Category Dear MIM Stories

Dear MIMsters: How Do I Save This Child From Her Wicked Bosses

  Please help save a child.  There’s a young lady in my neighborhood, who after giving birth to a set of twin babies, last year, brought a child, aged 9-10 to take up the responsibility of a nanny.   She

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Dear Mimsters: I Accepted Her Offer of Help… Now It is Threatening My Marriage

Dear Mimsters, I need your advice on this pressing issue that is threatening the peace of my home.. My mother is late and I delivered my 2nd child a month ago, 3 weeks early. My auntie who helps take care

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Dear Mimsters: I’m 7 Months Pregnant but My Boyfriend’s Attitude Is Pushing Me Back to My Ex

Dear Mimsters, I hope you can help me to deal with this situation I am in. I am 25yrs old and 7 months pregnant. My boyfriend of 8 months whom I’m carrying a baby for, does not stay home even

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Dear Mimsters: My Girlfriend Is Dating Another Man… Should I Accept Her Reasons or Move On?

Dear Mimsters, I am in disarray right now. I don’t know if i should move on or understand with my girlfriend. Please I need your meaningful advice. I have a girlfriend and I talk about life and building a home

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Dear Mimsters: My Sister Has Done Her Worst… Am I Wrong to Disown Her?

Dear Mimsters, I once came to this page to complain about my sister’s behavior and some of you asked me to forgive and be the adult. Well, after what she did this time, I have finally made a decision to

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Dear MIMsters: Am I Being A Fool For Love?

I am in a very confused state right now. Am I being fool for love? I’m 32-year-old and a single mother of one. I am also a Bsc holder but currently running a small scale business. I have been into

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Dear MIMsters: My Sisters-In-Law Act Unreasonably… I Don’t Know What to Do

Dear Mimsters, this issue about my sisters-in-law is affecting me and I don’t know how to handle it. My husband is the only son of his parents. He has 3 sisters, one older and two younger ones and none of

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Dear Mimsters: My Fiance Abandoned Me on Hospital Bed, See What God Did

Please I have a story to share and it is bitter sweet, with a lot of lessons. I want Misters to learn from my experience. I had a fiance and we planned to get married in December 2013 but before

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Dear MIMsters: I Am Confused, Should I Ignore My Fiance or Just Apologize?

Dear Mimsters please I need your advice, this issue keeps coming up in my relationship and I don’t know what steps to take. I am engaged to be married by February. Whenever I and my fiance have a little issue,

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Dear MIMsters: It’s Only A Few Weeks To My Wedding, Then I Discover This…

I am in a fix as I only got to discover this a few weeks to my wedding. I am currently engaged to the man of my dreams. He is 37, while I’m 28. Right now as I am typing,

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Prevent My Toddler From Having Bad Breath?

Good day MIMsters, I need advice on how to take proper care of a 17-month-old baby’s mouth. I have been using a soft baby towel soaked in warm water and a pinch of salt to clean her tongue from the

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Dear MIMsters: I Want to Leave My Husband for This Reason, Could I Be Wrong?

Good day mimsters, please I need the best advice to handle this troubling marital issue that is weighing me down. I met a guy through my father, we became close friends and I started having feelings for him. It was

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Dear MIMsters: I Gave up My Dreams For My Husband, See How He Repays Me

I am 28 years old and my husband is 36 years old. We have been married for almost 2 years now, but it has not been a happy marriage. It all started months before our wedding. My husband lost his

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Dear MIMsters: I Refused To Marry Him And Now He Wants To Kill Me

Hello MIMsters, I want to first of all say thank you for the good work you are doing, it has restored many families, thank you for creating this platform. I want you guys to please help me try to make

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Dear MIMsters: Do I Tell My Husband That I Know What He Did to My Cousin?

Hello Mimsters, please help me because I don’t know what to do anymore! I have done all that I can and I am drained. I was married to a man who used to physically abuse me for six years. He

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Dear MIMsters: My Mother Is Blinded By Her So Called Husband and Is Not Thinking Straight

My mother is no longer thinking straight as she is blinded by the man she married. I’m 25 and my mom is 41 years old. I have a sibling from another father who is 22. My mom wasn’t married but

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Dear MIMsters: Hubby Wants Me to Leave My Well Paid Job For This Reason

I posted sometime ago about getting a part time night job as a nurse when my baby was almost 5 months. I got the well paid job and everything was going well until recently when hubby told me to stop

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Dear MIMsters: After Being Treated Like Garbage By My Husband, I Finally Found Happiness But….

Hello Mimsters, please I would appreciate some advice on my marriage that has fast become a bed of thorns in my flesh. My husband has broken my heart a thousand times and treated me like garbage, but was I wrong

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Dear MIMsters: I Am Confused, Do I Send My Maid to School Or Not?

Mimsters, I need your good advice as usual, as this is a very crucial and sensitive issue for me. I am a working-class mum and I have a 16-year-old girl who takes good care of my baby. I want her

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Dear MIMsters: They Both Love Me. . . I Don’t Know Who to Choose

Hello MIMsters, I am confused and I need your honest opinion on who to choose between these two guys that want my hand in marriage. The first guy is a banker who works around the clock. His work consumes his

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Handle This Challenge in My Business?

Hello Mimsters, I am just a startup entrepreneur trying to make ends meet. However, this particular issue seems to be holding me back and giving me second thoughts. I just started running an online clothing store and I live outside Lagos.

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Dear MIMsters: Am I Being Inconsiderate By Taking This Drastic Step?

Hello Mimsters, I would really appreciate some advice. I’m not sure if I am being inconsiderate and harsh. There was a period I was so depressed because I was denied my residential permit. I couldn’t visit my home country without

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Dear MIMsters: Is There Something Wrong With Me?

Is there something wrong with me? I am getting more and more worried by this issue affecting my period flow. SEE ALSO: Your Daughter’s First Period: How to Help Her Through It I am a single lady and I would be turning

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Dear MIMsters: My Husband Is a Serial Cheat, I Want To Leave Him But I Fear He Will Take My Kids

Mimsters, please I need your help very urgently. I am hurt and broken. I’m in a deep emotional trauma right now because of my husband. He is a serial cheat; in fact, the present lady he is having an affair

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Dear MIMsters: My Husband’s Mum Doesn’t Want Him To Pay My Dowry

Hello mimsters, please I need urgent advice on this issue as I am not sure what action to take. I met my husband in 2014 and got pregnant a year later. My husband introduced his family to mine and my

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