Am I being fooled by my husband and his mistress? I’ve been married for 4 years now. The first 2 years was hell for us.
About 2 months to our wedding, a lady who had been texting/calling my then fiancé but he claimed was just a friend called him on phone, per their conversation, she was hungry and was waiting for him to buy food for her. I took his phone and called her in his presence. I told her about our marriage plans. She told me she was aware but has decided to hang on cause I texted and insulted her with my fiancé’s phone.
I apologised to her and explained that I did that cause he told me he didn’t love her but she was the one disturbing him. After marriage, my husband kept calling and seeing her anytime we had a misunderstanding. This made me mad and we quarreled on this issue a lot. He then started sleeping in her house sometimes. I caught him coming out of her house at 4 a.m after leaving our matrimonial home that night for her house.
This went on for 2 years, so I packed my things out. When I went to the lady’s house with my mother in-law to let her know my complains were true, lo and behold he was there. I asked him to choose between me and her, and he chose her in my presence and his mum.
He called begging for me to come back. Called his best friend to also beg on his behalf. He later made a conference call (myself, him, his best friend & the girl) & told the lady it was over and she also accepted. It’s been 14 months now and I only got to know on Monday that they are still in communication.
Are they fooling me? The sad thing is that I have not been able to conceive again after a miscarriage during our second year of marriage. I need advice on what to do and how to proceed.