‘He Is A Good Man But…’ -Yoruba Actress Kemity Opens Up On Her Failed Engagement (Video)
Nollywood star Kemisola Apesin, better known as Kemity, has opened up about her failed engagement to Herod Lammy.
In an interview with her colleague, Biola Bayo, the talented actress revealed that her ex-fiancée wanted them to have a child together, which she refused.
Kemity noted how she is in the peak of her career and is making money; hence, she can’t risk slowing it down.
To make the matter worse, she and her ex share the same genotype as they’re both AS, making them unfit to be parents. According to her:
“Things didn’t work out between us. He is a good man, and he is okay. He loves my job, but things didn’t work out. The reason is that he wanted me to have a child now, and you know, my children are growing gradually.
It’s not as if I can’t get pregnant now, but I can’t leave my career. This is the peak of my career, and I am making money now. If I decide to go home for three years, my career will slow down.
We discussed it, and he agreed, but I noticed that he wasn’t okay with it. He has had a child before. We couldn’t sort it, I am AS, and he’s also AS.”
Also, in the interview, the movie star shared the story behind why she has two kids from different men, as she noted how people always mock her because of it.
The busty actress said the father of her first child was the one who deflowered her, but he was killed in a hotel after he returned from Malaysia. She stated that she became a widow following his death.
In 2023, Kemity had revealed, via her Instagram page that she was engaged. She shared a video of her rocking her engagement ring as she announced to the world that she was finally off the market, and had said Yes to her boo.
“My last relationship with Herod Lammy couldn’t work because he wanted us to have a child together but we are both AS”
– Actress Kemity pic.twitter.com/VjxRAelDbD
— Nollywood Citadel (@Nolly_Citadel) July 9, 2025