Nigerian professional dancer, Kafayat Safau popularly known as as Kaffy has stated that her marriage to music director and drummer, Joseph Ameh, failed for so many reasons and that she is grateful that it failed.
You will recall that Kaffy in a video she shared on her Instagram page on Tuesday, January 11th revealed that she and her husband are divorced.
According to the mother of two, marriage is supposed to be an alignment of destinies but that wasn’t the case for them so they decided to go their separate ways (Read Here).
However, in a new post, thanking those who checked up on her following her divorce announcement, Kaffy noted that she is glad her marriage failed because she was blind but now she can see.
Read her full post below…
“Those who know me know l am more than a dancer. I explore my full humanity through dance. I am an advocate for human excellence and productivity. My marriage failed for so many reasons and I am grateful I failed because I was blind and now I see. Follow me and I will show you what I saw so you won’t fall like me . And if you do, you shall rise.
My Truth has set me free from a lot that was wrongfully conditioned by various elements and one step at a time I will share :
– My mistakes
– how I identified them
– surviving depression
– my process to healing
– the kind of help I got
And so many life lessons I learnt and still learning ( I will always be a learner for life ).
People need to know ! A life out there can be saved , a marriage out there can do better than mine and more importantly, a second chance is always there for us all to take !
I love you !
Kaffy and her now estranged husband got married on June 2nd, 2012 and the marriage blessed with two wonderful children.