As we know every woman needs a friend as form of support structure for those times when the challenges of life become overwhelming and to also add value and spice to their personal lives. In an Instagram post, Nollywood actress and single mum, Lizzy Anjorin shares her views on keeping many friends.
According to her, a woman that keeps many friends reduces her number of happiness as some women hate seeing their fellow women been happy or living large.
”If you don’t reduce the number of friends you keep, number of happiness might reduce in you… Statistically there is no age that reduce hate in women, women are their own enemy regardless of age or status.
Some women hate seeing their fellow women been happy or living large, especially when you table the beginning of your happiness; they will be the one to pray for you.
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Some will even call your attention to fasting and prayer, but let God say amen to your prayer: the boiling point of anger and hate in the same friends praying for you will rise to red point, they will start calling you names and start spoiling you with the little secret they know about you or huge fabricated lies just to see you crumble.. Why do you need friends??
My opinion is; it’s only puppet and coward that belief in friends.. Friends are like an attractive food, cooked with green frog: it has nothing to give to your system than poison.. When you are happy pretend as if you are not, when you have a butter tell them it’s an expired one because they will go to any length to put sand in your butter.
You can imagine how women hate their fellow women so much on social media now, Imagine what some friends will do in real life, I don’t expect some women to be pained and miserable that much, life is turn by turn. How can some ladies derive so much joy in evils, some don’t have money, time, data for something meaningful except miserable things.
If you make your fellow woman go through pains because of inferiority complex in you, you will pay in million folds.. note; number of your good deed among people will definitely determine your own happiness and success in life.
Many healthy marriage crashed and some productive relationship collapsed because of the HATE their friends injected in their fellow women relationship and that’s why some women will be in agony till the rest of their life. God is not maga, what you sow is what you will reap.
You don’t need to table your happiness in the midst of your friends because some of them have experience love for ‘donkey years’ but will acted as if they are okay but of course they are waiting for you to reveal the koko behind your happiness…
Some women need to reduce the hate in them before it drag them to mold of shame.”
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She has her reasons for avoiding friends and others have theirs for keeping friends. Some friends have been devilish, while some have been angelic. Just know what sort of friends you keep.
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