since hubby and I have not been on speaking terms with my in-laws, specifically, his father and siblings and everyone is blaming me for this rift. Meanwhile, my husband does not live in Nigeria, he only

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