Nigerian mum-of-three, Jordan Smith, has made it clear she will not lie low and watch her three kids deprived while her estranged husband and father of her three kids goes on a giveaway spree in Valentine’s name.
The whole drama unfolded on Instagram when the estranged husband, @massivelord, posted a N50K giveaway challenge and people who knew of his struggling ex-wife and three kids found his gesture offensive and tagged Jordan severally. Jordan who mentioned that she works about four different jobs, including being a part-time Taxify driver to cater for her children tagged the Peak milk brand who appear to be the sponsors of the alleged deadbeat father’s giveaway.
It is not exactly uncommon to hear of men who are saintly to neighbours and extended family but have a totally different personality with their wife and children, Jordan’s situation appears to be one of such.
Going by Jordan’s claims, her ex-husbands’s alleged giveaway is a brazen flout of the basic code of kindness that says “charity begins at home“. The young mum went on to say her three kids eat four times a day and she spends between N80K-N100K for their monthly upkeep with the help of friends and family who assist her financially despite her unrelenting efforts.
Jordan had in a previous post on her Instagram page, listed all the reasons her marriage with her estranged husband did not work; including allegations of multiple sexual partners and persistent neglect of her and the kids.
The aggrieved mum further said in her post that she will be participating in the N50k giveaway challenge because their kids need new schoolbags, new shoes, and a feeding allowance among other things, and asked Instagram users to tag @massivelord because he had since blocked her from accessing his social media.
Read what she wrote below:
“Dear,@peak_milk, Good day to u.
..This the father of my 3 children
He should not be doing a giveaway on social media when he wont take FULL responsibility for his own children.
I just got back from a long trip driving to make ends meet because I am not a lazy woman!
I was notified by mutual friends about this giveaway…if we do not win this, I’ll drag u guys mercilessly.
You better meet your gentleman@massivelord to kindly send the giveaway #50k for the upkeep of his kids… Btw Sept 2018 and today. All we’ve gotten for upkeep is a half bag of rice and a carton of small noodles…plus the 40k added for the kids fees,
Everyday the kids eat 4 times.
1. From home
2. Lunch pack(with goodies)
3. Afternoon meal
4. Evening meal.
I spend about #2500 daily for the 3 of them. …on feeding alone
Dear @peak_milk @massivelord plus other home essentials, I spend btw 80-100k monthly.
I get support from my mom,@afriquechique siblings, my colleagues from biochemistry class in Unilag and friends.
I demand to have the giveaway for his kids…….
I work hard for my money.
I work @qtabyevents as a talent manager
I drive pertime on @taxify.ng when it gets really rough…”
See her original post below: