Nigerian TV presenter, Bolanle Olukanni, has advised women to be friends with a man first before they consider dating him.
According to the beautiful media personality, true colors come out quicker when people become your friends first before dating starts.
In her post, Bolanle averred that most people who go into relationships are not fake but rather present their best foot forward, then after a while the true personality comes out.
Below is full post…
“Y’all be friends with a guy before you decide to date them. I promise you really get clarity into their character, People can perform to win your affection but if they are strictly on a friendship level, they will show themselves for who they are.
Most people are not fake.. it’s More like it’s human nature to put your best foot forward. Sometimes its not their foot but Na borrow pose ?? . But if they are in your life as a friend true colors come out quicker.
It makes it easier to know if you truly like them. Cause after the attraction and initial butterflies.. can you hold a conversation with them ? Do you like their mind ? Are they a good person ? Like in life . Not just to you, but to the fabric of society.
Dears these questions will save ya a lot of disappointments and heartache. Fall in love with a person not how they love you. #wordstoliveby.”
