Dear MIMsters: Did I Make a Wrong Move By Calling off this Relationship?
I called off the relationship with my Fiancé. I just want to know if I made the wrong move?
Since the past 3 months now, I have noticed some negative changes in the behaviour of this guy I have been in courtship with. I have observed and watched him carefully before I decided on making this move to break of our relationship even though it broke my heart to do so.
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We had agreed to get married by the end of this year (we have been together for 2 years), suddenly, he started taking counsel from his Pastor and the Pastor’s wife. This is now making him drag his feet and give me unreasonable excuses about forging ahead with our wedding plans.
He has reduced the way he calls and we hardly communicate these days. And when I complain, he doesn’t seem to care. In fact, he says I am pressuring him to get married.
He has very limited knowledge of women and when I buy books to aid his knowledge, he tells me that he doesn’t have time to read or come up with another excuse.
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He didn’t verbally tell me he is no longer interested but these signs to me are red flags. I officially broke of the relationship last week. Note: we both prayed and fasted for 1 week and got confirmation from God about our future together. I just want to know, did I make a wrong move by calling off the relationship?
You made a hasty decision if you ask me. I think you guys need to sit and discuss this issue then you can decide what to do next from his response.
You don’t throw away the baby with the bath water, your decision was hasty.