Category Dear MIM Stories

Dear MIMsters: Even Though We Are Not Married Yet, He Wants To Run My Life

I need you all to tell me if I am right or wrong. Even though we are not married yet, my boyfriend wants to run my life. I have this boyfriend who lives in Italy. I am based here at

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Dear MIMsters: Do I Wait for My Boyfriend or Move on?

Do I wait for my boyfriend or move on? I got in a relationship with this guy since 100L when I was 23 years old and we’ve been in this relationship for over 7 years now. I am over 30

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Dear MIMsters: My Husband’s Huge Weakness Can Cripple Our Family But He Doesn’t Care

How do I handle a husband who has a huge weakness that can cripple our family but doesn’t care? My husband earns a little below a hundred thousand Naira but due to the nature of his job, he gets some

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Dear MIMsters: My Brother-in-Law is Living Large Now and I’m Pained

I am telling my sister’s story because my beloved younger sister who this story is about is no more while her husband is living large. My sister, Rose, got married to Jude in a small court wedding during their humble

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Dear MIMsters: I am Married but Living Off My Baby Daddy and this is Causing Me Distress

Living off my baby daddy while being married to another is causing me so much distress. My husband hardly spends on me or give me money. He complains and tells me he’s got no money anytime I ask him to

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Say Yes or No To Hubby’s Relative?

Should I say no or yes to hubby’s relative? My hubby’s much older cousin whom I’ve never met asked my husband to allow his newly wedded wife come stay with us here in Lagos for about three months, so she

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Dear MIMsters: I am Losing My Mind Over this Situation in My Home

I’m at a crossroad and need your advice as I am losing my mind over this situation in my home. You see, my marriage is in its sixth year and it has produced three kids. In all these years, hubby

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Confront My Mum Over This or Let it Go?

It’s lengthy but will keep it as brief as possible. Should I confront my mum or let it go? I went to my parent’s house announced. The generator was running so my mum didn’t hear me coming. What I saw

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Dear MIMsters: I Now Cry Myself to Sleep Every Night Because of Her

I now cry myself to sleep every night and it is because of this woman. I have been trying to conceive for 8 years now and hubby has been very very supportive. When I say supportive, this is in any

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Dear MIMsters: My Husband’s Sister Might Mean Well But This Is Against Everything I Stand For

My husband’s sister may mean well but this is against everything I stand for? Since I got married, I’ve never had any issues with any of my husband’s family even though I discovered that his family are into “everybody mind

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Dear MIMsters: My Sister’s Fees Abroad are Killing Me Fast

My sister’s fees abroad are draining and killing me. I am a single mother who lives in an European country while I have a sister who is schooling as a medical doctor in an Asian country. READ ALSO: Dear Mimsters: My

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Dear MIMsters: I am Beginning to Despise My Younger Sister For Doing This

I am a born again Christian (35) and so is my younger sister who is 23 but I’m beginning to despise her for doing this to me and with her life. I have sponsored and mentored her through primary school,

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Dear MIMsters: After the Loss of Two Babies and One Miscarriage, a Mimster, Is Now Telling a Different Story

I want to use this medium to share my testimony to inspire those trying to conceive and believing God for a miracle. I have written so many times to this page on different occasions but I’m telling a different story

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Dear MIMsters: My Husband Constantly Humilates Me and Here’s Why

My husband constantly humilates and here’s why. My hubby has turned my family to his toothpick. So, whenever we have any issues, he takes it out on my family, insulting them. He has about three projects currently on ground and

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Dear MIMsters: My Fiancée Wants A Fancy Wedding But Is it Really Worth It?

My fiancée wants a fancy wedding, but is it really worth it? I have numerous friends but the ones that I am close to are less than 10 in number. I intend to invite only these ones that I’m in touch

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Dear MIMsters: Are My Pastors Are Right To Say What My Husband Did Is Not Enough Reason to Leave

My pastors are saying that what my husband did is not enough reason for me to leave him. Are they right to think so? I have been married for 5 years without a child. We went to the hospital and

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Dear MIMsters: This Rift Between My Husband and My Family Is Making Me Suicidal

My husband and my family are at a rift. My husband claims my dad has no regard for him. On the other hand, my dad claims my husband is disrespectful and too full of himself due to certain utterances hubby

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Dear MIMsters: I’m Dating a White Man And Our Differences Are Many

I started dating an English guy 6 months ago. I am based in the UK but this is my first time of being with a white guy and I am beginning to find out that our differences are many. He

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Let A Mother-In-Law Like Mine Come For Omugwo?

Should I let a MIL like mine come for Omugwo (postnatal care)? When my hubby was younger, he fell on his bum into hot oil. So, when we decided to get married, MIL approved quickly. This is me thinking she

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Dear MIMsters: My Pregnant Wife Is Afraid My Sperm Will Harm the Baby

I’m really bothered about something and would like to share. I want to know if my sperm can harm my baby and make it start acting weird. My wife is 20 weeks pregnant and still has a small bump. Since

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Dear MIMsters: My Ex, Chibueze Wants Me Back. Is He Genuine?

I’m the South African woman dating the Nigerian guy, Chibueze. (Read previous story here). Before our trip to Nigeria was planned, I was pregnant for him. Six weeks later, I discovered that I had a blighted ovum and had to wait

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Dear MIMsters: Are these flags red enough to call off our wedding?

Are these flags red enough to call off our wedding? I met Dare 8 months ago in church. He is a Sunday School teacher in my church. Our youth Pastor introduced me to him and we got talking and somehow,

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Dear MIMsters: I Am Very Upset With My Mother-in-Law For Doing This

  What do I do? I am very upset with my mother-in-law for doing this. I’m married with three beautiful kids while my husband and I are not doing so well,  financially at the moment. We are managing to make

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Dear MIMsters: I Am Troubled By What a Church Member Said About My Pregnancy

I need some words of encouragement as I am troubled by an utterance made by a church member about my pregnancy. I had a miscarriage in 2016 and exactly one year after, God blessed us with another pregnancy. I have

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Transform My Local Wife Into An Exposed Woman?

How do I transform my local wife into an exposed woman? I had my traditional wedding three months ago to a woman my mother chose for me. My wife’s mum and my mother have been very close friends since they

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