‘Treat Women As Equals, Not Property’ – Oniru Of Iru, Others Tell Fellow Men As They Make A Firm Case For Women
The Oniru of Iru, Oba Abdulwasiu Lawal Abisogun II, has urged his fellow men to treat women as equal partners, not as property in building the society.
The celebrated monarch made the call during Nigeria’s 3rd Men-Only Townhall Meeting, held at Oniru Palace, Victoria Island, Lagos.
The event with the theme: “Strengthening Family and Community Bonds: The Role of Men in Protecting Women and Girls,” brought together traditional leaders, religious figures and professionals to promote shared responsibility and cultural accountability.
According to the king:
“Men must stop viewing women as possessions. Women deserve equal rights, voices, and aspirations.”
He challenged men to take a firm stand against all forms of abuse and create safe spaces where women were supported, protected and empowered.
In his opening remarks, the monarch highlighted the weight of fatherhood and the need for men to continue learning. He stressed the important role religious leaders play in protecting women and girls through education and advocacy.
The monarch pledged the support of Iru Kingdom for similar initiatives and affirmed the palace’s commitment to financially backing future programmes that promoted family and societal stability.
The News Agency of Nigeria, NAN reports that the meeting stressed teaching boys cultural values that promote respect for women.
Financial responsibility remains a key role for men, as traditional providers in families. Participants agreed that caring for women and girls is a duty, not a choice, for all institutions.
Chief Abayomi Daramola, Balogun of Iru and Chairman of the meeting, addressed Nigeria’s parenting challenges.
He emphasised a father’s key role in shaping children’s values and character within the home.
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Keynote speaker, Mr Balogun Murtala, also called on men to raise empathetic sons and reject the marginalisation of women.
“Men must foster environments where women can thrive and express themselves freely,” he said partly.
He called for communities to spread messages of care and responsibility towards women and girls.
Sheikh Taofeeq Abulabeebah, Chief Imam and Director at Daaru-Sa’aadah Islamic Centre, stressed early education on marriage and equality for boys.
He urged men to commit fully to protecting and caring for women and girls.
Pastor Olamilekan Adewale of the Redeemed Christian Church of God spoke on love and accountability. He advised men to lead by example and raise children with solid moral foundations.
The Ashipa of Odi Olowo community, Mr Deji Oluwalonimi, said many African problems begin at home. He urged traditional and royal institutions to confront these issues directly and openly.