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Dear MIMsters: Am I In the Wrong To Block MIL from Coming To My House?

Am I in the wrong to block MIL from coming to my house? Please hear me out. I have been married for four years now with two children. My challenge is that for like 2 years now, I have not

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Listen To Siblings About Getting Married to My Man?

I am a 22 year old graduate from a reputable family. My siblings sponsored me through school. My man is 5 years older and his background isn’t that bad. We started five years ago and we have achieved a lot together

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Dear MIMsters: My Stingy Hubby Is Keeping Malice With Me Over This

My stingy hubby is keeping malice with me. I’m a professional teacher but I didn’t want to rely on my monthly salary alone so I decided to do venture into some businesses. So, I took a loan that will be

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Dear MIMsters: Will It Be Proper To Enter a Relationship With Steve?

Will it be proper to enter a relationship with Steve? I started dating Dennis last year in October after he returned from service. We met in my church. I loved him but as our relationship developed, I discovered he’s very

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How Do I Handle This Man Who Wants To Marry Me In Three Weeks?

I’m writing with tears in my eyes and pains in my heart. How do I handle this man who wants to husband me in three weeks? I’m traditionally married to a man whose true colour I never knew for six

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Dear MIMsters: I Want To Cut Him Off For Life? Am I Taking Things Too Far

Am I taking this too far? I met this guy early this year and loved him. He was like all I ever wanted. He disvirgined me. We were very close and went through a lot together. He stood by me

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Dear MIMsters: How Having Jaundice At Birth Has Affected My Child, Even Three Years After

My son is almost 3 years old. At birth, he suffered a prolonged jaundice which lasted for 3 months, though they said that it wasn’t severe enough for him to have a blood transfusion. Before he clocked one year old,

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Dear MIMsters: Did My Daughter’s School Just Bully Her?

Did my daughter’s school just bully her? How do I handle it? On Friday, the 8th December, I came home to meet my daughter crying. I asked her why she was crying, and she told me because she was placed in

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Dear MIMsters: Am I Making A Mistake to Allow My Neighbour Baby Sit My Baby?

Dear Mimsters, please share with me your opinion on this issue. Am I making a mistake to allow my neighbour who is also a mother baby sit my baby? I have a 7 months old daughter and because I am

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Dear Mimsters: My Sister Has Done Her Worst… Am I Wrong to Disown Her?

Dear Mimsters, I once came to this page to complain about my sister’s behavior and some of you asked me to forgive and be the adult. Well, after what she did this time, I have finally made a decision to

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Dear MIMsters: My Sisters-In-Law Act Unreasonably… I Don’t Know What to Do

Dear Mimsters, this issue about my sisters-in-law is affecting me and I don’t know how to handle it. My husband is the only son of his parents. He has 3 sisters, one older and two younger ones and none of

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Use the Distance Between Us to Heal

Should I use the distance between my boyfriend and I to heal? I have this boyfriend who is the only son of his family. We are both from the same ethnic group but from different states. I have known him

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Still Hang On to This Relationship?

Should I still hang on to this relationship? I travelled for over 3 months and before I returned, my boyfriend was with another woman. While I was away, we spoke often on the phone. He did complain about my being

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Dear Mimsters: My Fiance Abandoned Me on Hospital Bed, See What God Did

Please I have a story to share and it is bitter sweet, with a lot of lessons. I want Misters to learn from my experience. I had a fiance and we planned to get married in December 2013 but before

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Dear MIMsters: I Am Confused, Should I Ignore My Fiance or Just Apologize?

Dear Mimsters please I need your advice, this issue keeps coming up in my relationship and I don’t know what steps to take. I am engaged to be married by February. Whenever I and my fiance have a little issue,

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Dear MIMsters: I Want to Leave My Husband for This Reason, Could I Be Wrong?

Good day mimsters, please I need the best advice to handle this troubling marital issue that is weighing me down. I met a guy through my father, we became close friends and I started having feelings for him. It was

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Dear MIMsters: We Are Everything We Want In Each Other But Our Religions Are Getting In Our Way

We are both in love and are everything we want in each other but our religions are getting in our way. I am a young woman who will be turning 24 this December. I am a teacher and I hail

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Dear MIMsters: I Want To Move On But I Am Scared of Something

I want to move on but I am scared. I’m in a serious relationship right now that has been on for almost 5 years. My boyfriend has been the one sponsoring my education since Secondary School. Even though he is

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Was I Right Not to Undress My Husband When He Thought I Would?

I need an advise on how to handle this issue. My hubby is fond of this attitude that is really depressing me. He often pretends to be drunk so I can undress him. Meanwhile he is not a good friend

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Make My Husband Believe This Sad Truth About Me?

Hello MIMsters, I am a huge fan of this page. I would want to use this avenue to hopefully solve and resolve this guilt that has been eating me up for the past two days. It is sad but true.

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Dear MIMsters: I Want My Son Back But People Are Saying to Leave Him

MIMsters, please help me with your adult and elaborate advice. The problems I have faced in my family since my birth has left me confused and shaken. I have lived a troubled life. How do I go from here with

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Dear MIMsters: Am I the Architect of My Own Problem In This Marriage? How Do I Escape This?

My story is quite unusual, but could I be the architect of my own problems? Was I a fool to trust this man? I got married at the age of 20 to a man people warned me not to marry,

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Dear MIMsters: Am I To Blame For My Husband’s Infidelity?

Hello Mimsters, I am hurt and angry about my husband’s infidelity, but I don’t know if I am to blame. I have been married to a man who I attended secondary school with for 8 years. We have been blessed with

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Call My Boyfriend’s Estranged Wife To Hear Her Side Of The Story?

Hello MIMsters, please, I need urgent advice on this unusual and troubling issue. I need to know if it would be right to call my boyfriend’s estranged wife to hear her side of the story. I am in a relationship

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Dear MIMsters: My Girlfriend Says Her Church Won’t Wed Us For This Ridiculous Reason

Hello Mimsters, I would appreciate a good advice on how to resolve this ridiculous issue. I’m a comfortable bachelor living in a comfortable apartment. I have a good job, and good investments to my name and I own a car.

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