Posts by MIS Editor

Dear MIMsters: How I Went From Being A Rejected Single Teenage Mum To Becoming A Successful Registered Nurse / Midwife

I’m a mother of three and a registered nurse / midwife at the moment. I’m inspired to write this due to the post from a Mimster in the university with a younger sister who is a teenage mother and her

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Dear MIMsters: I Feel So Much At Peace With My Decision But My Parents Are Pressuring Me To Do This

I feel so much at peace with my latest decision about my marriage but my parents are pressuring me. I have known my husband for more than 5 years. Three months into the relationship, he came to my family for

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Dear MIMsters: Is My Child’s Welfare Not Worth Sacrificing My Marriage For?

Is my child’s welfare and well being not worth sacrificing my marriage for? Dear singles, never go into any marriage if your man is not financially stable and you are not gainfully employed, be sure that he has money in

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Dear MIMsters: My Military Husband Other Woman Is Crazy Enough To Do This

I have been married to a military husband for 9 years now, blessed with two kids aged 6 years and 1.3 years olds. Ours has been long distance from the word go. My husband is the kind of man who when

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Dear MIMsters: The Costly Mistake My Parents Made That Every Parent Can Learn From

This story is not to blame my parents or make them look like bad parents because they are not. This story is for every parent to learn from. My parents did what they thought was best. My father came from

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Dear MIMsters: Why Is My Husband’s Side Chic Still Stalking Me

Why is my husband side chic still stalking me? I have been married for 9 years now, blessed with two kids aged 6 years and 1.3 years olds. My husband is in the army. Ours has been long distance from

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Dear MIMsters: Fire On The Mountain As My Sister’s Husband Ought to Be Jailed

I’m in my early 30’s and I am the first child. My sister’s husband should be jailed. My immediate younger sister, Koko who is in her late 20s is married with three kids. My sister, Yada who is now 16

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Dear MIMsters: Where Is My Fault In All Of These?

Where is my fault in all of these? I have been married for 4 years and I have a 3 year old baby girl. Hubby and I lived peacefully without quarrels or fights except for when I tell him to

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Dear MIMsters: I Made A Mistake With My Husband And Now I Am Paying The Price

I made a mistake with my husband and now I am paying for it. My husband is based in a different country while I live in another. Our marriage is less than  months old. My problem is that my husband

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Not All Men Are Beasts Series: Just When I Thought There Was Something Wrong With My Man

So, I decided to share my story with the house today. While it is true that a high percentage of men who are beasts and cheat on their girlfriends and spouse, it’s also equally true that there are men who

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Dear MIMsters: Can I Use My Savings To Help My Husband Build Our House?

Should I trust my husband with this? I have been married for one year to the most amazing man ever. He has been there for me even before we started dating, during courtship and now marriage. My issue is can

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Dear MIMsters: Is My Husband’s Anger Towards Me Justified?

Is my husband’s anger towards me justified? I bought a car 4 years ago after been transferred to a workstation that would take me 3 vehicles to access and after work, the earliest I would get home was at 9.30pm.

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Dear MIMsters: This Is Not What I Bargained For In This Marriage

I am in tears as I write and desperately in need of advice. This is not what I bargained for in this marriage. I got married in May this year, 2019. My marriage has been beautiful until I started experiencing

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Dear MIMsters: Is This Love Gone Sour?

Is this love gone sour? What should I do? My man asked me to go and visit his family alone some months ago when I went to visit my sister, thanks to the wonderful advice I got here, I told

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Dear MIMsters: Is This Guy A Husband Material For Me?

I am asking for advice so that I won’t make a mistake in my life. Is this guy a husband material for me? There is this guy who told me that he wants to marry me and he is very

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Dear MIMsters: Seems Like The Spark In Our Relationship Has Died

This Mimster wants your advice… Seems like the spark in our relationship has died. I am 30 in a relationship with a 32 yrs old guy. We’ve been dating for close to 3 years now. We’ve had challenges and issues

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Resolve This Polygamous Problem Between My Mum and Dad?

How do I resolve this polygamous problem between mum and dad? I love my parents and I don’t like to see them having issues (seriously quarrelling). Mum doesn’t like talking but when I see her quarrelling, that means she is

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Dear MIMsters: What Steps Should I Take To Get Out Of This Mess My Mother Put Me In?

I have been married for 14 years without happiness. My problem started since I got married. My mother put me in this mess. When I finished my SSCE, a lot of suitors came for my hand in marriage which I

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Dear MIMsters: How God Turned Around A Negative Prophecy That Almost Ruined My Marriage

I feel like sharing my story to give hope to others. A negative prophecy almost ruined my marriage but God turned it around. I got married in 2014 to a wonderful man, my best friend. I am not the lovesick

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Dear MIMsters: I Need Accurate Answers On The Best Way To Handle A Man Like My Husband

I’ll like to get accurate answers to the following, please bear with my long write up. 1) Will I get custody of my two kids aged 3 years old and 10 months old if I file for divorce? 2) How

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Dear MIMsters: I Am Being Haunted By My Past | How Do I Reconcile With It

I am being hunted by something I did a long time ago and I need help on how to reconcile with it. When I was a kid of about 5 years old, something happened. My parents were the hustling type

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Dear MIMsters: How My Husband Finally Stood Up For Me Against MIL’s Excesses

Proud of my husband who finally stood up for me against MIL’s excesses.   My MIL has always been a pain in the neck and no, this is not your typical MIL-DIL tussle. I’ve always regarded my MIL but she

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Dear MIMSters: Why Uncle Louise Has Been Disowned By His Sons Is A Lesson For All Men

My uncle Louise, a young and struggling engineer got married to this young, beautiful equally struggling nurse in 1980. Aunty Hannah supported Uncle Louis and with time, fate smiled on them. They had three boys together and all was well

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Dear MIMsters: Help! My Daughter Is Frustrating All My Efforts And I Fear I May Lose It

My husband left me with three children and eloped with my ‘best’ friend. And though I was angry, I decided I was going to pick myself up, make efforts to make something great out of my life and that of

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Dear MIMsters: My Syrian Boyfriend Is Really Angry With Me

I’m the woman who wrote about dating a Syrian guy sometimes ago. A lot of people blamed me for leading him on and some even said that I was lying about not knowing what his intentions were. How could I

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