Posts by MIS Editor

Dear MIMsters: How Do You Handle A Very Abusive Mother Like Mine?

My mom has always been very abusive. She abuses me physically, emotionally, and verbally, she even compares me with my sister, making everyone feel she is better than me. My dad has always been supportive of me. He corrects and

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Dear MIMsters: Why My Wife Wants Me To Quit My Current Job

I got married in 2016 to my lovely wife and God has blessed the union with a baby boy. My wife wants me to quit my current job and here’s why. I have always worked with a financial institution even

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Dear MIMsters: My Baby Daddy Has Our Son | Should I Take Him Back Due To These Circumstances??

I am 23 years old, a single mum of a twenty months old son. I am also a student. The thing is, my baby daddy has been my major support, financially, towards my academics.   My elder brother and I

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Prevent My Daughter From Growing Up In This Humiliation?

How do I prevent my daughter from growing up into this humiliation meted out to me? I am 24 years old. I started dating this guy in 2014 when I was seeking for admission into the University. I went to

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Dear MIMsters: Why I Am Considering Leaving My Husband. Am I Justified?

We have been married for 8 years and it has been hell. My husband is the type of man who leaves most of the responsibility to me. I am considering leaving him. Am I justified? I provide for the family,

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Dear MIMsters: What Could Mr. B Who Lives Abroad Be Hiding From Me?

I traveled to my village for something, and there, I met a man who collected my number and said he will give it to his boss who lives abroad. That same day, the boss called me and we introduced ourselves

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Dear MIMsters: Why I Am I Feel Like I Have Failed My Five-Year-Old Son

I am a mother who is trying everything within my capabilities to ensure good parenting, but it seems as if I am not doing enough which makes me feel terrible with myself. I have a son who is less than

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Dear MIMsters: This Guy Possesses All The Qualities I Want In A Man But He’s Got Big Problems

I am currently in a quagmire and dicey situation that seem to be eating me up. My story is kinda long. I am 26 years old and I have been in a distance relationship with this amazing 28-year-old guy for

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Dear MIMsters: Why I Dislike My Mother So Much

I do not know how to let go of this hurt and anger in my heart. I have been bottling this for many years. It’s about my mother. I dislike her so much and I’d tell you why. My mother

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Dear MIMsters: Would I Be Making A Big Mistake To Break Up With Him?

Would I be making a big mistake if I broke up with him? My boyfriend asked me out a month after I met him, at first, I said no because I wasn’t physically attracted to him but his character is

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Dear MIMsters: If You Are A Christian Planning To Get Married To A Muslim, I Want You To First Read This

I’m a Christian married to a Muslim. Before getting married, we dated for so many years, and yes, I was aware of his religion & most of their beliefs. On many occasions, we discussed our future at lengths. He is

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Dear MIMsters: Is My Man’s Ego A Red Flag?

My man’s ego is out of this world and always finds it hard to appreciate me. Although he takes care of the kids and I, he’s the type who finds fault with me all the time, and he believes he’s

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Dear MIMsters: My Mother-In-Law Has Never Given Me Peace Since Day One

My mother-in-law and I have not been at peace with each other since day one of my marriage. When I got married at the age of 18, we were living in my mother-in-law’s house. I went from one problem to

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Dear MIMsters: How I Wish I Could Turn Back The Hands Of Time

I’m in emotional turmoil right now. How I wish I could turn back the hands of time. I started dating my first boyfriend at the age of 17. We were so in love, and my family loved him as our

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Dear MIMsters: Why My Mum Warned Me About Her Brother, My Uncle

My mummy died almost three weeks ago. Before her death, she seized every moment to warn me about my uncle, her brother. She told me not to let him get hold of the documents of her property and her money.

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Dear MIMsters: Am I Overthinking Everything About This Relationship Or I Am Just Confused??

Am I overthinking everything about this relationship or I am just being confused? I met this guy through a friend. So, during the full lockdown, we got close as he was always calling & chatting and then, we started dating.

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Dear MIMsters: Would I Be Right To Think That I Was Violated?

Hi Mimsters, there’s something that has been bothering lately. I have decided to share it here in this forum just to start up a conversation and probably get more insight. Would I be right to think I was violated? I

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Dear MIMsters: After Giving Me A Divorce, My Ex-Husband Wants Me Back

I got married in 2012 and exactly on 25 -12-2015, my husband, a medical doctor, called me to say that God told him that the only way he could succeed in life was to divorce me. Before then, he had

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Dear MIMster: Am I Just Being Too Insecure Or Paranoid?

I am 26 years old while my boyfriend is 28. Am I just being too insecure or paranoid? We started out as friends while I was still at university. He has an ND result and he is also a graphic

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Dear MIMsters: How My Family Members Have Become A Bone In My Throat

I am 36 years old and married with 3 children. I am the first child of 5 children and currently living with my kids and a brother. My marriage is a long-distance one. My family members have become a bone

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Dear MIMsters: My Marriage Is Crashing And I Cannot Save It

My marriage is crashing and I just cannot save it. My hubby had an affair with a church member at the time that I had a threatened abortion and was on bed rest from the seventh week of my pregnancy

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Dear MIMsters: I Came Here To Just Pour Out My Heart, Please Hear Me Out!

I was crying at the back of my church yesterday when a church member saw me and introduced me to this page to come and pour out my heart. When it comes to relationships, I feel like God has not

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Dear MIMsters: I Want Him So Much But I Don’t Know How To Handle His Behaviour

Mimsters, I need you to assist me with practical and candid opinions on how to handle this man I want so much. I am a working single mum of a 4-year-old child and I have had my own quota of

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Dear MIMsters: I’m Eight Months But I Feel Like Running Away From My Home

I’m eight months pregnant but I feel like running away from my own home. Here’s why… I earlier asked for advice concerning my hubby who doesn’t help me even though I’m eight months pregnant. I have tried to have a

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Dear MIMsters: I Never Saw The Signs Until This Happened

I was married in 2018. I don’t think I have ever loved another man the way I love my husband but what did I gain? Pains and tears. I never saw the signs until we got married and started living

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