Category Dear MIM

Dear MIMsters: I Want to Leave My Husband for This Reason, Could I Be Wrong?

Good day mimsters, please I need the best advice to handle this troubling marital issue that is weighing me down. I met a guy through my father, we became close friends and I started having feelings for him. It was

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Dear MIMsters: We Are Everything We Want In Each Other But Our Religions Are Getting In Our Way

We are both in love and are everything we want in each other but our religions are getting in our way. I am a young woman who will be turning 24 this December. I am a teacher and I hail

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Dear MIMsters: I Want To Move On But I Am Scared of Something

I want to move on but I am scared. I’m in a serious relationship right now that has been on for almost 5 years. My boyfriend has been the one sponsoring my education since Secondary School. Even though he is

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Was I Right Not to Undress My Husband When He Thought I Would?

I need an advise on how to handle this issue. My hubby is fond of this attitude that is really depressing me. He often pretends to be drunk so I can undress him. Meanwhile he is not a good friend

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Make My Husband Believe This Sad Truth About Me?

Hello MIMsters, I am a huge fan of this page. I would want to use this avenue to hopefully solve and resolve this guilt that has been eating me up for the past two days. It is sad but true.

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Dear MIMsters: I Want My Son Back But People Are Saying to Leave Him

MIMsters, please help me with your adult and elaborate advice. The problems I have faced in my family since my birth has left me confused and shaken. I have lived a troubled life. How do I go from here with

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Dear MIMsters: Am I the Architect of My Own Problem In This Marriage? How Do I Escape This?

My story is quite unusual, but could I be the architect of my own problems? Was I a fool to trust this man? I got married at the age of 20 to a man people warned me not to marry,

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Dear MIMsters: Am I To Blame For My Husband’s Infidelity?

Hello Mimsters, I am hurt and angry about my husband’s infidelity, but I don’t know if I am to blame. I have been married to a man who I attended secondary school with for 8 years. We have been blessed with

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Call My Boyfriend’s Estranged Wife To Hear Her Side Of The Story?

Hello MIMsters, please, I need urgent advice on this unusual and troubling issue. I need to know if it would be right to call my boyfriend’s estranged wife to hear her side of the story. I am in a relationship

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Dear MIMsters: My Girlfriend Says Her Church Won’t Wed Us For This Ridiculous Reason

Hello Mimsters, I would appreciate a good advice on how to resolve this ridiculous issue. I’m a comfortable bachelor living in a comfortable apartment. I have a good job, and good investments to my name and I own a car.

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Dear MIMsters: I Want More Children But My Unfaithful Husband Has Issues

This should be my fourth post about my unfaithful husband. I just want to say a big thank you all for all your comments. It has really helped me with some issues. There was a time I shared how my

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Dear MIMster: I Hope This Helps A Grieving Mother Heal

I’m writing in response to one of your post; the one about the grieving mother who lost a child and wants to have another one to get over the pain. I wanted to write this in the comment section, but

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Dear MIMsters: Which Of These Doctors Should I Heed to? The First or Second Doctor?

Please advise and tell me which of these doctor should I pay heed to? I gave birth to my first baby in Februrary 2014 via a Caesarian Section due to the fact that I was not dilating as I was

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Dear MIMsters: My Husband Hasn’t Penetrated Me Since We Wedded 9 Months Ago

I got married 9 months ago as a virgin. My husband wa a virgin too but we have not been able to have real sex because the pain is too much for me. He was able to break through with

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Dear MIMsters: How I Caught My Husband Red Handed | See Screenshots of Chats With Side Chick

I have been having this feeling that my husband is cheating on me, but each time it seems I’ve got him red handed, he always finds a way to escape with lies. This man can lie for Africa. He can

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Dear MIMsters: Was I Wrong to Confront My Husband Over This?

I am married with two children. Recently, I had to confront my husband over an issue troubling me. Was I wrong? Due to the nature of hubby’s job (he works in a telecommunication company) hubby lives in the western part

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Dear MIMsters: I Hate Him But it Has Been Revealed He is My Husband

I met this guy, Bunmi 11 years ago. We couldn’t get married earlier due to insufficient funds but he is ready now. About 3 years into the relationship, I started hating him for no reason but he still treats me

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A Testimony: I Feared I Would Never Get Married Nor Have Kids But Look at Me Today

Back then in 2009, I started fighting the spiritual battle of spiritual husband and marine spirit. I always had wet dreams. This man would and make love to me and I would feel like it is real life. I feared

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Dear MIMsters: Is MIL Truly the Architect of my Problem?

I need advice on how to handle this situation. I have been looking unto God for the fruit of the womb since I got married nine months ago. I have prayed and Pastors revealed to me that someone very close to

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Handle My Neighbour for Treating My Daughter This Way?

How do I handle this Neighbour of mine for treating my daughter the way he did on their way back from school? I leave in a complex with this Neighbour who has an 8 year old son. His son and

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Dear MIMsters: Everyone Wants Me to be His Wife but I’m Not Sure it Would Be Right

I have been friends with this guy for over 15 years now who is very much like a brother to me. We are so much like siblings that we use to sleep together on the same bed for days. Now,

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Evacuate or Quit my Job?

To evacuate or quit? These are the options I am faced with and I must choose one. One sign of pregnancy for me is spotting blood before my menstruation date. My pregnancy is usually confirmed after going to the hospital

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Dear Mimsters: My Parents Advised I Settle Down with this Guy. Are they Right?

I’m a 28 years old who has been dating this guy for 4 years now. My parents have adviced me to settle down with a guy who has paid half of my bride price (which I agreed to due to

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Dear MIMsters: I Said ‘No’ to my Baby Daddy who Abandoned us and His Wife

I am a single mother of a 9-year old girl. Since my baby was 6 months old, her father abandoned us. I struggled alone to see me and my daughter through school without any financial or moral assistance from her

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Dear MIMsters: After 10 Years of Marriage and 3 Lovely Kids, My Husband Wants to Ruin Everything

I have been married for about 10 years now with 3 lovely kids. Hubby and I have had our fair share of couples’ ups and downs. We both have good jobs and take our fair share in running the home.

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