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Dear MIMsters: I Thought Marriage Was The Solution But How Foolish Was I?

Please help me! I need advice on how to manage my life. My heart breaks because I thought getting married would be my solution. I’m 21 years old and I’m married to a man I thought would make me happy.

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Dear MIMsters: Did I Make A Mistake By Taking Our Relationship To The Next Level?

Did I make a mistake by taking our relationship to the next level. I’m a 29 years old lady in a relationship now for 3 years with an old friend of mine. He’s not based in the country because he

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Dear MIMsters: Is My Fiancé’s Pettiness a Red Flag?

Hello MIM, is my fiancé’s pettiness a red flag? I’m 24 years old, a lawyer, I have a good job and I’m earning well. I have been dating a 28 year old guy for three years now. He was my

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Get Him To Love and Respect Me Or Do I Just Walk Away?

Hi MIMsters, I have this problem that is eating at my peace of mind. How do I get my boyfriend to love and respect me or do I just walk away. It is my hope that I will be able

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Dear MIMsters: How Do I Say No to My Mother on this Scary Issue?

I fear for my family, at the same time, I may be destroying my home if I keep obeying my mother. This is my scary story. I told my mum last year that I wanted a housemaid, she refused to

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Dear MIMsters: I’m Cutting Ties With My Husband After I Caught Him Doing This

Hello MIMsters, I’m extremely hurt and I want to cut all ties with my husband, but I need to know if I am taking the right decision. I recently discovered that my husband is cheating on me. The girl he

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Dear MIMsters: I’m Not Happy About My Forthcoming Wedding For This Reason

Good evening MIM, please help me post this to see if anyone reading this can help me figure out what could be wrong with me. I’m not happy about my forthcoming wedding and this is why. I am 29 years

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Dear MIMsters: Am I To Blame For My Husband’s Infidelity?

Hello Mimsters, I am hurt and angry about my husband’s infidelity, but I don’t know if I am to blame. I have been married to a man who I attended secondary school with for 8 years. We have been blessed with

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Call My Boyfriend’s Estranged Wife To Hear Her Side Of The Story?

Hello MIMsters, please, I need urgent advice on this unusual and troubling issue. I need to know if it would be right to call my boyfriend’s estranged wife to hear her side of the story. I am in a relationship

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Dear MIMsters: Which Of These Doctors Should I Heed to? The First or Second Doctor?

Please advise and tell me which of these doctor should I pay heed to? I gave birth to my first baby in Februrary 2014 via a Caesarian Section due to the fact that I was not dilating as I was

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Dear MIM: Is It OK To Marry A Married Man Whose Wife Likes Me Too!

I need advice on this issue surrounding a married man whose wife likes me too. I’m 25 years old, but I look much older than that. Every relationship that I have been in ended badly because of one thing or

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Dear MIMsters: My Son’s Refusal to Speak Is Killing Me

My son will be 3 years in September. The problem is that at 3, he cannot communicate very well with me. He only has a few words like ball, egg, apple, water, give me, mine and this is killing me. When

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Tell My Friend or Mind My Own Damn Business?

Should I tell my friend or mind my own business? Whenever my neighbor’s wife is not around for some days like when she goes visiting with her parents, her husband would bring home different girls. They often carry out wifely

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Dear MIMsters: When Will It Be Okay to Tell My Healthy Parents and Siblings ‘No’?

I had my Ordinary National Diploma in 2015 without no support or help of my parents. Mind you, they are both still alive young and healthy but separated. They have been separated for over 15 years. I am 22. In

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Dear MIMster: How Do I Train My Daughter Without Breaking Her?

I need to know if my child is a genius or she is just being hyperactive like most children. I also need advice on how to channel her energy wisely without breaking her. I noticed right from birth that my

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Dear MIMsters: I’m Dying Slowly But My Husband Won’t Lift a Finger to Help Me

I got married 3 years ago and I have a 2-year old daughter. I’m 6 months pregnant now. My problem is that my husband doesn’t help me with the household chores at all. We are both professional teachers but it

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Dear MIMsters: I Feel so Guilty about Doing this with My Husband

My husband and I do not live in the same country. We have been living apart for over two years due to his inability ti secure his legal documents yet. We have one son. How we manage the situation is

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Dear MIMsters: My Boo Hurt Me and I Clapped Back. Was I Wrong?

So my boo and I had a disagreement in the car and he wouldn’t talk to me no matter how much I pleaded with him too. Out of anger, I told him he had the choice to drop me or

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Not All Men Are Beasts: My Happy Father’s Day to My Husband and All Men Like Him

I am writing this in the spirit of Father’s Day. I was in my final year at Nursing school when I found out I was pregnant with my 4th child. I remember lots of thoughts going through my heart. This

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Dear MIMsters: Please Help….How Do I Win Back My Mother’s Respect & Affection?

Hello MIMsters! I have a problem with my mother that I’m currently facing and I want the house to help me out on how to tackle the situation. I’m 25 years old and I live in my parent’s house with my

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Dear MIMsters: My Sister Thinks My Relationship Is Disrespectful to Her Husband. Is She Right?

I’m in a confused state and I do not know what to do. I’m 33 currently leaving with my immediate older sister in her husband’s house. I have been staying with them for 9 months now. I don’t like the

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Dear MIMsters: My precious daughter has been exposed pornography and it’s really messy

My daughter is 11 years old, a very brilliant and intelligent girl. She confides in me every detail of her life. She is God fearing, a girl who prays until she gets answers. I really thank God for such a

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Dear MIMsters: We have more power over our husbands than we think

On the issue of dealing with a cheating husband, I would like to share my story. We have more power over our husbands than we think. Here’s why; Few days ago, I laid beside my husband as he scrolled through

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Dear Mimsters: Should I still marry him?

My boyfriend is from Warri and I’m from Akwa Ibom. He wanted me to marry him early next year but he said he’s been hearing about the long bride price list in my place. So when my sister recently got married,

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Dear MIM: How Do I Deal With This Bitter Ex Feeding Everyone Tales About Me?

I wrote to you few months ago after my fiancé who thought I was cheating pulled a knife at me. Read here. Well, after doing a serious soul searching, I knew he was not the kind of man I wanted

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