Category Dear MIM Stories

Dear MIMsters: Contrary To Popular Opinion, Marriage Is Beautiful: My Story

Not all men are monsters. Not all men cheat. Contrary to popular opinion, good men still exist. I have read so many posts/comments about what evil men do to their wives, it’s almost as if all men are terrible. Some

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Dear MIMsters: I No Longer Want to Have His Baby But I Feel Trapped

I no longer want to have his baby but I feel trapped. I am a young graduate who has been dating this guy for almost 3 years till date. His family knows me quite well as I do go to

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Dear MIMsters: I Am Pregnant and Scared and This Is Why

I need your advice on how to handle my depressing current state. I am pregnant and scared. I am 23 years old and pregnant for my 35 years old boyfriend who still lives in his family house. I do not

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Dear MIMsters: Is This My Marriage a Scam?

I’m at a cross road right now and I just want to know if my marriage is indeed a scam. I think my marriage was a scam! First, when I met my husband, he was in Enugu prison. We met

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Dear MIMsters: My Father Has Chosen To Kill My Joy For This Simple Reason

My father has chosen to kill my joy for this simple reason. I am my father’s only child though my mom has two other children with my step dad. And even though my dad is stupendously rich, he was never

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Dear MIMsters: How My Dear Husband Has Been Giving Me Headaches For 10 Years

I have had these headaches for close to 10 years now and it doesn’t seem to be going away. The headaches come from my lawfully wedded husband! I mean, how can a man not know how to keep his affairs

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Handle My Entitled Father On This Delicate Matter?

How do I handle my entitled father on this delicate matter? I am the first child of my parents and I have a younger sister. My parents are separated but they were never married. My father never sent me to

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Dear MIMsters: How My Mum Uses Me As An ATM Is Hurtful

It’s so unfair and hurtful how people are quick in judging others, especially women. I read a post concerning the girl whose family wants her to take up their responsibility without caring about her income source, and so would like

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Dear MIMsters: Judge me all you want, I’m still getting a divorce

Judge me all you want, I’m still going to get a divorce. I don’t care anymore about what people will say, especially after this. That useless man called my husband and I have been married for 11 years now. He

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Dear MIMsters: What Should I Do to Get Out of This Huge Mess?

I’m in a huge mess. After so many heartbreaks and disappointments, I met this young man a year ago. Physically, he wasn’t what I wanted in a man but I decided to date him cos I felt he was very

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Set The Records Straight Without Offending Hubby? (Part 2)

Continued from part one For MIL’s meeting, I did the cooking with her 2nd daughter who kept some meat back claiming her mom may need them later. I did not know that she didn’t run it by her mom. Along

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Dear MIMsters: How a Boyfriend Is Changing My Relationship With My Sister

I am having mixed feelings about this, therefore I need your opinion. My relationship with my sister is changing because of a boyfriend. My mum has 2 girls, my sister and I, she is 24 and I am 21. We

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Dear MIMsters: Was I Wrong To Have Walked Out For This Reason?

I live alone with my 3 children because hubby works outside the country and he only comes to Nigeria every December. We have been married for 12 years now and only stayed together for the first 5 years of our

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Set The Records Straight Without Offending Hubby (Part One)

How do I set the records straight without offending hubby? Hubby and I have been married for 5 years. Ours wasn’t love at first sight. We were in the same class at the University but I wasn’t into him because

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Dear MIMsters: Please Tell Me If What I Did Was Right or Wrong

I’m bothered about this situation because I do not know if what I did was right or wrong. If I am wrong, I am ready to change and make amends. This boyfriend of mine is a careless spender who spends

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Dear MIMsters: See How Life Has Been Unfair To Me

I need encouragement and advices on how to move on with my life. Life has really been unfair to me and I wish I could just end my life because I have really been through a lot. I am a

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Dear MIMsters: After All the Lies and Sacrifices, This Happened

After all the lies and sacrifices, this happened. His name is Tobi and I met him in January, 2015. We got talking and got along well even though we live in different states. In February, Tobi visited me and insisted

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Make Peace With Mama After Doing This To Her?

If you choose to abuse me rather than advise me, I would understand but it won’t do me no good why because, I am sure that I have said worse to myself already and it didn’t do me any good

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Dear MIMsters: How My Lazy Brothers Are Slowly Killing My Mother

I live abroad with my mom and sister while my elder brothers who are married live with their wives in Africa. My lazy brothers are slowly killing my mother. My sister and I live with our kids and hubby but

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Dear MIMsters: I Need Help On How to Handle This Situation Breaking My Heart

My husband has been nice and caring though he is sometimes annoying because he is human and can’t be perfect.  I stumbled across his phone, checked and saw a message from a woman. This message I read broke my heart

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Dear MIMsters: We Have A Baby Together But I Don’t Want To Marry Him Anymore

My fiancé and I have a three months old baby together but I do not want to marry him anymore. I am saying this because marrying the father of your child who still wants to marry you might seem like

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Dear MIMsters: My Husband Is Trying To Frustrate Me To Death By Asking Me to Do This

My husband has asked me to leave my job of over 12 years but he is not willing to support the business idea I have proposed, instead he is just trying to frustrate me to death. We met through this

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Dear MIMsters: After My Divorce, Everything Was Going on So Well Until This Happened

After my divorce, everything was going so well until this happened. Here is my story…. There’s this guy I dated back in 2013. His name is Lekan. Lekan and I loved each other so much but we broke up because

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Dear MIMsters: My Late Brother’s Wife Is Driving Me Crazy

My late brother’s wife is driving me crazy. This is our history! My parents had just 3 of us- 2 boys and a girl which is me. We grew up in a very comfortable and somewhat rich home but tragedy

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RE: Dear MIMsters: Are My Reasons Valid For Wanting to Distance My Kids From their Grandmother?

So I read the story of the woman who wants to keep her children away from her mother-in-law and the judgmental view of the commenters here. Do you think that that woman is selfish? I mean, how can you think

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