Category Dear MIM Stories

Dear MIMsters: I Am Hitting The Big 30 and This Issue Is Tearing Me Apart

Hello MIMsters, please allow me to pour my heart out and let go of this issue that has been tearing at me. My birthday is next month, I know this may sound silly but I’m scared to turn 30. I’m

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Dear MIMsters: Why I Am Going To Make My Husband Think I Cheated On Him

Hello MIMsters, I want to make my husband think that I cheated on him and this is my reason. I have been married for over 10 years. I suspected and confirmed that my husband is having an affair with a

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Dear MIMsters: Am I Being Used Or Does He Love Me Differently?

Hello MIMsters, I need your opinion on my relationship with my boyfriend. Am I being used or does he love me differently? I’ve been dating this guy for over a year now. He hardly calls to know how I’m faring.

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Bend Towards the Demands of My Daughter’s School Or Withdraw Her?

Dear mimsters I need urgent advice on this matter concerning my little girl and her school. Should I bend towards the school’s demand or withdraw my daughter? Here’s the deal. My daughter started school this year in August. I went

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Dear MIMsters: I Thought Marriage Was The Solution But How Foolish Was I?

Please help me! I need advice on how to manage my life. My heart breaks because I thought getting married would be my solution. I’m 21 years old and I’m married to a man I thought would make me happy.

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Dear Mimsters: Is He Stingy or Am I Overreacting?

Is he stingy or am I overreacting? I am 32 year single woman with a very good job. I have had bad relationships in the past and since then I have been even more careful. Early this year, one of

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Dear MIMsters: Did I Make A Mistake By Taking Our Relationship To The Next Level?

Did I make a mistake by taking our relationship to the next level. I’m a 29 years old lady in a relationship now for 3 years with an old friend of mine. He’s not based in the country because he

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Dear MIMsters: Is My Fiancé’s Pettiness a Red Flag?

Hello MIM, is my fiancé’s pettiness a red flag? I’m 24 years old, a lawyer, I have a good job and I’m earning well. I have been dating a 28 year old guy for three years now. He was my

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Dear MIMsters: I Want My Son Back But People Are Saying to Leave Him

MIMsters, please help me with your adult and elaborate advice. The problems I have faced in my family since my birth has left me confused and shaken. I have lived a troubled life. How do I go from here with

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Dear MIMsters: Am I the Architect of My Own Problem In This Marriage? How Do I Escape This?

My story is quite unusual, but could I be the architect of my own problems? Was I a fool to trust this man? I got married at the age of 20 to a man people warned me not to marry,

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Dear Mimsters: I Fear I Would Soon Become a Disgrace to My Family

Hello MIMsters, I need your advice on what to do right now. I am at a crossroad and I feel like dying. I fear that I would soon become a disgrace to my family. I am a 27 years old

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Say No to My Mother on this Scary Issue?

I fear for my family, at the same time, I may be destroying my home if I keep obeying my mother. This is my scary story. I told my mum last year that I wanted a housemaid, she refused to

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Dear MIMsters: My Baby Daddy Let Me Down In The Past, Can I Trust Him?

Hello MIMsters, my wedding is coming up, but I am not sure if I should go ahead, even though I love my boyfriend and I have forgiven him for what he did to me in the past. I met my

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Dear MIMsters: I’m Not Happy About My Forthcoming Wedding For This Reason

Good evening MIM, please help me post this to see if anyone reading this can help me figure out what could be wrong with me. I’m not happy about my forthcoming wedding and this is why. I am 29 years

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Dear MIMsters: Am I To Blame For My Husband’s Infidelity?

Hello Mimsters, I am hurt and angry about my husband’s infidelity, but I don’t know if I am to blame. I have been married to a man who I attended secondary school with for 8 years. We have been blessed with

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Dear Mimsters: My Marriage is an Ordeal and My Husband is Depressing. How Do I Win?

Hello everyone, my heart is heavy and full of pain, but I will try to summarize my ordeal. My husband and I have been married for two years; we are blessed with one child, a girl. She is 11 months

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Call My Boyfriend’s Estranged Wife To Hear Her Side Of The Story?

Hello MIMsters, please, I need urgent advice on this unusual and troubling issue. I need to know if it would be right to call my boyfriend’s estranged wife to hear her side of the story. I am in a relationship

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Dear MIMsters: Please, Help Me Find the Father Of My Children To Take Up His Responsibilities

Please help me find the father of my children to take up his responsibilities. Dear MIM, the Lord will bless you for the good work you are doing, as you are watering other people’s garden, I pray your garden will

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Dear MIMsters: My Girlfriend Says Her Church Won’t Wed Us For This Ridiculous Reason

Hello Mimsters, I would appreciate a good advice on how to resolve this ridiculous issue. I’m a comfortable bachelor living in a comfortable apartment. I have a good job, and good investments to my name and I own a car.

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Dear MIMsters: I Am A First Time Mum Worried About My Son’s Feeding Habits

I am a first mum and I am worried about my son’s feeding habits. I was past my due date and was induced because of pain intolerance and shortness of breath. I have been having this for 3 years now

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Dear MIMsters: My Wife Lied. This Is What Really Happened In Our Home

I’m writing this in response to a Mimster who wrote about her husband she says is always searching for their marriage certificate just to tear it. My first question to her is: How many has he torn in our 4

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Dear MIMsters: I Know that I am Ugly But Hearing it From Him Hurts

The father of my child called me ugly in front of people. I know that I am ugly because many people have called me ugly before, but hearing it coming from him, worse, in front of people hit me so

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Dear MIMsters: Evil Thrives When We Do Nothing About It

Dear Mimsters, I just thought I should share an experience I had today and also remind us that evil thrives when people are complicit. I boarded a taxi this morning to work alongside 4 other passengers. I sat in front

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Dear MIMsters: Will Getting a Job Solve My Marital Problems?

Will getting a job solve my marital problems?   I will be 26 next month. I got married 6 months ago. We dated for 6 years before we got married. Since we got married, his character has changed. The problems

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Dear MIMsters: I Want More Children But My Unfaithful Husband Has Issues

This should be my fourth post about my unfaithful husband. I just want to say a big thank you all for all your comments. It has really helped me with some issues. There was a time I shared how my

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