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Dear MIMsters: My Husband Blames Me for Losing My Baby

Dear MIMsters: My Husband Blames Me for Losing My Baby

I need advice before I do something stupid as I am in a totally confused state right now. My husband blames me for losing my baby.

I have a child who is over 2 years old. I had this child through a C-Section. Last month, I had another baby via a C-Section but lost the baby.

It is is barely 2 months since I lost this baby and hubby has started disturbing me for sex but since I didn’t give in to his request he has become a thorn in my flesh. He abuses me anyhow calling me names that I’m evil, a bad luck, and infact, that I’m the one who killed my baby.

My baby I carried for 9 good months, went to the theatre for but I still could not hold my baby. I’m emotionally depressed and traumatized. Instead of hubby to try to encourage me, the reverse is the case.

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We hardly see him at home, his phone is always passworded. I saw a comment he made on a lady’s wall because I’m a mutual friend to the lady. He wrote, “baby you’re so pretty'” and the Lady replied,  “thanks.”

He sent again, “I love you sweetheart.” This man is a so called born-again man. During the pregnancy I received beating like a baby.

I’m thinking of leaving the marriage hence, I need your advice.

View Comments (3)
  • I cannot be the one telling you leave your marriage, you’re the one wearing the shoes. Some emotional abuse is even worse than physical. Maybe you should give him a break for now to see if he can change.

  • What advice do you need again? Leave that man, he is toxic. Toxic people will blame you for just anything and everything.

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