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Dear MIMsters: Which Of These Doctors Should I Heed to? The First or Second Doctor?

Please advise and tell me which of these doctor should I pay heed to? I gave birth to my first baby in Februrary 2014 via a Caesarian Section due to the fact that I was not dilating as I was

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Dear MIMsters: My Husband Hasn’t Penetrated Me Since We Wedded 9 Months Ago

I got married 9 months ago as a virgin. My husband wa a virgin too but we have not been able to have real sex because the pain is too much for me. He was able to break through with

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Dear MIMsters: How I Caught My Husband Red Handed | See Screenshots of Chats With Side Chick

I have been having this feeling that my husband is cheating on me, but each time it seems I’ve got him red handed, he always finds a way to escape with lies. This man can lie for Africa. He can

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Dear MIMsters: Was I Wrong to Confront My Husband Over This?

I am married with two children. Recently, I had to confront my husband over an issue troubling me. Was I wrong? Due to the nature of hubby’s job (he works in a telecommunication company) hubby lives in the western part

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Dear MIMsters: I Hate Him But it Has Been Revealed He is My Husband

I met this guy, Bunmi 11 years ago. We couldn’t get married earlier due to insufficient funds but he is ready now. About 3 years into the relationship, I started hating him for no reason but he still treats me

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A Testimony: I Feared I Would Never Get Married Nor Have Kids But Look at Me Today

Back then in 2009, I started fighting the spiritual battle of spiritual husband and marine spirit. I always had wet dreams. This man would and make love to me and I would feel like it is real life. I feared

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Dear MIMsters: Is MIL Truly the Architect of my Problem?

I need advice on how to handle this situation. I have been looking unto God for the fruit of the womb since I got married nine months ago. I have prayed and Pastors revealed to me that someone very close to

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Handle My Neighbour for Treating My Daughter This Way?

How do I handle this Neighbour of mine for treating my daughter the way he did on their way back from school? I leave in a complex with this Neighbour who has an 8 year old son. His son and

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Dear MIMsters: Everyone Wants Me to be His Wife but I’m Not Sure it Would Be Right

I have been friends with this guy for over 15 years now who is very much like a brother to me. We are so much like siblings that we use to sleep together on the same bed for days. Now,

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Evacuate or Quit my Job?

To evacuate or quit? These are the options I am faced with and I must choose one. One sign of pregnancy for me is spotting blood before my menstruation date. My pregnancy is usually confirmed after going to the hospital

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Dear Mimsters: My Parents Advised I Settle Down with this Guy. Are they Right?

I’m a 28 years old who has been dating this guy for 4 years now. My parents have adviced me to settle down with a guy who has paid half of my bride price (which I agreed to due to

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Dear MIMsters: I Said ‘No’ to my Baby Daddy who Abandoned us and His Wife

I am a single mother of a 9-year old girl. Since my baby was 6 months old, her father abandoned us. I struggled alone to see me and my daughter through school without any financial or moral assistance from her

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Dear MIMsters: After 10 Years of Marriage and 3 Lovely Kids, My Husband Wants to Ruin Everything

I have been married for about 10 years now with 3 lovely kids. Hubby and I have had our fair share of couples’ ups and downs. We both have good jobs and take our fair share in running the home.

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Dear MIMsters: Here’s My Plan on How to Handle My Husband who has a Heart of Stone

I am typing this with a heavy heart. I have been married for almost 12 years now to a man with a heart of stone. I have four kids, both boys and girls. Throughout this marriage, I have suffered emotional,

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Dear MIMsters: My Mum Tells Me Everything, Will I Betray Her if I Don’t Tell Her This Secret?

Will I betray my mum if I keep this secret away from her? My step-dad is a wonderful father to his children and even me but he cheats.  I don’t know the level on which he is right now but

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Dear MIMsters: Is What is Happening to Me Now Normal in Pregnancy?

I’m pregnant for the first time and currently in my third trimester. So far in this pregnancy, I have not had any issues until recently. I don’t know if what I am dealing with right now is normal in pregnancy.

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Dear MIMsters: My Husband Is Depriving Me of this One Thing Which Can Make Me Fulfilled

I am a 27-year-old woman and married to the most wonderful, caring and loving husband anyone can find. We have a daughter. Right now, there’s only one other thing I want to make me fulfilled woman. My issue is I

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Dear MIMsters: My Family Wants Me to Marry This Man Despite this Major Problem

I need your sincere advice on how to handle this major problem. My fiance and I have been dating for the past two years. Initially, he told me that he wanted a no-sex relationship and I accepted. But one time

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Dear MIMsters: Is this Behaviour By My Would-be Fiancé a Red Flag Or is He Testing Me?

My boyfriend and I have been together for the past 2 and a half years now. He claims a bad experience in the past involving another woman who broke his heart has shaped his mindset towards our relationship. In the

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Dear MIMsters: Am I Wrong or Right About Calling My Hubby’s Bluff

I want you to tell me where I went or I am going wrong. When hubby got his  American Visa last year, our rent had just expired. All the monies we gathered together were penned down for his trip. As

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Dear MIMsters: Is My Decision About My Husband a Sensible One?

I’m in my early 30s and hubby in his early 40s. We’ve been legally married with four kids. I just need sensible advice on how to handle my husband. He has been cheating on me since we got married. I

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Dear MIMsters: I Think A Man Like My Husband Deserves a Separation

Should I separate from my husband? I think my husband deserved a separation and here’s why. I met my husband through my elder brother and we have been married for four years now with two kids. We dated for three

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Dear MIMsters: I Still Want to Be a Mother But My Husband Is Acting Weird

My dear husband is acting weird and I do not what I have done to deserve this. I got married in November 2013. We had both traditional and white wedding. Since we got married, we have been trying to conceive. We’ve

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Dear MIMsters: My FIL Embarrasses Me With His Comments About My Parenting Skills

I am a mother of three. I always make out time to visit my parents-in-law just to see how they are fairing. On each visit, my FIL will always make me feel as if I can’t take care of babies

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Dear MIMster: He Gave Me the Ultimatum to Choose Between Him and My Degree

I’m 23 years old and my parents are late. My boyfriend, 33, and I have been dating for over a year now and I love him a lot. We started dating before I got my admission into the high institution

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