Category Dear MIMers

Dear Mimsters: My Marriage Has Brought Me Nothing But Sorrow and Pain

Hello Mimsters, I need your advice on what to do, because right now, dying is so much better than living in this hell of a marriage. My marriage has brought me nothing but sorrow and pain. I got married 3

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Get Him To Love and Respect Me Or Do I Just Walk Away?

Hi MIMsters, I have this problem that is eating at my peace of mind. How do I get my boyfriend to love and respect me or do I just walk away. It is my hope that I will be able

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Dear Mimsters: I Fear I Would Soon Become a Disgrace to My Family

Hello MIMsters, I need your advice on what to do right now. I am at a crossroad and I feel like dying. I fear that I would soon become a disgrace to my family. I am a 27 years old

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Dear MIMsters: I’m Cutting Ties With My Husband After I Caught Him Doing This

Hello MIMsters, I’m extremely hurt and I want to cut all ties with my husband, but I need to know if I am taking the right decision. I recently discovered that my husband is cheating on me. The girl he

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Dear MIMsters: I’m Not Happy About My Forthcoming Wedding For This Reason

Good evening MIM, please help me post this to see if anyone reading this can help me figure out what could be wrong with me. I’m not happy about my forthcoming wedding and this is why. I am 29 years

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Dear Mimsters: My Marriage is an Ordeal and My Husband is Depressing. How Do I Win?

Hello everyone, my heart is heavy and full of pain, but I will try to summarize my ordeal. My husband and I have been married for two years; we are blessed with one child, a girl. She is 11 months

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Dear MIMsters: Please, Help Me Find the Father Of My Children To Take Up His Responsibilities

Please help me find the father of my children to take up his responsibilities. Dear MIM, the Lord will bless you for the good work you are doing, as you are watering other people’s garden, I pray your garden will

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Dear MIMsters: Can I Trust This Mother-in-law of Mine To Have My Back?

Can I trust my mother-in-law to have my back? I have been married for three years now and I have a 10 months old baby. My husband has been the best since we got married, asides our little quarrels. There

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Dear MIMsters: My Wonderful Husband Is Ruining Our Home With His Habits

I’m married to a wonderful man but sometimes things just get too tough because we have many misunderstandings. Whenever there is a misunderstanding between us, he always calls the police. When police comes, they just laugh it off and go

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Dear MIMsters: My Temper Towards My Child Is Disturbing

I need encouragement and advice from other Mimsters on how to control my temper. I’m a very temperamental person and it is affecting the way I handle my baby. I am a first time mum with a 9 months old

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Dear MIMsters: I’ve Got Real Evidence He’s A Liar But I’m Still Here

I’ve been dating this Nigerian guy for a year plus now, he traveled to Nigeria and spent a month there. While in Nigeria, he was seeing this other woman, they both went out on several occasions with the people who

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Dear MIMsters: Am I On Track to Call this Relationship Quits?

Am I on the right track to call this quits? I’m a 26 year-old working class woman who has been dating this 33 year-old working class guy for the past two years. Before we started dating, he told me he

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Dear MIMsters: Did I do Something Wrong to My Boyfriend I’m in a Long Distance Relationship With?

I have been in a long distance relationship with a guy now for one year. We have been in constant communication and when he’s around we always meet up and have a quality time together. I have never asked him

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Dear MIMsters: Why Am I So Worried About Making Where We Live Comfortable?

I have been married to my husband for 3 years and still counting and we have a son together. I am writing to seek advice on this issue. Hubby and I and our son live in his father’s house and

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Dear MIMsters: I have distanced myself from my in-laws for this reason…Am I on the right track?

I have distanced myself from my in-laws because of my experience with them. When husband and I were about to get married, his mother kept discouraging him from pursuing the marriage. She said all sorts of things about me. The

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Dear MIMsters: Hubby’s Niece Did This To My 2-Year-Old Son and I’m Expected to Forgive?

My hubby’s 13-year-old niece stays with us. Her father is late and I personally asked her mum to let her stay with us to ease her burden since she has two other daughters. However, I’ll never stop regretting that kind-hearted

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Delayed Pregnancy, Triple Blessings & a Supportive Husband: This MIMster’s Moving Story will Inspire You

Sometime in January, MIM brought to your attention tthe story of a man who abandoned his wife after discovering that she was pregnant with triplets, read here. As fate would have it, a MIMster (MIM reader) almost found herself in the

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Dear MIMers: How Do I Deal With An Ungrateful And Too Money Minded Mum Like Mine?

I am 28 years old and the eldest of 4 children. The boys are 26 and 21 years while the girl is 16 and in high school. Though I’m from a poor family, my dad tried his best to help

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Dear MIMers: How Do I Move On After This Hard Blow From My Husband & Son’s Father?

I sought advice on this platform early last year about my newly-wed husband who doesn’t care about me and always wants me to apologise to him whenever we have issues. He would even disallow me access to food in the

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Dear MIMers: Is it Wise to Marry This Amazing Man Despite His Family’s Depressing Attitude Towards Me?

I’m a 33-year-old lawyer from an affluent home. I met my 27-year-old prince charming (also a lawyer) in Abuja about 2 years ago after a terrible heartbreak. He was then in Abuja for his youth service and served at the

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Dear MIMers: I’m Pregnant With My Best Friend’s Husband’s First Child

I’m very depressed right now and need urgent advice on the way forward. Lara (not real name) and I grew up together and anyone would easily think we were sisters because of our incredible bond. Her husband, who she married

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Dear MIMers: Should I Marry The Man Who Raped Me Because Of This?

I have a boyfriend I’ve been dating for the past 5 years now. We decided to abstain and get married as a virgin couple. However, last year December, I was raped by a friend in my aunt’s house. After a

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Dear MIMers: Hubby’s Oath With His Late Wife is Ruining Our Lives

Recently, I read a post about a woman whose husband asked to take an oath with him. It inspired me to share my own experience and the pains I’m going through now. My hubby took an oath with his first

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Dear MIMers: Should I Move in With My First Son’s Father After This Terrible Experience With My Ex?

I got pregnant at 19 during my 200L. My boyfriend said I should terminate it because he was not ready financially but I refused to do that. Things subsequently changed between us; he stopped caring about me like he used

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Dear MIMers: How Do I Tell My Cousin Her Newly-wed Hubby Has Been Cheating With Me?

I’m a 21-year-old girl in 300 level. I have a cousin that I like so much and she is very fond of me as well. When she got married, she invited me over and I went during one of our

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