Category Dear MIM Stories

Dear MIMsters: Help! He Loves Me and I Don’t Want to Break His Heart

I am in a very confusing situation right now and don’t even know how to start. I do not want to break his heart. In 2015, I was in a relationship that lasted for 2 years. My boyfriend at the

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Return to My Husband Or Not?

Should I return to my husband or not? I turned 25 years old in this month of February. In August last year, I had my Nikkah wedding with my hubby who is jobless and has no handwork. He is only

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Dear MIMsters: I don’t Want My Husband To Think I Hate His Brother

I don’t my husband to think that I hate his brother. What is the best possible way to handle this? My brother in law has been living with my husband even before hubby and I got married. After our wedding,

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Continue To Beg Him Just Because Pastor Said He Is My Husband?

Should I continue to beg my boyfriend just because my pastor said that it has been revealed to him that my he is my destined husband? I’m a 24-year-old woman who has been dating this guy for about 4 years

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Worry About Life After Our Wedding Or Just Take One Day at a Time?

Should I be worrying about life after the wedding or should I take it one day at a time? I will be 26 by next month and I’m already a single mother. My daughter is 8 years old now. I

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Dear MIMsters: I Only Wanted the Best for Myself, So I Made this Decision That Is Now My Nemesis

I made this decision that is now my nemesis because I wanted the best for myself. I’m almost 21 years years old. I completed my secondary education and wanted to further my education. But when I gained admission into the university,

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Dear MIMsters: Did I Go Overboard, Standing Up to My Husband?

Did I go overboard with my husband? I’ve been married for 2 years. In all these years, I have been of tremendous support to my hubby from the very first day. Just like any other marriage, our bitter days surfaced

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Dear MIMsters: I Want to Get Married But My Brothers are Standing in the Way

I am 24 years old and currently doing my one year national youth service program. I would love to get married to this guy but my brothers are standing in my way. In December 2016, I came in contact with

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Dear MIMsters: How Else Can I Verify What He Does For a Living?

I have been in a relationship with a guy I love so much for four months and I do not know what he does for a living. He is older than me with 11 years. (I do not have a

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Dear MIMsters: Is My Dear Husband Using Me to Enrich Himself

I really need advice because I’m losing it. Is my husband using me to enrich himself? My husband has been the one taking care of all our financial issues including fending for my family until in 2016, when things went

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Dear MIMsters: I Told Him the Truth and It Backfired

I met my boyfriend 8 years ago to be precise. I told him the truth about something I did and it backfired. We had an issue, something came up between us and we just stopped talking to each other but

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Dear MIMsters: Am I Jealous of My Boyfriend’s Daughter?

I just don’t know how I’m feeling or how to handle this. Am I jealous of my boyfriend’s daughter?   I lost my husband to cancer when my baby was just one year old. Three years later, I found another man

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Dear MIMsters: I Reconciled with My Ex Thinking He’d Change, You Won’t Believe What He Did Now

I reconciled with my ex this January after breaking up for a whole year. We were engaged to be married and our official introduction had already been done two years ago. Immediately after the introduction in December 2016, we broke

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Dear MIMsters: How This Marriage Is Killing My Self-esteem

My marriage is killing my self-esteem. I’m a woman in my late twenties. I have been married for almost 2 years and I have an 11 months old son. I’m sad to say my marriage seems perfect to others because

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Dear MIMsters: What Should I Do with My Fiancé at This Point in My Life?

  I am writing this with a heavy heart and I want you all to please encourage me. What should I do with my fiancé at this point in my life? Early last year, I got in contact with a man

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Dear MIMsters: My Husband Asked For This, Am I Guilty to Yield to His Request?

My husband asked for this, am I guilty to yield to his request? A few days ago, I had issues with my husband. He is fond of comparing my success, personal life and level of my business growth with other

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Dear MIMsters: He Said My Veejay Smells and I Told Him This….Did I Overreact?

Did I overreact after he told me that my veejay smells? I want to know if I was wrong. My husband and I stopped making love for some weeks due to the fact that we had a misunderstanding. Last night,

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Dear MIMsters: Is My Boyfriend’s Recent Utterances a Red Flag?

Is my boyfriend’s recent utterances a red flag? My boyfriend and I have being in this relationship for more than a year. My family is against our relationship but I took a final decision to be serious and prayed about

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Dear MIMsters: Will Cheating on My Husband Justify this Emotional Stress?

Will cheating on my husband justify this emotional stress that he’s putting me through? Something happened this morning when I was in the car with my husband. He was on the phone speaking with a female lawyer who is helping

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Dear MIMsters: My Baby Daddy Who Abandoned Us Is Now Asking For Forgiveness

  My baby daddy abandoned me with our son when he was less than a week old. He’s never seen my son since he was born until now when he’s is 10 weeks old. Now he’s asking for forgiveness. He

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Dear MIMsters: Please Take Your Health Seriously, Learn From My Dear Brother’s Story

Please learn from my brother’s story and take your health seriously. I lost my sweet mum in 2009. My dad followed in 2012 and since then, God has been great to us. God crowned my efforts with success and I

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Dear MIMsters: Is My Son Being Mistreated At His School?

Is my son being mistreated? Mums, I will appreciate you sharing your experiences and opinions on this issue that bothers me. I enrolled my son in a Montessori school around my residence when he was 18 months old. I was

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Dear MIMsters: My Maid I Discovered My Maid Has Been Messing With my Son

I had no idea that my maid has been messing with my son until now. Yesterday, I caught my two year old baby fondling with his genitals. When he saw me enter his room, he quickly pulled up his briefs.

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Dear MIMsters: My Husband Irritates Me Now and It Has Nothing to do with Cheating.

My husband irritates me now and it is not because he cheats, at least, not to the best of my knowledge. I have been married for 5 years now and my husband hit me for the first time. I wouldn’t

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Dear MIMsters: I Know I Was Wrong To Call My Husband a Bastard, But See What He Did

I know I was wrong calling my husband a bastard but see what he did. My husband and l had an argument and the next words that came out of his mouth were, “pack your load and leave,” and l

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