Category Dear MIMers

Not All Men Are Beasts Series: Just When I Thought There Was Something Wrong With My Man

So, I decided to share my story with the house today. While it is true that a high percentage of men who are beasts and cheat on their girlfriends and spouse, it’s also equally true that there are men who

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Dear MIMsters: I’m Living My Worst Nightmare In Credit To My Husband

About a week ago, I was dealt with a mighty blow a woman should never experience, a woman’s worst nightmare, and the dealer was my husband. I met my husband 11 years ago. We dated for 7 years and got

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Dear MIMsters: Hubby Did This And I Strongly Objected To It. Am I Wrong?

I need perspectives on something that hubby did which I strongly objected to. I want to know if I was right or wrong? I travelled to spend the first few days of the new year with my extended family in

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Dear MIMsters: I Asked Him For Only One Thing & It Opened Up A Can Of Worms

I am a salary earner. I’ve been running a Masters Degree program before I got married. After we got married, I asked my husband for only one thing and it opened up a can of worms. I got married early

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Dear MIMsters: Like a Bad Joke, Right Under My Nose, My MIL Has Organized a New Wife for My Hubby and What Is My Offense?

I want to wake up from this dream that seems like a bad joke. What was my offense? My husband and I got married three years ago, and we live in one of the African countries until last year when

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Dear MIMster: How Do I Tell My Cousin What I’ve Been Doing With Her Newly Wedded Husband?

How do I tell my cousin what I’ve been doing with her newly wed husband? I’m a 21-year-old girl in 300 level. I have a cousin that I like so much and she is very fond of me as well.

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Dear Mimsters: I Feel So Ashamed of Myself Right Now

Hello Mimsters, I feel just too sad and ashamed of myself right now. I am 25 and have been in a relationship with this 37 year old guy for 3 months now. I have a very busy schedule such that

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Dear MIMsters: I Am At A Crossroad and Don’t Know What Path To Take

Hello mimsters, I’m stuck at this crossroads and do not know what path to take. Do I forgive my fiancée’s mother for her inconsiderate behavior towards me, obey my parents on this matter or give in to my fiancée’s pleas?

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Dear MIMsters: Why My Heartless Husband Wants To Divorce Me

Dear MIMsters, this group has really taught me a lot, may God bless the brain behind this great vision. I just want to share on why my heartless husband wants to divorce me and seek your advice on what to

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Dear MIMsters: Is My Boyfriend Making A Mockery Of My Emotions?

Is my boyfriend making a mockery of my emotions? This is my story. I am a single mum, although, it does not look like I have given birth in life. I walked out on my baby’s father when he made

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Dear MIMsters: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me For This Reason. Is He Right?

My husband wants to divorce me. Is his reason right? I have been separated from my husband for four years now, though we still live in the same house but sleep in separate rooms. We have been married for twelve

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Dear MIMsters: Am I Endangering My Son’s Life By Ignoring This Matter

Good evening MIMsters, I need urgent and candid advise on an issue involving my son’s school. It is literarily giving me sleepless nights. I want to know if I will endangering my son’s life if I choose to ignore it.

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Dear MIMsters: Do I Iron Things Out With My Brother-In-law Or Steer Clear?

Hello MIMsters, my story will be long, but please, I ask that you take the time to go through it. I need matured and sincere advice. Do I iron things out with my brother-in-law or steer clear? I am married

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Dear MIMsters: He Says He Loves Me But His Actions Say Otherwise

Please MIMsters, my boyfriend tells me he loves me but his actions tell me otherwise. I need help to make the right decision about this relationship. My boyfriend traveled out of the country three years ago. He always keeps in

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Dear MIMsters: Did I Make A Mistake Ending This Relationship Or Did I Dodge A Bullet?

Hello MIMsters,  I have been a fan of this page lately and I must say, your posts have been great. It led me to take this decision and that is why I decided to share my story. I would really appreciate

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Dear MIMsters: My Husband Has Abandoned His Responsibilities

I need urgent help as my child would be born any moment from now. How do I get my husband to take up his responsibilites? In a few weeks I would have been married for 3 years. I have a

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Dear Mimsters: My Marriage Has Brought Me Nothing But Sorrow and Pain

Hello Mimsters, I need your advice on what to do, because right now, dying is so much better than living in this hell of a marriage. My marriage has brought me nothing but sorrow and pain. I got married 3

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Get Him To Love and Respect Me Or Do I Just Walk Away?

Hi MIMsters, I have this problem that is eating at my peace of mind. How do I get my boyfriend to love and respect me or do I just walk away. It is my hope that I will be able

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Dear Mimsters: I Fear I Would Soon Become a Disgrace to My Family

Hello MIMsters, I need your advice on what to do right now. I am at a crossroad and I feel like dying. I fear that I would soon become a disgrace to my family. I am a 27 years old

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Dear MIMsters: I’m Cutting Ties With My Husband After I Caught Him Doing This

Hello MIMsters, I’m extremely hurt and I want to cut all ties with my husband, but I need to know if I am taking the right decision. I recently discovered that my husband is cheating on me. The girl he

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Dear MIMsters: I’m Not Happy About My Forthcoming Wedding For This Reason

Good evening MIM, please help me post this to see if anyone reading this can help me figure out what could be wrong with me. I’m not happy about my forthcoming wedding and this is why. I am 29 years

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Dear Mimsters: My Marriage is an Ordeal and My Husband is Depressing. How Do I Win?

Hello everyone, my heart is heavy and full of pain, but I will try to summarize my ordeal. My husband and I have been married for two years; we are blessed with one child, a girl. She is 11 months

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Dear MIMsters: Please, Help Me Find the Father Of My Children To Take Up His Responsibilities

Please help me find the father of my children to take up his responsibilities. Dear MIM, the Lord will bless you for the good work you are doing, as you are watering other people’s garden, I pray your garden will

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Dear MIMsters: Can I Trust This Mother-in-law of Mine To Have My Back?

Can I trust my mother-in-law to have my back? I have been married for three years now and I have a 10 months old baby. My husband has been the best since we got married, asides our little quarrels. There

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Dear MIMsters: My Wonderful Husband Is Ruining Our Home With His Habits

I’m married to a wonderful man but sometimes things just get too tough because we have many misunderstandings. Whenever there is a misunderstanding between us, he always calls the police. When police comes, they just laugh it off and go

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