Category Dear MIM Stories

Dear MIMsters: I’m 30 years old but I look like 50 due to my husband’s double standards

I’m 30 years old. I have been married for 3 years now and God has blessed my marriage with a beautiful baby who is one year old. My husband is a caring and responsible man but the problem I’m having

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Dear MIMsters: How do I say “No” to my married friend and stand by it?

Criticise me but advice me on how to tell my married friend “No” and stand by it. I am an ardent reader on this page and it has helped me greatly. This is my predicament and I need urgent help.

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Dear MIMsters: I have distanced myself from my in-laws for this reason…Am I on the right track?

I have distanced myself from my in-laws because of my experience with them. When husband and I were about to get married, his mother kept discouraging him from pursuing the marriage. She said all sorts of things about me. The

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Dear MIMsters: How do I do what my husband is asking me to do due to our poor finances?

I am happily married with two kids. They are four years and one year and four months old. Our finances have been poor because hubby’s jobs has not been forthcoming as such. They are have been coming in trickles, a little

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Dear MIMsters: Hubby is threatening to divorce me for this……

I spent 11 years of my marriage believing God for a baby. Last year, God answered us and blessed us with a baby but today, hubby is threatening to divorce me. Two people have suggested that MIL, spiritually has been

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Dear MIMsters: After all I did for my husband, this is how he repays me.

I have been with my husband for the past 11 years but we got married legally 5 years ago. We have three children now. I have taken care of the house and kids all this while because things weren’t working

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Dear MIMsters: I was offered a promotion at work but hubby tells me to reject it

I need help urgently. I am a mother of three and have been married for 8 years. Hubby provides for the family what is convenient for him to provide and I don’t complain because God has been kind to me

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Dear MIMsters: I want to eat my cake and have it but I need your help.

I breastfed my baby for over a year after which my breasts have never been the same again. It is not like they are completely fallen but they are not the way they use to be. The thing is it

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Dear MIMsters: An Update of my Kogi-state born boyfriend story who won’t prostrate to greet my mum

I am in a relationship with this guy from Kogi State while I am a full blooded Yoruba girl. He stands while greeting my mum, he was corrected and he said where he comes from, he’s not use to it but

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Dear MIMsters: Were we wrong to tell MIL to leave?

I’m a first time mum and a Yoruba girl. Were we wrong to tell MIL to leave but before you judge me, hear me out! On his own, my hubby decided to invite my mum over to babysit immediately after I

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Dear Mimster: My mum does not care if I die but I need a way out

It all started when my mum told me to have a child first before sending me to a higher institution. I am her only child. My father is not supportive as he always gives excuses of not having money or

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Dear Mimster: Does God approve of my marriage to this man?

I have been so confused about this topic and I just want to know if God approves of my marriage to this man as I don’t want to displease Him. I met a man who was in a previous relationship that

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Dear MIMsters: My dominant daughter is like a curse to her twin sister

I have a set of identical twins. One is dominant while the other is submissive and this really breaks my heart. I may have had no issues if the dominant one was sometimes submissive to her sister but no. She

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Dear Mimster: Should I apologise for this?

During Easter, my husband and I travelled to the East to see my mum. The initial plan was to spend two weeks but he extended our stay by one week because he said he had to quickly go to the

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Dear Mimsters: I have made my decision but….

My hubby is not based abroad. He visited 3 months ago and travelled back early last month. I have always suspected he is cheating on me, both here and over there but when I ask him, he always denies it. Sometimes,

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Dear MIMster: I am losing my sanity in this marriage

When I met my husband, he told me he was a staff in one of the ministries in our state. He said her worked in the finance department. Little did I know I would soon be on the verge of

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Dear MIMsters: Which of these candidates should I choose?

I need help. There are 3 guys seriously on my neck for marriage. Which of these candidates should I choose to become my husband? I have dated Mr A for 6 years. He’s an average living guy. He loves me,

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Dear Mimsters: What would you do if you were in my shoes?

An update on my driver who asked for a loan of 100k to allegedly balance his sister’s hospital bill tagged at N180k for an appendectomy surgery at the Jos University Teaching Hospital. What would you do if you were in

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Dear Mimster: I have been waiting for him for many years. Am I wasting my time?

Am I wasting my time? I’m 28 and a single mom of I who got pregnant in my teens. I was in SS3 then, so was unable to write till date. It was a terrible time for me when I got pregnant

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Dear Mimster: What do you think the problem is with my wife?

I’ve been a male fan of this page for a while now. I brought my wife in as a fan too because of the things I started learning here. On June 12 next month, we will be having our 7th

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Dear Mimster: My daughter is pregnant for a married man and I have been dragged into it

When my daughter brought this guy home to introduce to me her boyfriend, little did I know that he was A married man but without a child. Nothing seemed out of the ordinary except for the fact that he had

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Dear MIMster: Help! My 13-year-old daughter is being groomed by the most unexpected person

Recently, my 13-year-old daughter has been isolating herself from me. I noticed she is always engaged with her phone in her room and anytime I ask her what she is doing with it, she either tells me she is chatting

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Dear MIMsters: We have more power over our husbands than we think

On the issue of dealing with a cheating husband, I would like to share my story. We have more power over our husbands than we think. Here’s why; Few days ago, I laid beside my husband as he scrolled through

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Dear MIMster: I loved him too much, but my husband has betrayed my trust!

I have been married for over 6 years and blessed with two children. My husband and I are so easy going so we never really had any serious issues till early last year. When we got married, I was earning more

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Dear MIMsters: I don’t know why am I still in this relationship despite all the advices I have been given?

Admin, I appreciate you for this wonderful platform you created for mothers to share their problems on and get directions from the fantastic advices and bitter truth from other mothers. I’ve been following this page for years now and believe

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