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Dear MIMsters: 31 Weeks Pregnant and Looks Like I’m in a One Chance Situation

Dear MIMsters: 31 Weeks Pregnant and Looks Like I’m in a One Chance Situation

I’m 18 years old and 31 weeks pregnant and in a one chance relationship. It was not so from the beginning.

When  first realised I was pregnant, I revealed the news to the owner of the pregnancy who I have been in a relationship with for 3 years and he was so happy about it.

He then asked me to move in with him but his home was far from where I was staying and working. Later, I had to leave my job when I was about 15 weeks pregnant and decided to move in with him.

I was really puzzled when he turned around and bluntly stopped me from moving in with him until I give birth.

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I talked to my sister and she gave me some money to rent a place. He started visiting me at my new place. I was not happy with this arrangement at all. On his last visit, I accidentally stumbled across some messages on his phone while I was playing a game on it.

I became furious and asked him about the person and he said it’s just a friend. I let it be but she kept on calling and he kept ignoring her calls. I decided to copy down the number and started chatting with the girl. She admitted my fiancé is her boyfriend and they have made out a number of times.

I broke down and asked him about it and he was mute not until he recently told me that I should know that the girl I’m asking him about is his girlfriend and I should be ready to deal with it.

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I didn’t mind that but he told me all he wants from me is his child and nothing else. I really need your advise because I love him and wouldn’t mind being a single mother but am now I’m jobless and pregnant at the same time.

What should I do because I am not ready to give up my child to be raised by another woman?

View Comments (6)
  • Whatever you do, do not give your child up. And again, the earlier you realize that guy doesn’t love you the better.

  • Hmmmmnn…dont ever give him dat child…move on with life he nvr loved

  • First of all, u got pregnant, d discussion or plan was supposed to be to pay your bride price and not to move in with him. Now he has told u his mind, go to your parents, or mum or dad. Tell them cos u can’t fight him alone in terms of taking the child. You should look for who will help u with ur son when he is born cos u need to go back to skl. In the next five years, u will be a graduate and be able to secure a good future for u and your son. From now till years to come, cancel boyfriend, just lock your legs and throw the keys. U focus on your future and that of your son, u will still meet a successful man that will respect u when you know what you want in life. All the best

  • Please take care of your child yourself, don’t let him suffer for sin he did not commit.

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