‘My Father Wouldn’t Provide Food Whenever He Had Problems With My Mom’ -Man, Kelechi Says As He Wants Other Women To Take A Cue From How His Mum Handled The Situation

A Nigerian man, Mpa Kelechi has taken to Facebook to recount when his parents would have issues and his father would fail to provide food for the family for a week or a month.
He stated that despite this, his mother did not walk away from the marriage, rather she decided to learn how to do business and use to proceeds to buy food and take care of her children’s needs.
Kelechi disclosed this while addressing today’s women who leave their marriages over marital conflicts or their husband’s inability to provide for the family.
He went further to urge women to learn a skill or start up a business before entering marriage.
He wrote:
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“I remember while growing up if my mom and dad had a problem my father would not provide food for a week and even a month sometimes and my mother would be the one taking care of everything which is not good as a father but we her children would decode that there was a problem but my mom didn’t leave the marriage due to it but rather she turned it into knowing how to do business.
But this our generation any marital quarrel that results in no physical äbüse or continuing not providing food for the family bööm they will leave the marriage and tag it my mental health is more important than the marriage.
Madam Marriage is not rosy and will never be. For many of us here, our fathers made our mothers jäcks of all trades due to our fathers’ continuous inability to provide food at home.
Madam go and learn work, start up something before entering marriage to avoid leaving your marriage unnecessarily because no marriage out there is perfect okwu nke oseburuwa.”
His post was met with mixed reactions with many condemning him for trying to make his parents marriage a standard other women should use…
One @Cynthia wrote:
So your father’s marriage to your mom is now a standard. A man that keeps malice to the extent of starving his kids. Ladies of nowadays won’t never be like your mom. GenZ and millennials are from another planet bruh.
@Emma added:
So because you learned your father’s tricks to be using on your wife you want women to endure. Wicked man.
@Anonymous:
Don’t mind them. According to the Bible that they always try to use to justify their nonsense, any man that does not provide for his family is worse than an incident. His father was worse than an infidel. And if he is married, you can bet he is already dragging his wife through the same bullshit. Yet these same men will commit murder if their daughter is abused like that by any man.
@FMmoney:
That father is a useless father, I’m in my 50’a and my old man was a total asshole to me because I happened to be the closest to my mother, I didn’t know he was a total plonker till I had my own kids and as I watched them grow, it was just normal to me back then but now with older children and I love them to bits, nothing can make me treat them the way I was treated, nothing on this earth!