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Dear MIMsters: Every Opportunity Is Not Necessarily A Blessing

There’s a saying that goes, “every opportunity is a blessing.” Based on my personal story which I’m about to share, I would say, not necessarily. Was living in hardship and struggling to get an admission into the University to study

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Just Take My Children, Leave And Go Start A New Life?

Should I just take my children to go start a new life? I am 30 years old, a professional teacher and a mother of two beautiful kids,a boy and a girl whom I  both had through CS. I was born

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Dear MIMsters: I’m Living My Worst Nightmare In Credit To My Husband

About a week ago, I was dealt with a mighty blow a woman should never experience, a woman’s worst nightmare, and the dealer was my husband. I met my husband 11 years ago. We dated for 7 years and got

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Dear MIMsters Inspiring Series: How My Life Was Transformed In The Aftermath Of An Abusive Relationship

What I am about to share is my personal experience on how my life was transformed in the aftermath of an abusive relationship. This is also to let anyone in an abusive relationship know that that relationship is not worth

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Dear MIMsters: Do I Need The Help Of A Psychologist To Help Me Deal With These Issues I’m Faced With At Home?

My post is kinda long, but please kindly bear with me as I’m depressed and really in need of constructive advice. I don’t know if I need a psychologist to help me deal with the issues I’m faced with at

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Dear MIMSters: How Do I Make My Sister Retrace Her Step?

How do I make my sister retrace her step? My elder sister had five daughters whose lifestyles give the whole family concerns. They are between the ages of 25 and 15. Sister mi does not see anything wrong with her

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Dear MIMsters: Is This My Marriage a Scam?

I’m at a cross road right now and I just want to know if my marriage is indeed a scam. I think my marriage was a scam! First, when I met my husband, he was in Enugu prison. We met

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Dear MIMsters: Judge me all you want, I’m still getting a divorce

Judge me all you want, I’m still going to get a divorce. I don’t care anymore about what people will say, especially after this. That useless man called my husband and I have been married for 11 years now. He

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Dear MIMsters: Barely Two Years After Marriage, My Husband Is Out of Control

My husband is out of control and we’ve been barely married for two years. I have been married for one year and five months now. Luckily, I got pregnant three months after my wedding. In the second month of my

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Dear MIMsters: My 24-Year-Old Daughter Says She’s In Love With Her Late Father’s Friend

My daughter says she’s in love with her late father’s friend. Please help me, I am in trouble. My daughter completed her National Youth Service last year and thankfully, got a good job here in Lagos. As she is the

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Dear MIMsters: Am I Wrong To Distrust My Cousin After This?

Long ago, my female cousin started living with us. Being an only girl, I immediately bonded with her and my prior loneliness was erased. We went to school together, washed plates together, took our bath together – we were inseparable

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Embrace Being A Single Mum Or Marry This Married Man Who Fooled Me?

Should I marry this man who fooled me? I am in my mid twenties, 26 to be precise. After graduating from the university, I couldn’t find a job, so, I decided to travel abroad in search of greener pastures. It

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Dear MIMsters: My Loving Husband Who Can’t Make Love To Me Suggests I Use a Dildo

I am 33, my husband is 40. We are blessed with 2 lovely kids. My husband is such a loving man and a good father to our kids but he cannot make love to me. In 2013, he was diagnosed with

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Dear MIMsters: Is It OK To Marry A Married Man Whose Wife Likes Me Too!

I need advice on this issue surrounding a married man whose wife likes me too. I’m 25 years old, but I look much older than that. Every relationship that I have been in ended badly because of one thing or

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Dear MIMsters: Could My Husband Be The Man Behind My Problems?

Could my husband be the man behind my problems? I’m a graduate with a marketing degree who worked in the bank before I got married. My credentials suddenly developed wings and has flown out of my house for 3 years

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Dear MIMsters: Are My Pastors Are Right To Say What My Husband Did Is Not Enough Reason to Leave

My pastors are saying that what my husband did is not enough reason for me to leave him. Are they right to think so? I have been married for 5 years without a child. We went to the hospital and

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Dear MIMsters: Everything About My Husband Now Irritates Me and This Why

Lately, everything about my husband irritates me. Even though we now get along well,  I still find myself making excuses not to get intimate with him. This is due to the fact that his behaviour towards me has killed all

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Dear MIMsters: Am I The Only One Who Feels This Way About My Husband’s Calls?

Am I the only one who feels this way about my husband’s calls? I have been confused as to what to do in this situation. I don’t want to make a big deal out of this by telling friends. I

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Dear MIMsters: I Have Resolved To Move Out But I’m Afraid I Might Regret It

I really need sound advice before I do something silly that I might regret as I have resolved to move out. I have been living with this man I call my husband. I have a child for him but we

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Dear MIMsters: Is My Husband my Mother-in-Law’s Co-conspirator?

Is my husband my MIL’s co-conspirator? We reside in the one of the French African countries. We decided to send our children to school in Nigeria at one of the unity schools in our state. Anytime the kids are on

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Dear MIMsters: Is My Stance on this Matter Wrong?

I need your advice because I am losing my sanity. Am I wrong for taking this stance? We got married two and a half years ago but we do not have a child yet. We usually have arguments and little

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How Do I Handle This Man Who Wants To Marry Me In Three Weeks?

I’m writing with tears in my eyes and pains in my heart. How do I handle this man who wants to husband me in three weeks? I’m traditionally married to a man whose true colour I never knew for six

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Dear MIMsters: I Want To Cut Him Off For Life? Am I Taking Things Too Far

Am I taking this too far? I met this guy early this year and loved him. He was like all I ever wanted. He disvirgined me. We were very close and went through a lot together. He stood by me

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Be Worried About My Daughter’s Sight?

Should I be worried about my daughter’s sight? I have a  daughter who is 4 months old. I noticed when I came back from the office that her body was very hot and she was weak. My wife gave her

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Dear MIMsters: Did My Daughter’s School Just Bully Her?

Did my daughter’s school just bully her? How do I handle it? On Friday, the 8th December, I came home to meet my daughter crying. I asked her why she was crying, and she told me because she was placed in

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