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Dear MIMsters: Just When I Thought I Was Healed From My Past Of Years Of Abuse, This Happened!

When I thought of writing this, my heart started beating very fast and my hands became shaky. I have shared this just once but not the full details and the person doesn’t even understand. He had no help or solution

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Take My Boyfriend Back After All These?

Should I take my boyfriend back after all these? I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for three years but all this time, he has lied to me countless times. He has been working in Dubai but every time

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Dear MIMsters: I Broke My Ex’s Heart But I Am Not Sorry

I broke my ex’s heart but I am not sorry. Here’s why… I was in my 2nd year at the university when my ex asked to have a relationship with me. I’ve always known him because we are from the

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Protect My Inheritance From My Husband?

I’m married with two kids, my husband and I love each other and he is an amazing father to the kids who can do anything for them. I writing to find out how to protect my inheritance from my husband

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MIM Inspirational Series: How My Drooling Condition Changed The Course of My Life, Well Almost

I read a post about a young woman drooling, whose boyfriend complained about it and it has prompted me to share my own story on the subject. I began to drool years ago as a child and I never stopped.

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Dear MIMsters: Should My Continue to Hope Or Leave Her Marriage?

Psychologists, marriage counsellors and anyone with a similar experience, please weigh in on this. I want to know if it is best for my mum to leave her marriage or continue to hope in my father? My parents have been

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Dear MIMsters: I Can’t Have A Child, So My Husband Wants To Force Me To Do This (Part Two)

Continued from part one After my husband raised the issue of getting a second wife, he would make reference to that same woman, telling how good a woman she is, even better than me. All these, I still believed was

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Dear MIMsters: Just Because I Can’t Have A Child, My Husband Wants To Force Me To Do This

I am in need of serious advice on this issue that has been depressing me for a while now. I got married in 2011 and lived with my husband for less than a year before he moved to another country.

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Dear MIMsters: I Am No Longer In Love With My Husband of Five Years

I got married 5 years ago and I have a four year-old child. The problem is, I am no longer in love with my husband and here’s why. In 2015, hubby came back from work, told me that he’s done

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Make Peace With Mama After Doing This To Her?

If you choose to abuse me rather than advise me, I would understand but it won’t do me no good why because, I am sure that I have said worse to myself already and it didn’t do me any good

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Dear MIMsters: Why Are Some Women Like This? My Wife Is One of Them

I wouldn’t have written my story here but for the response most women on your page were giving to the woman who slapped a widow whom her husband was helping. Most of the commenters abused her and some even said

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Dear MIMsters: My Husband Is Trying To Frustrate Me To Death By Asking Me to Do This

My husband has asked me to leave my job of over 12 years but he is not willing to support the business idea I have proposed, instead he is just trying to frustrate me to death. We met through this

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Dear MIMsters: My Dreams About Getting Married Are Scary But He’s Such a Nice Guy

How did the few months of your wedding go? Did you have scary dreams? What were the challenges you faced? I have been having bad dreams since hubby and I started planning our wedding. People have been telling me their dreams

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Dear MIMsters: Barely Two Years After Marriage, My Husband Is Out of Control

My husband is out of control and we’ve been barely married for two years. I have been married for one year and five months now. Luckily, I got pregnant three months after my wedding. In the second month of my

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Dear MIMsters: My 24-Year-Old Daughter Says She’s In Love With Her Late Father’s Friend

My daughter says she’s in love with her late father’s friend. Please help me, I am in trouble. My daughter completed her National Youth Service last year and thankfully, got a good job here in Lagos. As she is the

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Dear MIMsters: Am I Wrong To Distrust My Cousin After This?

Long ago, my female cousin started living with us. Being an only girl, I immediately bonded with her and my prior loneliness was erased. We went to school together, washed plates together, took our bath together – we were inseparable

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Dear MIMsters: He’s a Great Guy but I’m Scared Because of This

There’s this great guy that loves me to a fault and he’ll do anything to make me happy. I’ve never felt this loved before. He’s a very good friend to whom I can talk to about anything without been scared.

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Dear MIMsters: See Screenshots of Conversations Between My Fiancé and His Ex

I have been hurt so much. These are screenshots of conversations between my fiancé and his ex. He has always hurt me.   He is in early 30’s and I believed men of his age can’t play such game.  

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Dear MIMsters: Are These Reasons Tenable Enough for a Breakup?

Are my reasons tenable enough to breakup this relationship so I can give someone else a chance? I made money quite early after graduating from the University. I started making a lot of money when I was serving as a

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Embrace Being A Single Mum Or Marry This Married Man Who Fooled Me?

Should I marry this man who fooled me? I am in my mid twenties, 26 to be precise. After graduating from the university, I couldn’t find a job, so, I decided to travel abroad in search of greener pastures. It

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Dear MIMsters: Hubby has been given the ultimatum to choose. Me or his father?

Hubby has been given the ultimatum to choose between me and his father. Here’s my story… “Mariam, you have only 15 minutes to spend at that party. Come back home afterwards. Just show your face to the celebrant and return

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Dear MIMsters: What I Discovered From My Husband’s Chats Is Nothing Short of an Abomination.

Please do not use abusive words on me or on my husband. What I need is advice on how to handle this abomination that I stumbled upon from my husband’s chats. I realize and accept that life is not fair.

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Dear MIMsters: Will My Plan Have a Bad Effect on My Kids?

I need the advice of good home managers to help me out on this. Will my plan have a bad effect on my kids? I have 2 kids, a 3-year-old and a 6 months old baby. I run a business

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Dear MIMsters: I Know It Is In My Interest to Break Up With Him But I’m Pregnant With His Baby

I know that it is in my own interest to break up with him, but I am already pregnant with his baby. I met this guy through my girl friend last year at a wedding. He seemed like a good

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Dear MIMsters: Am I In the Wrong To Block MIL from Coming To My House?

Am I in the wrong to block MIL from coming to my house? Please hear me out. I have been married for four years now with two children. My challenge is that for like 2 years now, I have not

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