Nigerian Women Cry Out After Alleged Romance Scam By American Man Popularly Known As J-Love
Several Nigerian women have come forward with shocking accusations against an American man popularly known as J-Love.
The women accused him of scamming them emotionally and financially after he was brought into the country.
The incident was revealed in a video shared on X (formerly Twitter), where some women recounted how they were deceived by J-Love, who promised them relationships and a future together—only to manipulate, exploit, and eventually dump them.
In a now-viral video, one of the victims explained that despite noticing early red flags, she ignored them because he was American.
She shared her experience, revealing that she had sponsored his flight from the U.S. to Nigeria, introduced him to friends, and believed she was building a future with him, only to discover his true intentions.
Her account reads in part:
“There were lots of red flags from the beginning but again, he’s an American. I introduced him to a lot of people and he scammed everyone. He scammed me of about $10,000. I paid for his flight from America to Nigeria.”
“He had all my credit cards, my signature, even put me as next of kin while taking loans. The first three emails I saw were child support cases.”
She further explained that J-Love had allegedly scammed not just her but multiple women, pretending to be in serious relationships with them while reportedly collecting money and sensitive personal details from each of them.
According to her, J-Love planned to permanently relocate to Nigeria to live with her. She admitted she had high hopes, especially because she knew someone who met their spouse online and went on to have a happy family.
She shared further:
“I felt, ah, that could happen to me too. He treated me like a queen. I used to tell people he worships me.”
But after settling in, his attitude reportedly changed. He allegedly became rude, verbally abusive, and even manipulative. She recounted:
“He started yelling, telling me I’m bothering him. One day, he told me I’m broke.”
More disturbing was the discovery that he had stored personal and financial information — including credit card details, signatures, and account logins — on his hard drive. The woman shared:
“All my credit cards, front and back. He had my signature. He had my daddy’s signature. All the login details to my accounts.”
She said she later found emails on his device that hinted at child support issues and other concerning activities, suggesting he had a pattern of using women to fund his lifestyle. She said:
“This guy was collecting loot and listing me as part of his things.”
Other women have since confirmed having similar experiences, all falling for the same sweet-talking charm that left them heartbroken and financially drained.
“He can sweet talk. I can’t blame any girl that fell for his trick.”

