Celebrity stylist and mum-of-two, Toyin Lawani has shared her thoughts on why women should put up a united front with their exes.
According to the socialite, a child who grows up in a divided home ends up thinking that’s how life should be. Toyin who is a single mum herself urged “fighting” parents to put up a united front before their kids.
The serial entrepreneur admitted in her post that some men are indeed deadbeat fathers, but she insists that wpomen must factor in the fact that they can not replace the father of their child, however much that they try.
Sharing a photo of her baby daddy Lord Trigg, the stylist She wrote;
”A lot of people Don’t realize the meaning of Friendship, it’s about understanding, you don’t have to jump into bed with each other, knowing you have brought a great thing to life , for the betterment and mental state of The being that didn’t beg you people to Bring he or she to life ,
you have to make it all work out, you don’t have to be close ,but you can let them feel fatherly love, if a kid grows up in a divided home, they will grow up thinking like that and acting like that,and that’s how they will treat women, but when you show a United form infront of them ,
they will know better , even when you turn back 5secs later and corse each other out, you must find the inner strength to show up for important things for your kids.
No woman can ever replace the space of a father in life, no matter how you try or how hard we work we can’t replace dads, men will always fuck up, some won’t even support in caring of the kid and feel entitled and even if you replace their fathers space with a Good role model,
they will still grow up knowing that aint their papa,but you have to look past that and Show a United form for your kids.. Great leaders weren’t made in a day , they were trained from young .See Also
Their thinking and upbringing matters a lot. Eg trump and his wife the way they behave publicly and Obama and his wife the way they behave publicly,
for Obama you will know love leads, so how can you ask someone like trump to show love to other countries, when the man don’t know the 1st word of love amongst his family, take a moment and think about it.
This is to everyone out there hurting or regretting, let go and see what God will bring into your life, unlimited happiness, a sad person can never make anyone else happy in life. Make your kids happy, women need to stop blocking kids from their dads as form of punishment, na dem offend you?”
See a screenshot of her post below: