Posts by MIS Editor

Dear MIMsters: My Parents Brought This Mess Upon Themselves, Now They Want Me To Deal With It

My parents brought this mess upon themselves, and now, they want me to deal with it. Hubby and I have been through our fair share of small and big fights. I come from a very poor family, so my soon

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Tell These Family Friends, “NO”

How do I tell these family friends, “NO.” I’ve been married for over a year and I’m close to my due date. In fact, I expect to give birth within the next two weeks. Now, my husband has this friend

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Dear MIMsters: Let My Life’s Story Of How I Went From Being Dumped To Having The Best Inspire You

I have been meaning to share my life’s story on this platform for a very long time now, unfortunately, I never seemed to have the time to type it all out. Today, I’m home and I hope it’s not late

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Dear MIMsters: What Would Have Happened To My Marriage If The House Help Had Gotten Pregnant

What would have happened to my marriage if the house help had gotten pregnant? I am married with two boys. My family moved into a 3 bedroom apartment five months before my wife gave birth to our second son. Immediately

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Dear MIMsters: Am I On The Right Or Wrong Path?

This post will be long because I want to pour out my heart and also seek good advice from people who know God. Am I on the right or wrong path? I am stuck, depressed and confused and I don’t

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Dear MIMsters: Why Did My Mother Tell My Fiance These Nasty Things About Me?

Why did my mother tell my fiance these nasty things about me? Is she truly my mother? My mom and I had a misunderstanding and unknown to me she called my fiance to come over to our house and told

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Dear MIMster: What Measures Can I Take To Put An End To My Husband’s Disturbing Behaviour

I’ve been married for over 3 years now with one child with the second child on the way. The main issue reason why I’m writing is to get advice on how to tackle my husband’s disturbing behaviour. Whenever we have

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Dear MIMsters: Where Is This Bitterness and Unhappiness Coming From?

I will be 22 years old in October. I am a graduate and I will be serving soon. I want to know why am I so bitter and unhappy? Where is this bitterness and unhappiness coming from? I have a

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Dear MIMsters: Is It OK For My Child To Have His Last Name After Everything He Has Put Me Through?

Is it OK for my child to have his last name after everything that he has put me through? My baby daddy left my when I was 2 months pregnant. He had told me to abort the pregnancy but I

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Dear MIMsters: I Feel So Worthless To My Own Mother And It’s Eating Me Up

I feel so worthless to my own mother and it is eating me up. I am 21. My mum is too harsh. I am afraid to tell her anything because of her reaction, and if I manage to tell her

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Dear MIMsters: I Can’t Believe That My Husband Has Become Who He Is Now

I feel like I’m trapped in this marriage. I’m 22 years old and I have an eight months old baby girl with my husband who is a 38. We are both based in United kingdom. I cannot believe that my

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Tell Both Our Families That It’s Over Between Us?

I know I’ve made a mistake, but please don’t judge me. How do I tell our families that it is over between us? I’m currently serving in Ilorin while my parents live in Lokoja. I got pregnant after graduating from

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Dear MIMsters: My Mum Has Crossed A Red Line. How Do I Put Her In Her Place?

I’m running mad because of my mum and I might do something really stupid if not properly handled. My mum has crossed a huge red line. I need advice on how to put her in her place. My mum is

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Dear MIMsters: Help! My Husband Has Unknowingly Made A Puppet Out Of Me

Help! My husband has unknowingly made a puppet out of me. I used to think I am a very tough woman but been married to the kind of man that my husband is has broken all of my bones. Am

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Dear MIMsters: Is My Mother-in-Law Right On Her Stance On This Matter Between My Husband And I

Is my mother-in-law right on her her stance on this matter between my husband and I? I’ve been married for 4 years. In the early part of my marriage, my husband raised his hand on me a few times, but

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Dear MIMsters: My Husband Is Threatening To Find Another Woman If I’m Not Ready To Do This

My husband is threatening to find another woman if I am not ready to do this. I met my husband in 2009 when I was 18 years old and in my first year at University. We fell in love but

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Dear MIMsters: Why I Left With My Kids And Might Be Forced To Go Back To My Husband

I have been encouraged by your stories and it has inspired me to share mine. I left my husband but I might be forced to go back. I got married immediately after my university education, at the age of 22.

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Dear MIMsters: I’m So In Love But It Seems Love Is Not Enough For Me?

It seems as if love is not enough for me. I am 27. Finished my ND and immediately got into university for my degree. I am the second of three children. My mother died when I was 12. My father

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How Standing Firm And Trusting My Instincts Against All Odds In My Marriage Paid Off

Good morning to you and happy new year. I’ll tag the title of this piece as ‘Standing firm and trusting your dreams and instincts in marriage.’ Three years ago, I passed by a state owned estate in my area under

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Dear MIMsters: My Daughter And Her Father’s DNA Do Not Match

My daughter and her father’s DNA do not match. I’ve been with my partner for the past 12 years and we are blessed with two girls aged, 10 and 4 years old. We plan to get married by God’s grace

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Dear MIMsters: I Am Tired Of Living Like This | What Should I Do?

I am tired of living like this. What should I do? I am a mother of four. Three boys and a girl. I have been married for 10 years now but we’ve been together for almost 2 decades. So one

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Dear MIMsters: Why Is My Own Mother Treating Me This Way? I Am Heartbroken!

I am heartbroken that my own mother is treating me this way. I am a victim of domestic violence in marriage and a mother of 4 kids. I moved to my family house with my kids and my ex husband

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Dear MIMsters: How We Put Our Dad In His Place After He Did The Unthinkable To Our Mum

I’m sharing this experience to tell every single one of us out there not to let our parents’ bad relationship affect us as individuals. Instead, let us put a stop or make better lives out of our own. This is

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Dear MIMsters: How I Went From Being The Househelp To Becoming a Helper

  Growing up was very tough. In primary school, we couldn’t afford lockers, school uniforms & text books until I managed to finish. In secondary school, there was no money, no help. My grandmother was at the verge of giving

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Dear MIMsters: Am I Just Being Paranoid Over How My Husband Is Treating My Mother?

Am I just being paranoid over how my husband is treating my mother? I’ve been married for 6 years with 3 kids. In these 6 years, it has always been an issue between hubby and I when it comes to

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