After My Neighbour’s Hubby Went Down On Me, I’m Wondering If I Was Used

Thy deed has already been done, I can’t ask u to confess to ur husband or thy man’s wife, all I can tell u now is to go for a confession in church, cry and ask God for forgiveness, but thy way u are sounding I Guess u still want thy man which may lead to a more crisis, thy woman might forgive her husband when thy truth is out but ask urself if u husband, family, other neighbor will forgive u, be wise that man don’t care about u he only have sex with u just because he wanted thy satisfaction that time, leave another woman husband, if u can’t try convince ur husband so u guys can relocate, #myopionion#

WHAAAT!!! I’m short of words

Hmmmn, madam u are playing with fire. Few minutes of passion could ruin years of marriage. Adultery Neva pays. U beta repent and retrace your steps B4 u fall into that pit you are digging

I am too weak to write long sermon in this one. Just thank ur God that u were both not caught esp u cuz ur hubby would have kicked u out. Now Confess to God and move on with ur life ooo before it becomes another story altogether

You have allowed the spirit of immorality to gain access into your life and dat is why you are still craving for something that will shatter your family, tag you a bad person and leave you without anyone to wipe your tears. Honestly you need help, whether spiritual or human. You are not even bothered about your friend. You better wake up now and clear your head. That man will never leave his wife for you so even if you guys have sex again, he will only keep using you like a piece of trash and discard you when he’s satisfied. That is if you don’t get STD cos my guess is d man is a womanizer if not he wouldn’t have pounce on you like dat. Pls run 440 before you get yourself into trouble. Move out of dat compound if you and your family can. Ask God for forgiveness and mercy. Fill your heart with his word

Please retrace ur steps n remove dose negative thinking frm ur mind.

Please ask God for forgvness n move on. Tink of what ur frnd wil tink once its exposed

Nawaooh. Pls don’t look at that man again Beg God to forgive u.

This story is indeed complicated. No remorse whatsoever from the poster, you’ve sinned against God, your husband, and friend. Genuine repentance is necessary and seek forgiveness from God and your husband.

Poster talk true, u knew tge wife esz not around, u did not go to apologise anything. Na the size of the thing wey u see; u use style go see how e dey work. But I don’t have problems with you bc am sure your neighbour(the wife) go show you pepper when she eventually catches you. The man took advantage of the fact that he knew you came to experiment. If u dare go back 4 more, he will disgrace u&tell the wife u r toasting him . Like I said b4 I don’t care what happens to u cos u don’t even sound remorseful; its ur kids that the stigma wl b hunting that I pity

Hmmm, tank ur God dat he hv nt looked ur way since den bt d problem nw is dat u still dey look him way. Pls u hv no reason for ur action bcos u neva complained abut ur own hubby. Remember dat all hide n seek game hv an expiring date. So take ur time n talk to ursef and moreover, it’s beta u r been used by d man dan being sued for divorce by ur hubby n family

Haaaa!!! Madam you are playing with fire o. You are not even remorseful of what you’ve done. Please tell your pastor or priest and then get closer to God through prayers. Hmmm, you definitely don’t want to destroy two homes just because of sex. Instead, work things out to improve your Sexual relationship with your husband.

Controversial indeed,see dick wahala.really lost of words.

Madam seriously you need to flogged, so you don’t even feel any remorse or what??? I bet you will soon approach the man yourself for round 2. But just have it at the back of your mind that you are playing with fire.

Woman, he used you. Go check your status first.

Really??? What marvels me is the way adults have sex indiscriminately these days without any sense of responsibility. No one care about HIV, or any STD anymore, he went down on you without any form of protection, that’s how you will still carry your dirty self and go sleep with your husband and donate whatever he has deposited in you. You deserve to be flogged.

You want more orgasm abi? Go to your husband and tell him what you want. If it’s the grabbing that turned you on, just tell your husband to grabb you that way. Let him know what you want. Channel that desire for more to your husband. He’s also a man you know?. Begin to imagine him grabbing and doing those things to you. Take away shyness ok?
Take it one step at a time. Start by opening up to him about how you want to experiment new things in your bedroom. Then during the act direct him to touch you in places that excites you. Describe how you want the touch if he’s not doing it well. If you are the type who can’t say it. Then hold his hand during romance or whatever and direct it to where you want him to touch and move it the way you want him to do it. He’ll get it. Most men enjoy pleasing their spouses. I really do hope your hubby is not the bossy type or the ” remove your pants and let me sleep with you” type.
Let the experience be an eye opener and an encouragement to direct your man to your satisfaction. But DO NOT GO BACK TO YOUR NEIGBOUR’s HUSBAND. That’s a dangerous ground you are threading on. Think about all the people that will be hurt. YOUR HUBBY, YOUR KIDS, YOUR RELATIVES, YOU MAT LOSE YOUR MARRIAGE AND KIDS, PEOPLE WILL TAG YOU ADUTEROUS FOR LIFE, YOUR OWN FRIENDS WILL REJECT YOU AND NO ONE WOULD TRUST YOU AGAIN, YOU WILL LOSE YOUR NEIGBOUR’s FRIENDSHIP AND YOU MAY NEVER EVEN GET A SECOND ROUND ETC. Thisis just to name a few to get you to reflect on your actions. Ask GOD for forgiveness and ask him to help you enjoy sex with your hubby. He’s your father and he created you. He know’s what will tickle you. Tell him that you want to experience satisfaction in your sex life so he should direct you on what to do and how to do it and you’ll be amazed at what you can come up with. Please repent. I really fear for you. JUST DON’t GO TO YOUR NEIGBOUR’s MAN OK?
I was moved to pray for you yesterday. Just know that you’ll have God on your side if you repent.
THERE’s A WAY THAT SEEMETH RIGHT TO A MAN BUT THE END THEREOF IS DESTRUCTION. SHALOM.

Enjoy it while it last

Mon Gemini lol. Enjoy madam

Madam,u Sef u fit take am .truth be told u actually went there 4 another sight seeing and u got t .case closed.According t u you said u pretended as if u re angry .u both enjoyed t d man wanted u d day u saw his dick just like u cldnt take him out of ur head .the opportunity came n u both grabbed t.remember opportunity comes but once .

AR U SERIOUS? HABATICALLY

Sweetheart, I think your problem is that you’re sex-starved. You seem to be a sexually active woman whose husband is unable to satisfy in bed. My advice is simple: talk to your husband. Not about this mistake, but about your sexual lives. Get help from experienced sexual therapists, tell him things you like, things you want done to you in bed and things you want to do to him in bed no matter how deviant or extreme you think they are. Go ahead and try them. It’ll save your marriage.

As for your neighbour’s husband, talk to him. Not in his house or yours. Preferably in the open compound. Settle this issue and make a decision to either tell your spouses or not. Whatever you do, do not make the mistake of repeating this act because in tandem with african society, you’ll be seen as a whore, derided and treaed like scum. So apply caution, sense and prayer. Aiit? You’ll be fine.