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Dear MIMster: How Do I Tell My Cousin What I’ve Been Doing With Her Newly Wedded Husband?

How do I tell my cousin what I’ve been doing with her newly wed husband? I’m a 21-year-old girl in 300 level. I have a cousin that I like so much and she is very fond of me as well.

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Dear MIMsters: Hubby’s Niece Did This To My 2-Year-Old Son and I’m Expected to Forgive?

My hubby’s 13-year-old niece stays with us. Her father is late and I personally asked her mum to let her stay with us to ease her burden since she has two other daughters. However, I’ll never stop regretting that kind-hearted

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Dear MIMers: How Do I Deal With An Ungrateful And Too Money Minded Mum Like Mine?

I am 28 years old and the eldest of 4 children. The boys are 26 and 21 years while the girl is 16 and in high school. Though I’m from a poor family, my dad tried his best to help

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Dear MIMers: How Do I Move On After This Hard Blow From My Husband & Son’s Father?

I sought advice on this platform early last year about my newly-wed husband who doesn’t care about me and always wants me to apologise to him whenever we have issues. He would even disallow me access to food in the

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Dear MIMers: Is it Wise to Marry This Amazing Man Despite His Family’s Depressing Attitude Towards Me?

I’m a 33-year-old lawyer from an affluent home. I met my 27-year-old prince charming (also a lawyer) in Abuja about 2 years ago after a terrible heartbreak. He was then in Abuja for his youth service and served at the

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Dear MIMers: I’m Pregnant With My Best Friend’s Husband’s First Child

I’m very depressed right now and need urgent advice on the way forward. Lara (not real name) and I grew up together and anyone would easily think we were sisters because of our incredible bond. Her husband, who she married

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Dear MIMers: Should I Marry The Man Who Raped Me Because Of This?

I have a boyfriend I’ve been dating for the past 5 years now. We decided to abstain and get married as a virgin couple. However, last year December, I was raped by a friend in my aunt’s house. After a

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Dear MIMers: Should I Walk Away or Beg This Guy Who Keeps Breaking My Heart Again

I’m a 30 year old single lady in a relationship with a guy 3 years younger than I am. Our love story was wow in the beginning, but after a year, we started having incessant fights and arguments over real

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Dear MIMsters: How Living With My Husband Has Been a Nightmare

I’m about to make a life changing decision and need urgent advice because my life is now a nightmare. I have been married for 6 years but the last four years have been like a nightmare. I married my now

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Quit This Childless Marriage?

Should I quit my childless marriage? My husband and I got married 2 years ago after dating for about a year. I was about 30 at the time and eager to start my own family. About 8 months after our

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Dear MIMers: Hubby Doesn’t Want Me to Have His Baby

My hubby is over 25 years older than I am. We courted for about a year and I married him two years ago at 29, 3 years after his first wife’s death. They had 4 kids together and he has

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