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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Make Peace With Mama After Doing This To Her?

If you choose to abuse me rather than advise me, I would understand but it won’t do me no good why because, I am sure that I have said worse to myself already and it didn’t do me any good

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Dear MIMsters: Why Are Some Women Like This? My Wife Is One of Them

I wouldn’t have written my story here but for the response most women on your page were giving to the woman who slapped a widow whom her husband was helping. Most of the commenters abused her and some even said

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Dear MIMsters: My Husband Is Trying To Frustrate Me To Death By Asking Me to Do This

My husband has asked me to leave my job of over 12 years but he is not willing to support the business idea I have proposed, instead he is just trying to frustrate me to death. We met through this

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Dear MIMsters: My Dreams About Getting Married Are Scary But He’s Such a Nice Guy

How did the few months of your wedding go? Did you have scary dreams? What were the challenges you faced? I have been having bad dreams since hubby and I started planning our wedding. People have been telling me their dreams

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Dear MIMsters: Barely Two Years After Marriage, My Husband Is Out of Control

My husband is out of control and we’ve been barely married for two years. I have been married for one year and five months now. Luckily, I got pregnant three months after my wedding. In the second month of my

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Dear MIMsters: My 24-Year-Old Daughter Says She’s In Love With Her Late Father’s Friend

My daughter says she’s in love with her late father’s friend. Please help me, I am in trouble. My daughter completed her National Youth Service last year and thankfully, got a good job here in Lagos. As she is the

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Dear MIMsters: Am I Wrong To Distrust My Cousin After This?

Long ago, my female cousin started living with us. Being an only girl, I immediately bonded with her and my prior loneliness was erased. We went to school together, washed plates together, took our bath together – we were inseparable

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Dear MIMsters: He’s a Great Guy but I’m Scared Because of This

There’s this great guy that loves me to a fault and he’ll do anything to make me happy. I’ve never felt this loved before. He’s a very good friend to whom I can talk to about anything without been scared.

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Dear MIMsters: See Screenshots of Conversations Between My Fiancé and His Ex

I have been hurt so much. These are screenshots of conversations between my fiancé and his ex. He has always hurt me.   He is in early 30’s and I believed men of his age can’t play such game.  

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Dear MIMsters: Are These Reasons Tenable Enough for a Breakup?

Are my reasons tenable enough to breakup this relationship so I can give someone else a chance? I made money quite early after graduating from the University. I started making a lot of money when I was serving as a

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Embrace Being A Single Mum Or Marry This Married Man Who Fooled Me?

Should I marry this man who fooled me? I am in my mid twenties, 26 to be precise. After graduating from the university, I couldn’t find a job, so, I decided to travel abroad in search of greener pastures. It

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Dear MIMsters: Hubby has been given the ultimatum to choose. Me or his father?

Hubby has been given the ultimatum to choose between me and his father. Here’s my story… “Mariam, you have only 15 minutes to spend at that party. Come back home afterwards. Just show your face to the celebrant and return

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Dear MIMsters: What I Discovered From My Husband’s Chats Is Nothing Short of an Abomination.

Please do not use abusive words on me or on my husband. What I need is advice on how to handle this abomination that I stumbled upon from my husband’s chats. I realize and accept that life is not fair.

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Dear MIMsters: Will My Plan Have a Bad Effect on My Kids?

I need the advice of good home managers to help me out on this. Will my plan have a bad effect on my kids? I have 2 kids, a 3-year-old and a 6 months old baby. I run a business

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Dear MIMsters: I Know It Is In My Interest to Break Up With Him But I’m Pregnant With His Baby

I know that it is in my own interest to break up with him, but I am already pregnant with his baby. I met this guy through my girl friend last year at a wedding. He seemed like a good

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Dear MIMsters: Am I In the Wrong To Block MIL from Coming To My House?

Am I in the wrong to block MIL from coming to my house? Please hear me out. I have been married for four years now with two children. My challenge is that for like 2 years now, I have not

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Listen To Siblings About Getting Married to My Man?

I am a 22 year old graduate from a reputable family. My siblings sponsored me through school. My man is 5 years older and his background isn’t that bad. We started five years ago and we have achieved a lot together

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Dear MIMsters: My Stingy Hubby Is Keeping Malice With Me Over This

My stingy hubby is keeping malice with me. I’m a professional teacher but I didn’t want to rely on my monthly salary alone so I decided to do venture into some businesses. So, I took a loan that will be

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Dear MIMsters: Will It Be Proper To Enter a Relationship With Steve?

Will it be proper to enter a relationship with Steve? I started dating Dennis last year in October after he returned from service. We met in my church. I loved him but as our relationship developed, I discovered he’s very

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How Do I Handle This Man Who Wants To Marry Me In Three Weeks?

I’m writing with tears in my eyes and pains in my heart. How do I handle this man who wants to husband me in three weeks? I’m traditionally married to a man whose true colour I never knew for six

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Dear MIMsters: I Want To Cut Him Off For Life? Am I Taking Things Too Far

Am I taking this too far? I met this guy early this year and loved him. He was like all I ever wanted. He disvirgined me. We were very close and went through a lot together. He stood by me

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Dear MIMsters: How Having Jaundice At Birth Has Affected My Child, Even Three Years After

My son is almost 3 years old. At birth, he suffered a prolonged jaundice which lasted for 3 months, though they said that it wasn’t severe enough for him to have a blood transfusion. Before he clocked one year old,

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Dear MIMsters: Did My Daughter’s School Just Bully Her?

Did my daughter’s school just bully her? How do I handle it? On Friday, the 8th December, I came home to meet my daughter crying. I asked her why she was crying, and she told me because she was placed in

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Dear MIMsters: Am I Making A Mistake to Allow My Neighbour Baby Sit My Baby?

Dear Mimsters, please share with me your opinion on this issue. Am I making a mistake to allow my neighbour who is also a mother baby sit my baby? I have a 7 months old daughter and because I am

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Dear Mimsters: My Sister Has Done Her Worst… Am I Wrong to Disown Her?

Dear Mimsters, I once came to this page to complain about my sister’s behavior and some of you asked me to forgive and be the adult. Well, after what she did this time, I have finally made a decision to

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