Posts by MIS Editor

Dear MIMsters: I Feel So Worthless To My Own Mother And It’s Eating Me Up

I feel so worthless to my own mother and it is eating me up. I am 21. My mum is too harsh. I am afraid to tell her anything because of her reaction, and if I manage to tell her

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Dear MIMsters: I Can’t Believe That My Husband Has Become Who He Is Now

I feel like I’m trapped in this marriage. I’m 22 years old and I have an eight months old baby girl with my husband who is a 38. We are both based in United kingdom. I cannot believe that my

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Tell Both Our Families That It’s Over Between Us?

I know I’ve made a mistake, but please don’t judge me. How do I tell our families that it is over between us? I’m currently serving in Ilorin while my parents live in Lokoja. I got pregnant after graduating from

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Dear MIMsters: My Mum Has Crossed A Red Line. How Do I Put Her In Her Place?

I’m running mad because of my mum and I might do something really stupid if not properly handled. My mum has crossed a huge red line. I need advice on how to put her in her place. My mum is

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Dear MIMsters: Help! My Husband Has Unknowingly Made A Puppet Out Of Me

Help! My husband has unknowingly made a puppet out of me. I used to think I am a very tough woman but been married to the kind of man that my husband is has broken all of my bones. Am

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Dear MIMsters: Is My Mother-in-Law Right On Her Stance On This Matter Between My Husband And I

Is my mother-in-law right on her her stance on this matter between my husband and I? I’ve been married for 4 years. In the early part of my marriage, my husband raised his hand on me a few times, but

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Dear MIMsters: My Husband Is Threatening To Find Another Woman If I’m Not Ready To Do This

My husband is threatening to find another woman if I am not ready to do this. I met my husband in 2009 when I was 18 years old and in my first year at University. We fell in love but

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Dear MIMsters: Why I Left With My Kids And Might Be Forced To Go Back To My Husband

I have been encouraged by your stories and it has inspired me to share mine. I left my husband but I might be forced to go back. I got married immediately after my university education, at the age of 22.

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Dear MIMsters: I’m So In Love But It Seems Love Is Not Enough For Me?

It seems as if love is not enough for me. I am 27. Finished my ND and immediately got into university for my degree. I am the second of three children. My mother died when I was 12. My father

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How Standing Firm And Trusting My Instincts Against All Odds In My Marriage Paid Off

Good morning to you and happy new year. I’ll tag the title of this piece as ‘Standing firm and trusting your dreams and instincts in marriage.’ Three years ago, I passed by a state owned estate in my area under

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Dear MIMsters: My Daughter And Her Father’s DNA Do Not Match

My daughter and her father’s DNA do not match. I’ve been with my partner for the past 12 years and we are blessed with two girls aged, 10 and 4 years old. We plan to get married by God’s grace

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Dear MIMsters: I Am Tired Of Living Like This | What Should I Do?

I am tired of living like this. What should I do? I am a mother of four. Three boys and a girl. I have been married for 10 years now but we’ve been together for almost 2 decades. So one

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Dear MIMsters: Why Is My Own Mother Treating Me This Way? I Am Heartbroken!

I am heartbroken that my own mother is treating me this way. I am a victim of domestic violence in marriage and a mother of 4 kids. I moved to my family house with my kids and my ex husband

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Dear MIMsters: How We Put Our Dad In His Place After He Did The Unthinkable To Our Mum

I’m sharing this experience to tell every single one of us out there not to let our parents’ bad relationship affect us as individuals. Instead, let us put a stop or make better lives out of our own. This is

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Dear MIMsters: How I Went From Being The Househelp To Becoming a Helper

  Growing up was very tough. In primary school, we couldn’t afford lockers, school uniforms & text books until I managed to finish. In secondary school, there was no money, no help. My grandmother was at the verge of giving

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Dear MIMsters: Am I Just Being Paranoid Over How My Husband Is Treating My Mother?

Am I just being paranoid over how my husband is treating my mother? I’ve been married for 6 years with 3 kids. In these 6 years, it has always been an issue between hubby and I when it comes to

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Dear MIMsters: Perhaps God is Bias. Perhaps, He doesn’t love me. I feel so unworthy!!!

Perhaps God is bias. Perhaps, He doesn’t love me. I feel so unworthy!!! My aunt’s husband, a well-known and respected man of God has been sleeping with me for over 6 years and I am tired! I want to run

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Dear MIMsters: Was I Wrong To End This Relationship?

Was I wrong to end this relationship? February last year when I was just 19, I was in a relationship. Due to our religious beliefs, it was a no sex until marriage relationship. It wasn’t an easy relationship for me.

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Dear MIMsters: Help! My Husband And In-Laws Are In A Gang Up Against Me

My husband and in-laws are in a gang up against me has made me decide to take a walk for good. He has been my husband for 8-years and we have a child between us. I have always been business

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Make What My Husband Did Go Away?

I’m very much depressed right now and need advice on this issue. I don’t know how to make how I feel about what my husband did to me go away. It’s been so hard.   A few months ago, my

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Dear MIMsters: What Do You Do With A Husband That You Do Not Love Anymore

I have been married for over 2 years and it has been from one problem to another with credit to my hubby. I don’t love him anymore but I don’t know what to do. I work in a federal parastatal.

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Dear MIMsters: How I Went From Being A Bad Husband To Becoming A Better Version Of Myself

Being married to my wife has changed my life for the better. I have become a better version of myself. Before I met my wife, I was a big time player. I have been married before but I left the

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Dear MIMsters: Did I Do Wrong To Give MIL This Kind of Reception When She Came To Visit?

Did I do wrong to give MIL the kind of reception I gave her when she came visiting? I grew up as an orphan. My siblings and I were barely 10-years old when we lost our parents in quick succession.

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Dear MIMsters: What I Have Decided To Do Since My Husband Has Never Supported My Dreams

My problem is I am married to a man who has never supported my dreams and aspirations.  I grew up as a young lady full of life, hopes, dreams and aspirations. I got married to my hubby when he was

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Dear MIMsters: Why Is My Own Mother Sabotaging My Efforts?

Why is my own mother sabotaging my efforts? I’m so upset that I don’t think words can console me. I’ve labored all my life for my mum and siblings since we lost our dad. I went through hell just to

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