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Dear MIMsters: Could My Husband Be The Man Behind My Problems?

Could my husband be the man behind my problems? I’m a graduate with a marketing degree who worked in the bank before I got married. My credentials suddenly developed wings and has flown out of my house for 3 years

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Dear MIMsters: Are My Pastors Are Right To Say What My Husband Did Is Not Enough Reason to Leave

My pastors are saying that what my husband did is not enough reason for me to leave him. Are they right to think so? I have been married for 5 years without a child. We went to the hospital and

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Dear MIMsters: Everything About My Husband Now Irritates Me and This Why

Lately, everything about my husband irritates me. Even though we now get along well,  I still find myself making excuses not to get intimate with him. This is due to the fact that his behaviour towards me has killed all

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Dear MIMsters: Am I The Only One Who Feels This Way About My Husband’s Calls?

Am I the only one who feels this way about my husband’s calls? I have been confused as to what to do in this situation. I don’t want to make a big deal out of this by telling friends. I

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Dear MIMsters: I Have Resolved To Move Out But I’m Afraid I Might Regret It

I really need sound advice before I do something silly that I might regret as I have resolved to move out. I have been living with this man I call my husband. I have a child for him but we

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Dear MIMsters: Is My Husband my Mother-in-Law’s Co-conspirator?

Is my husband my MIL’s co-conspirator? We reside in the one of the French African countries. We decided to send our children to school in Nigeria at one of the unity schools in our state. Anytime the kids are on

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Dear MIMsters: Is My Stance on this Matter Wrong?

I need your advice because I am losing my sanity. Am I wrong for taking this stance? We got married two and a half years ago but we do not have a child yet. We usually have arguments and little

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How Do I Handle This Man Who Wants To Marry Me In Three Weeks?

I’m writing with tears in my eyes and pains in my heart. How do I handle this man who wants to husband me in three weeks? I’m traditionally married to a man whose true colour I never knew for six

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Dear MIMsters: I Want To Cut Him Off For Life? Am I Taking Things Too Far

Am I taking this too far? I met this guy early this year and loved him. He was like all I ever wanted. He disvirgined me. We were very close and went through a lot together. He stood by me

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Be Worried About My Daughter’s Sight?

Should I be worried about my daughter’s sight? I have a  daughter who is 4 months old. I noticed when I came back from the office that her body was very hot and she was weak. My wife gave her

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Dear MIMsters: Did My Daughter’s School Just Bully Her?

Did my daughter’s school just bully her? How do I handle it? On Friday, the 8th December, I came home to meet my daughter crying. I asked her why she was crying, and she told me because she was placed in

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Dear MIMsters: I Have Decided Never to Step a Foot Into My Husband’s Room Again

Hubby has been asking me to move to my room, but I’ve been refusing until his older brother came visiting. He seized the opportunity to tell me to leave his room so he can share the room with his brother.

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Dear MIMsters: Am I Making A Mistake to Allow My Neighbour Baby Sit My Baby?

Dear Mimsters, please share with me your opinion on this issue. Am I making a mistake to allow my neighbour who is also a mother baby sit my baby? I have a 7 months old daughter and because I am

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Dear Mimsters: My Girlfriend Is Dating Another Man… Should I Accept Her Reasons or Move On?

Dear Mimsters, I am in disarray right now. I don’t know if i should move on or understand with my girlfriend. Please I need your meaningful advice. I have a girlfriend and I talk about life and building a home

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Dear MIMsters: My Sisters-In-Law Act Unreasonably… I Don’t Know What to Do

Dear Mimsters, this issue about my sisters-in-law is affecting me and I don’t know how to handle it. My husband is the only son of his parents. He has 3 sisters, one older and two younger ones and none of

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Prevent My Toddler From Having Bad Breath?

Good day MIMsters, I need advice on how to take proper care of a 17-month-old baby’s mouth. I have been using a soft baby towel soaked in warm water and a pinch of salt to clean her tongue from the

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Dear MIMsters: I Want to Leave My Husband for This Reason, Could I Be Wrong?

Good day mimsters, please I need the best advice to handle this troubling marital issue that is weighing me down. I met a guy through my father, we became close friends and I started having feelings for him. It was

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Dear MIMsters: I Gave up My Dreams For My Husband, See How He Repays Me

I am 28 years old and my husband is 36 years old. We have been married for almost 2 years now, but it has not been a happy marriage. It all started months before our wedding. My husband lost his

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Dear MIMsters: I Refused To Marry Him And Now He Wants To Kill Me

Hello MIMsters, I want to first of all say thank you for the good work you are doing, it has restored many families, thank you for creating this platform. I want you guys to please help me try to make

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Dear MIMsters: Do I Tell My Husband That I Know What He Did to My Cousin?

Hello Mimsters, please help me because I don’t know what to do anymore! I have done all that I can and I am drained. I was married to a man who used to physically abuse me for six years. He

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Dear MIMsters: After Being Treated Like Garbage By My Husband, I Finally Found Happiness But….

Hello Mimsters, please I would appreciate some advice on my marriage that has fast become a bed of thorns in my flesh. My husband has broken my heart a thousand times and treated me like garbage, but was I wrong

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Dear MIMsters: I Am Confused, Do I Send My Maid to School Or Not?

Mimsters, I need your good advice as usual, as this is a very crucial and sensitive issue for me. I am a working-class mum and I have a 16-year-old girl who takes good care of my baby. I want her

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Dear MIMsters: They Both Love Me. . . I Don’t Know Who to Choose

Hello MIMsters, I am confused and I need your honest opinion on who to choose between these two guys that want my hand in marriage. The first guy is a banker who works around the clock. His work consumes his

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Handle This Challenge in My Business?

Hello Mimsters, I am just a startup entrepreneur trying to make ends meet. However, this particular issue seems to be holding me back and giving me second thoughts. I just started running an online clothing store and I live outside Lagos.

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Dear MIMsters: Am I Being Inconsiderate By Taking This Drastic Step?

Hello Mimsters, I would really appreciate some advice. I’m not sure if I am being inconsiderate and harsh. There was a period I was so depressed because I was denied my residential permit. I couldn’t visit my home country without

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