Kemi Adetiba Weighs In On The Viral ‘Women And Transactional Sex’ Topic Saying…
Few subjects are the viral topics for the season and one of it that is seemingly getting many people airing their views is “Transactional Sex.”
The issue came to fore after Nigerian lawyer turned rapper, Folarin ‘Falz’ Falana, 28, allegedly slut-shamed ‘runz girls’ in his latest effort titled, ‘Talk’ and was called out by his listeners who questioned his motive. He went on to reply them, “I hate transactional sex.”
Social media users, as a result, criticized him for being one-sided with his submission asking if men do not also engage in transactional sex. For that reason, he was called out for not attacking the men who demand for the services of the so called ‘runz girls.’
Many people- celebrities and non-celebrities- have since continued to air their views about the subject. Joining the race is delectable Nigerian film-maker, Kemi Adetiba, 39.
Adetiba opines that as much as she respects the fact that an adult is entitled to his/her opinion, she does not have to like or respect the said opinion.
She goes further to say she would not allow herself to be bullied into accepting what is wrong as right. And in as much as she would not want anyone she knows to engage in transactional sex, if they did, she would still love them, she would be forced to respect their decision but she would be highly disappointed in them.
In addition, the award winning television director posited that the fact they have a right to what they do with their body also does not make it responsible or respectable.
On going, she opined that she would also not mind being called to order by people who love her if she is veering off the course, and thinks it’s better for both her and those ‘lovers’ to make adjustment rather than make excuses for her and for themselves.
She concluded by stating that in transactional sex, both the ‘transactor’ and the ‘transactee’ ought to be called out because both do not deserve to be respected.
See her posts below:
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“I respect an adult’s decision to do whatever they please, but I DON’T have to like or respect the decision itself. And no one can “big sentence” me into rethinking black is white and white is amber. I am a discerning adult and WILL NOT take a hammer to my moral compass because some choose to connect dots so thin, you couldn’t even use the line to floss…”
This is certainly a topic that will stay a while on social space.