Category Dear MIM Stories

Dear Mimsters: How My In-Laws Have Been a Thorn in Our Flesh

I seriously need your wise counsel on how to handle this issue as I do not want this matter to escalate beyond this. All I want is peace. I am married to a near perfect and wonderful man but my in-laws

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Dear MIMsters: Who Will Make a Better Husband? My semi illeterate Boyfriend or School Crush?

I met this amazing guy in June, last year. We got so close so fast that it was like we’ve known each other for so long. He always came through for me when I was in school. Personally, I don’t like

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Dear MIMsters: I Wished I Had I Listened to my Mum About My Boyfriend

I was a 23-years-old adult female in my third year at the University. Growing up, I have never been a promiscuous girl. I’ve always been smart with the choices of guys that I date and I have never gone past

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Dear MIMsters: I Thought He Really Loved Me, Now I Want Out After Having a Child

Please do not judge me for I am not perfect. I am 28-years-old and I have been dating this man I thought really loved me for the past 9 years. This is because though we wanted to get married, my

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Dear MIMsters: I’m Depressed But Is What Hubby Wants the Best for Me?

I am a mum who wants the best for herself. I have four kids between the ages of 2 to 8 years old. Since I graduated, I have always worked. Four years ago, I resigned to start a business. It

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Dear MIMsters: I Feel so Guilty about Doing this with My Husband

My husband and I do not live in the same country. We have been living apart for over two years due to his inability ti secure his legal documents yet. We have one son. How we manage the situation is

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Stand the Shame if I Leave Him?

Hubby wasn’t like this before I got married to him, but since I gave birth to my 5 months old daughter he has changed totally. He beats me for every slight mistake I make. Less than 2 weeks ago, our

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9 Healthy Activities To Kill Time as Your Due Date Approaches

Mark Wealth It’s been about 32 weeks give or take and a few more to go! You’ve come a long and you can now see the finish line as you approach your due date. But these last few weeks of

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Dear MIMsters: I Really Have to Move On From My Toxic Marriage. But How?

I dated my hubby for five years before we got married last year. We now have a beautiful daughter. Little did I know I was getting myself into a toxic marriage. My problem is that it is obvious that my

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Dear MIMsters: Which of These Men Should I Pick as My Husband

I am a single mother of one. I lost my baby’s father early this year. Even though I never planned to settle down with him due to some circumstances beyond my control, we were still communicating with each other before

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Dear MIMsters: Will I Be Doing the Right Thing Breaking up My Five Year Relationship

I am a 24-year-old graduate of Industrial Mathematics. I am single and employed. I’ve been  my boyfriend for the past past five years. I met him when we were in school. He was a year ahead of me but we

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Dear MIMsters: How Long Do I Have to Endure Being Treated this Way by My Husband

Three months to our wedding, I found out that my husband-to-be already had 2 kids. I was 2 month pregnant for him then, so I could not call off the wedding because of the shame and disgrace I would have

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Dear MIMsters: I’m Torn Between the Kind of Delivery I Want and What Hubby Wants

My first pregnancy was very difficult because my labour was induced at 41 weeks. I went on to labor for almost 2 days without much progress. I was not more than 3 cm dilated, so naturally, I ended up having

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Dear MIMsters: 8 Months Pregnant and Hubby Thinks He Can Treat Me this Way

Last week, I checked my husband’s phone and found many very annoying and nonsense videos of nude girls. I asked him immediately about the videos and he told me that his colleagues in the office sent them to him. I

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Dear MIMsters: Is My London Based MIL Asking Me to Leave My Marriage?

Hubby and I live in my mother-in-law’s house while she is based in London. She has been the main cause of  the problems hubby and I have both home and abroad. I am legally married to my hubby. It all

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Dear MIMsters: My Boo Hurt Me and I Clapped Back. Was I Wrong?

So my boo and I had a disagreement in the car and he wouldn’t talk to me no matter how much I pleaded with him too. Out of anger, I told him he had the choice to drop me or

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Help My Husband Solve His Problem

I’m a Muslim and married with a kid. I’m a graduate waiting to do my service while trying to help my husband solve his problem. I got married as a virgin. On my wedding night, my hubby wanted to have

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Dear MIMsters: I’m Sick and Tired of Being Heartbroken

I met this guy in Oct 2016 through his cousin. He asked me out, I agreed and we started dating. Then, he was 43-years-old and single and and I was 24-years old and also single. Now, I am heartbroken. Problem

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Dear MIMsters: My Motherly Instinct Tells Leaving My Two Daughters Alone with Their Dad Is a Bad Idea

I am very worked up about an issue right now and my motherly instinct has kicked in. I’m dropping my third baby in a few weeks and I have two daughters already. I started teaching them to sleep in their

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Dear MIMsters: Was I Right to Call Off Our Official Introduction?

I have been in a relationship for over 8 years now. We are planning to have our official introduction this December but I have just told my fiancé that I am no longer interested in going ahead with the plans.

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Dear MIMsters: My AS Status Ruined All My Relationships Until I Met This Guy But…

I am 25 years old, a graduate and working. I had a relationship of four years and it crashed just because of our genotype (AS), since then all the guys that I have been meeting all have the AS status.

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Not All Men Are Beasts: My Happy Father’s Day to My Husband and All Men Like Him

I am writing this in the spirit of Father’s Day. I was in my final year at Nursing school when I found out I was pregnant with my 4th child. I remember lots of thoughts going through my heart. This

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Dear MIMsters: My Father Wants Me to Leave My Irresponsible Husband and Come Back Home. Should I?

I have been married for four years now. My irresponsible husband is not treating me right as he is so arrogant and harsh. We fight every now and then and he’s always finding comfort drinking alcohol. He drinks so much,

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Dear MIMsters: He Is the Love of My Life But My Parents Rejected Him

I fell in love with a man from Ebonyi State while I am from Anambra State. This guy loves me, loves the ground upon which I walked. He treated me like a queen and I reciprocate his love but my

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Dear MIMster: Help! My Husband Doesn’t Love Me Anymore

I need answer to this challenge. My husband is very toxic even though he does not beat me and he loves his kids, the problem that I am having now is that he doesn’t love me anymore. Many times I

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