Dear MIMsters: Why Are My In-laws Indulging My Husband in His Separation?
My hubby left home 2 weeks ago because we have been having issues. These issues are not infidelity related. Like, he stopped feeding at home and each time I asked, I got no answers.
At a point I had to explain to him that if this continued it may not be for the family’s good and which may lead to a separation. He later came to meet me that it’s better we go our separate ways.
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Few days later, unknowingly to me, he moved his things out and it’s been almost 2 weeks now. I have just realized that he has been staying with his sister and his mum lives there too.
I had initially gone to see his mum to explain things to her and to help beg him to come back home. This was the second day after he left but to no avail. I spoke to the brother too and a whole lot of other people. We have had conversations as to what exactly I did that was so bad and he made them known to me.
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And these things I have done those things countless of times since we got married and I promised I was going to change.
I just got to know this today and I was really taken aback as to how comfortable his mum and sister are to shelter him away from his family. We are blessed with 2 kids. How do I handle this? Please advice me
Let him be. He is not a baby to be begged. If he is tired, he will come back home.
Just give him a break, I hate when a man is behaving like a child.
Dnt forget dat u brot up d suggestion, so let him be for now, he might be doing dat to make change to a better person. He may want to teach sometin important for d continuation of d marriage, so wait ,pray nd learn.it is well.
hmmmn.if he doesn’t want to com home den leav him