‘Nobody Struggles Hard Like A Woman Trying To ‘Pepper’ Her Ex-husband’ – Nigerian Journalist Addresses Divorced Women In Insightful Post
A Nigerian journalist, Abdullahi Haruna Haruspice, has addressed divorced women trying so hard to make their ex-husbands jealous.
In a post shared on his Facebook page, the PR practitioner stated that nobody struggles hard like a woman who is trying very hard to pepper her ex-husband.
According to him, in the process of trying to pepper her ex, she goes overboard over tasking herself, mentally draining herself, incurring needless expenses and even taking very dangerous risks.
The journalist advised such women to try to let go of the past and rebuild their lives instead of seeking validation from their ex-husbands.
In his word, divorce is not a ”shame sentence” and that they owe no one any validation.
Below is his full post:
“Nobody struggles hard like a woman who is trying very hard to pepper her ex-husband. In doing this, she goes overboard over tasking herself, mentally draining herself, incurring needless expenses and taking very dangerous risks.
Dear sister, it is your marriage that failed, not your life. You owe nobody any validation. Try to relive a new life and discard the one that happened in the past.
Life is like the onion, it gives us the opportunity to live in layers -that one layer is off, does not mean you are finished. Hell no! You are actually given a new lease to regenerate into something new.
Divorce is not a shame sentence, it is the room you exit when the heat is much and smokey. Drop the venom, live again – this time in happiness.
When you are fixated in impressing or oppressing your ex, it shows something – it means you are still in pain with the past. Let it go and fly in liberty. Gaskiyally musing.”
