Posts by MIS Editor

Dear MIMsters: I’m 30 years old but I look like 50 due to my husband’s double standards

I’m 30 years old. I have been married for 3 years now and God has blessed my marriage with a beautiful baby who is one year old. My husband is a caring and responsible man but the problem I’m having

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Dear MIMsters: How I Became A Lesbian at a Very Young Age

This is my true life story, not someone else’. I hear of mothers educating their children on sex education to protect them from the opposite sex and I laugh. Only if you knew how I became a lesbian at a

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Dear MIMsters: Am I overreacting when I watch for my daughter when Hubby’s friend is around?

Am I am overreacting? Hubby’s friend often sleeps in our home. This evening, I was busy with my baby in the bathroom when I heard my four-year-old daughter asking her father what he was doing in the toilet. A few seconds

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Dear MIMsters: How do I do what my husband is asking me to do due to our poor finances?

I am happily married with two kids. They are four years and one year and four months old. Our finances have been poor because hubby’s jobs has not been forthcoming as such. They are have been coming in trickles, a little

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Dear MIMsters: Hubby is threatening to divorce me for this……

I spent 11 years of my marriage believing God for a baby. Last year, God answered us and blessed us with a baby but today, hubby is threatening to divorce me. Two people have suggested that MIL, spiritually has been

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Dear MIM: The Rantings of a Frustrated Sister-in-law

I am a frustrated SIL as my brother’s wife is getting on my nerves. I’ve been trying to avoid her. Even though I am older than her, she keeps insulting me at the slightest opportunity. We live under the same roof

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Dear MIMsters: How do I reconcile my daughter with her father?

I need an advice that will change my life and that of my daughter. I met a guy where I did my IT in Coca Cola in 2008 and we started dating after my IT in 2009. In 2011, I

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Dear MIMsters: How My In-laws Crumbled my Marriage

I got married sometime in 2011 but my marriage crumbled in just some few months. My husband’s siblings came and asked me to leave our house. They accused me of things that were not true. They said I was stubborn

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Dear MIMsters: After all I did for my husband, this is how he repays me.

I have been with my husband for the past 11 years but we got married legally 5 years ago. We have three children now. I have taken care of the house and kids all this while because things weren’t working

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Dear MIMsters: How Men Test Women Like a Dog, Dangling a Bone: My Story!

Ti Abasi Toiyo Ekong Some men want to see what you’ll jump for. That’s why they tell you things like “if a girl is a great cook, I’d marry her without delay” or something like, “my ex was always cooking sumptuous

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Dear MIMsters: Help! How do I convince hubby over this issue that terrifies me

I’m expecting my first baby ever in another two months. Hubby said immediately I put to bed, I will be going straight to his mother’s house. How do I convince hubby not to go? Let me explain why I don’t

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Dear MIMsters: I was offered a promotion at work but hubby tells me to reject it

I need help urgently. I am a mother of three and have been married for 8 years. Hubby provides for the family what is convenient for him to provide and I don’t complain because God has been kind to me

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Dear MIMster: See how much my life has changed since my wife’s mother insulted me

In 2011. I was 28 years old. I was same age with my then fiancée. I was into business, I built a house where I lived with two tenants and owned a car. I decided to marry a very good friend of

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Dear MIMsters: I want to eat my cake and have it but I need your help.

I breastfed my baby for over a year after which my breasts have never been the same again. It is not like they are completely fallen but they are not the way they use to be. The thing is it

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Dear Mimster: Who should I believe? My daughter or her class teacher?

Please tell me, how do I handle this case as I’m terribly confused and do not know who to believe. On Monday, my 5 year-old daughter told me that after going to the toilet at school, as she was pulling

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Dear MIMsters: An Update of my Kogi-state born boyfriend story who won’t prostrate to greet my mum

I am in a relationship with this guy from Kogi State while I am a full blooded Yoruba girl. He stands while greeting my mum, he was corrected and he said where he comes from, he’s not use to it but

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Dear MIMsters: Were we wrong to tell MIL to leave?

I’m a first time mum and a Yoruba girl. Were we wrong to tell MIL to leave but before you judge me, hear me out! On his own, my hubby decided to invite my mum over to babysit immediately after I

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Sponsored Post: 3 Types of Weight Loss Surgery Available in Nigeria

Weight gain is a predominant problem besetting both men and women alike in our society. As Nigerians, our staple foods constituting mainly of starch and and the general lackadaisical attitude towards a healthy lifestyle of exercising and healthy eating takes the blame.

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Dear MIMster: My husband is a Pastor but see how he treats me

Here’s a brief story of what I experience every day of my life in the hands of my husband who is a Pastor. My marriage will be 3-years-old this year. The issue is that since the first day of our marriage, my

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Dear Mimster: My mum does not care if I die but I need a way out

It all started when my mum told me to have a child first before sending me to a higher institution. I am her only child. My father is not supportive as he always gives excuses of not having money or

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Oluchi Madubuike: “How I Converted My Passion into a Business – #Munaandluchi”

Anwulika Ngene Oluchi Madubuike is a geoscientist turned child hair care advocate who has successfully converted her 20-month old daughter’s hair care routine into a business in just one year. What started out as just sharing tips on an Instagram

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Dear MIMsters: How I Nipped my Abusive Relationship in the Bud

I want to share my story about an abusive relationship I found myself in. I was dating this guy for some months and he was OK until the day he raised his voice at me in public. I told him it should

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Dear MIMsters: How I Cured My Hubby’s Cold

Hi Mimsters, hubby came back last night shivering and said he was feeling very cold. According to him, he was drenched in that yesterday’s heavy rain and he’s one who catches cold very easily. I had to rush down to

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Dear MIMsters: How I was molested at 6, and my parents never knew

Child sexual abuse is real and it didn’t start now. Let me tell you my story. It has taken a lot of courage for me to write about this but you should know that I am just a tiny fraction of the

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Dear MIMsters: My SIL has dragged me into a war I know nothing about…

We got married in 2014 and we are blessed with a son. There is this cold war going on in my husband’s family who behave like siblings from different parents and I have been dragged into it. My hubby is

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