‘I Should Have Left Sooner’ –Dancer, Jeny BSG Narrates Her Domestic Violence Ordeal With Ex-fiancé
Congolese dancer, Jeny BSG recently took to social media to reveal that she was a victim of domestic violence in her previous relationship.
The dance queen had called off her engagement with her ex-fiancé, Ideologiste, in January 2021. Waiting for the right time, Jeny in a recent post, finally broke her silence and revealed what caused their separation.
According to her, she suffered different forms of abuses in his hands but still stayed with him because she thought everything would get better but it never did so she left.
She shared photos and videos of her battered face on her official Instagram page and disclosed that she wished she left the abusive relationship earlier.
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Read her full post below,
“I AM NOT AFRAID TO SPEAK ANYMORE!
Suffering different forms of violence throughout a relationship and being silent. Forgive, accept, endure, and fall in love again, think that everything will be better …
To be afraid to speak, to be afraid of the reaction of people. Be afraid of threats. Be afraid to go out. Being afraid of hurting someone and their career, Being afraid of dying if you speak up.
The blow I received was the LAST! It was TOO MUCH. And this is the one that allowed me to wake up and get out of this grip.
My life doesn’t end there. My life doesn’t stop at marriage I have so much talent, so many other much more positive and ambitious things to share with you. NEVER AGAIN .
I do NOT encourage harassment, I do NOT encourage hatred. So don’t try to get revenge for me. I don’t need revenge, I need to break free. Leave that person. Justice and divine justice will do their job. God is righteous, God is great. I do not worry .
For all women in this kind of situation even if in your opinion it is not serious and you are told that marriage is not easy & that you have to endure! At the first sign of violence leave !!!!!
I should have left sooner!Don’t wait for the fatal blow. GO !!!!
And for you my ex-fiancé I would like to say THANK YOU for honoring me in public I also say GOODBYE and FOREVER in public because If I stay, I die.”
