‘…But I Couldn’t Fix Mine’ – Gospel Singer, Dare Melody Speaks On Wife’s Painful Death
Famous Nigerian gospel singer, Dare Melody has spoken out on the painful demise of his wife, Adedoyin Odunuga nee Odagi.
In October, 2024, it was gathered that the gospel singer had lost his wife. The sad news was made on the singer’s Instagram page, where it was revealed that his wife died in the early morning of Thursday, 24th of October 2024.
During a wake keep in her honour, Dare Melody shared a heartfelt message, reflecting on their relationship and personal struggles.
In a moving tribute, Dare Melody opened up about the depth of his grief and the irreplaceable presence Adedoyin held in his life. Speaking to family, friends, and fans, the singer reflected on the strength, sincerity, and unwavering support that defined their relationship.
Dare fondly remembered conversations with his wife, where he asked her to accept his flaws and all as a musician and human being.
He stated that he tries so hard not to use what he is today not to destroy his future as he noted how he used to tell his late wife that whatever she hears of him, he is a musician and he is human; as such, she should accept him as he is.
He praised the deceased for being a truthful and honest wife just like he is. According to him, he doesn’t know how to lie.
His voice filled with sorrow, the widower noted how he used to mend people’s homes, but when the storm came, he couldn’t fix his own home.
The singer explained how he had often felt like a pillar for others, mending fractured relationships and offering comfort to friends and family. But as he faced his greatest trial yet, he realized the cruel irony of being unable to prevent the storm from tearing apart his own home.
“I try so hard for my today not to spoil my tomorrow. I used to tell my late wife, whatever you hear about me, we are musicians and we are human. Accept me as I am.
My wife, Adedoyin, was a very truthful and honest person, and I am also very truthful. I don’t know how to lie.
I used to mend people’s homes but when the storm came, I couldn’t fix my own home”.
He recalled the countless moments of vulnerability they shared, his wife’s genuine spirit serving as his anchor.
He reflected on how Adedoyin never wavered in her loyalty and compassion, traits he admitted he would struggle to find elsewhere. Her love for him and their family was steadfast, no matter the rumours or pressures that came with his career.
He praised Adedoyin’s unshakeable faith and resilience, which he said inspired him to be a better man each day.
Her influence, he admitted, extended beyond the walls of their home, serving as a reminder of what it meant to live truthfully and love unconditionally.
“Adedoyin’s honesty was a mirror I looked into every day,” he added, his voice breaking.
“I don’t know how to lie, and neither did she. She kept me grounded, and without her, I feel like I’ve lost a part of myself.”